If we were to be together would you be upset by it? would it change your view of me?
2007-06-23 18:37:44 · 14 answers · asked by kells 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in my line of work we were not touched and no i never ever put out for money im a dancer not a hooker?
2007-06-23 18:45:36 · update #1
No - wouldn't bother or upset me at all in the long run. I'd probably be surprised when you first told me, but in the grand scheme of things there are more important things than your "flash for cash" past. (Hell, there are people out there who can't even get nekkid for free...)
Besides - if we were together, I'd be getting the "flash for free" benefits plan. (Wouldn't I?) 8P
2007-06-23 22:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy....but I can answer this one. If they just wanted to date you or sleep with you....probably not. If they thought about taking you home to meet the family....YES. No matter how you want to look at it....to some extent you sold part of yourself for money. I'm not judging you, or even saying anything is wrong with it....just admitting you will be judged for it. And if people say you won't.....they aren't being honest. I would suggest keeping that job to yourself until you are further along in a relationship. Let the guy see who you are now, and not judge you for who you were then. Make sense??
2007-06-23 18:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by wendy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me personally no, but it might bug some other guys. Some think that the dancers do things for bigger tips with customers after the place closes. (which again, some do, but not all). It would change that guy's view of you.
2007-06-23 18:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by plezuplezme04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw it wouldnt bother me personally unless you would rather go back to doing that then being together. but some guys might be jealous if you happened to dance for their freinds but it really shouldnt be a problem. Guys sometimes like it when you can show off these things.
2007-06-23 18:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by enigmapretzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!! THats a positive thing u could give me a Private show with exotic clothes and movest his i a turn on i would love to have u as my gf ....
2007-06-23 18:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would not bother me. Would not be upset. Would not change my view. Would ask you to dance though...
2007-06-23 18:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not at all. As long as you never put out for $$, you gotta live somehow. Take advantage of us weak men girl! You were just dancing anyway.
2007-06-23 18:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by rich e rich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe a little bit. but i would probably get over it because you could dance for me in private. and give me lap dances and really know what you are doing.
2007-06-23 18:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be fine with it, besides it was two years ago and it had nothing to do with me, would it change my view of you...yes, i would question your judgement on values and money.....
2007-06-23 18:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Twinkie Thief 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess not cause u do try that on me for free but serious well it depends on the business ur taking
2007-06-23 18:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋