So. All my life I have been the ugly girl w/ pretty friends. So all the guys I have ever liked, Have liked my freinds. So I am 15 years old, never had a boyfreind.
So, I met this guy and he is 17... yupp two years older. And we had talked a lot. I was at house (he invited me over) and he kept putting his legs all over me and tickleing me and what I considered flirting. So I stayed for 2 and a half hours from 9:30PM to 12:00AM. Than I got home and about 12:30AM I got a call from him. We talked for a while and he said "But seriously, do you like me?" and replied "I don't know..." and he said "Thats not a serious answer" and I said "Yes it is... there is things I like about you and things I dislike about you" And than I asked him the same question and got the same answer. We talked about both those and he said I was easy to talk to... and beautiful and some other stuff. Then today he said I am to young. And asked me to hook him up w/ one of my freinds. Im so confused. Whats he thinking?
2007-06-23 19:05:36 · 23 answers · asked by ☮ Miss ♥ Sloan ♫ Amor ツ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he knew how old I was. And the funny thing his he has never seen any of my freinds. Never met any of them.
And he always asks me to go for a ride with him in his car when its late.
And all my freinds are the same freakin age!?!
And supposedly im "beautiful" so why does he want my freinds?
I am so confused!
And pretty freakin emotional at that!
I am sick of being used and hurt!
I know when you put your whole heart into things its easy to get it broken but I cant help it.
I feel sick to my stomach.
ahh.
I hate boys. =-]
2007-06-23 19:17:30 · update #1
By the way for everyone to know I am not a slut I dont dress like a slut or anything and I am saving myself for marriage and he knows that. I told him stright up when we first met I am a virgin and plan to stay one until find the right guy. And that was forever ago and he was cool with it then...
2007-06-23 19:24:09 · update #2
I added a picture.
Not a very good one.
But A picture none the less.
Just so you all can see.
I have long blonde hair and blue eyes. I am kinda tall.
2007-06-23 19:35:22 · update #3
wow! man when i was reading that at first i thought it was very sweet and was sure he must really like you but then that last part!? what the hell! first of all 15 is not really to young for 17 i mean com on thats a couple years, my girlfriend is 6 years younger then me (im 28 shes 22) so thats dumb your not to young for him, as far as him asking you to hook him up with your friend......uhhhh tell him to suck your ******, seriously stand up for yourself dont let guys treat you like that thats bullsh*it , people will respect you more and you will get walk on less if you stand up for yourself and dont just let guys pull crap like that and get away with it. you need to tell him that hes a fuc*king moron for even asking you too hook him up with your friend ,if he likes her then he should go to her and hook himself up rather then be a puss*y as*s little bit^ch and try to get you to help him out. i dont know what you look like so i cant say if your pretty or ugly or whatever but i promise you you can get a guy and you DO NOT need to tolerate guys playing games with you. you will find the right guy sooner then you think just so long as you dont waste a bunch of your time with guys like him.
2007-06-23 19:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by None 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girl, but I think Beverly C is right, this guy is slime. And I know your going to read this and think its complete crap, but like you when I was your age I was devastated I'd never had a boyfriend. And I totally thought it was bc there was something wrong with me. Now I'm 19, and looking back on it, maybe if I had been a little more daring, I could have gotten a guy. But really, the thing is, I didn't love myself, and any relationship I would have had would most likely have been complete crap, not that relationships are usually very deep at that age in general. Through high school, I was able to do alot of soul searching, and am in a much better place now. The point is, I wish I hadn't wasted soo much time worrying about "what was wrong with me" and more time learning to like me. It really isn't the end of the world, you'll get a boyfriend eventually, and hopefully then, you won't think of yourself as the "ugly friend," I'm sure that's not the case, your beautiful girl, and if you want to show it to the world, then show it to yourself.
2007-06-24 02:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well onething id like to tell u hny that ur too young to go for this sex things so first of all beware that someone might use u once for their satisafction and ur left out like some dirt in the corner so let some realtionship grow and secondly dont trust yet till u really feel no one is ugly in this world its the beauty that lies in the eyes of beholder and sooner or later u may find him and stop blaming urself for being ugly and just give upurself to some stipid guy wait for the right time i am 100 kg women not very pretty but if u look at my bf he is slim and so nice and he loves me more then anything in this world and we will be marrying by the end of this year sooooo dont help him in anyway as he might be using to get access to ur friends by using u first
2007-06-24 02:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not worry it is better to start as being friends let people know your personalty and being two years older means nothing 15 is still young and the old saying goes the older you get the better and that is so true the right guy will come around just don't go looking for it and it will happen . and now you have a taste on what guy's can be so beware Ok!
love ya and take care
2007-06-24 02:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by MSG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. He's a fag and he wants to hook up with your friends like he asked. I have had the same problem untill i got a Boyfriend. [i'm 13] But my boyfreind used to like my friends too. I think he gave me a try because i told him how i felt before he asked out any of my friends. So next time just tell the guy you like him. You might never know.
2007-06-24 02:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, I am sure you are just as pretty as your friends and there is a guy out there who will notice and appreciate you for you. Never sell yourself short. Guys will treat you the way you let them treat you. Make them respect you. The right guy will appreciate that. I know it sucks but you are still young and have plenty of time. You will find someone when you stop looking and just be yourself. Don’t try to be like you friends, guys might want them just for one thing and you are better than that. You want a guy that sees past all that and likes you for you remember that
2007-06-24 02:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eitherhe sincerely wanted u to like him, because he likes you too, or maybe he wanted you to like im just to boost his ego. It could be one of those. And when you said "I don't know"....and then you dislike some things about him, although a frank answer...it probably hurt him a bit..and he replied the same way to u, so he doesn't seem like a loser. Since he did not get what he wanted from u, he wants to move on to some other girl (maybe to even make u jealous, or to test if u will be possessive or not). That's my interpretation.
But U r the best judge of his character. Take care.
2007-06-24 02:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is like any guy he just wanted to get in your pants thats all sorry to have said that. If a guy does not give you a straight answer then he is lieing or keeping something from you that is all.
2007-06-24 02:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try to be more confident before you try to get a bf . you know, love yourself and other will too? heck, my first boyfriend was when i was 15 and trust me, i turned out just fine when it comes to men. as for the guy, forget it; or more like, tell him to forget it. he cant be flirting with you (well, i think he wanted to sleep with you) and then asking to hook him up with someone else. you're better than this and he has to see that.
that's what i think, anyway
2007-06-24 02:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by crazybgprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just it, you are to young (to him) maybe try to act older than 15 but without acting like an adult, see how girls his age act and try to be like that. he does seem to like you, and if he really does, he will at least take a chance with you. my boyfriend is 32 and im 24. he is 8.5 years older than me. he had a problem with it at first, but has gotten over it, because he has strong feelings for me and didnt let age get in the way.
also when it comes to guys, you have to play their game. agree with him that he is to old for you and see how he reacts
2007-06-24 02:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋