LIKE-I'm only 17-and I see girls that are too gorgeous-me and my friends think its a money waster to ask a girl out to a date that knows too many guys or too many guys adore them...LOL
we are just wasting money when you can get married and you know for sure its not a waste and every penny was worth it or every peso-
is this a good way to not date a girl you think-would be just a money waster?
open to ladies and gents-I want as many answers.
2007-06-23 18:41:58 · 6 answers · asked by Count Ez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like it or not, if you want a woman in bed, you will always have to "waste" money on dates, whether she is your wife or not.
If you don't take your wife out on dates, she will divorce you and leave you for a guy who does.
Its not "waste". It's invest. Invest money on dates. Now if the girl is too pretty but seems like a good wife material, good girl, loyal, good family, its a good investment, because she could be your wife. Invest. If you invest your money on flavor of the month, you will lose it the next month.
Invest your money wisely. :-). Invest your money where you'll get increasing returns, long term growth.
Another thing, if money is tight, ask her if she cooks, and that you want to taste her cooking or help her cook, or learn to cook together. Get a homecooked meal. Then you tell her, wow, this is amazing. I really appreciate it. I feel that you value everytime I take you out, because you give back and you are generous.
Eventually, encourage a woman to pay for something else. You pay the meal, and she pays movie tickets or shares cost, or cooks a meal at home. You pay tickets, she pays somethng else, then its not a money waster. You get your costs compenstated, and maybe even return on investment, and profit.
Invest wisely.
2007-06-23 19:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Madame Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you enjoy the girl's company and have a fun time on the date....would you consider the money wasted? Dating is a process that should be enjoyed by both the man and the woman. It is the journey, more than the destination right now....unless you plan to get married in the very near future. My advice....I suggest you stop worrying about the money you are spending on a date and just enjoy getting to know the girl. And just incase you have the idea that the buck stops at the altar and that marriage saves you money in the long run....hahaha! GUESS AGAIN!
2007-06-24 01:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Merry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are completely crazy. NEVER get married to save money. it will cost you SOOO much more money in the long run. If you are too cheap to ask a nice girl out on a date, then you are definitely not ready to hand over your entire paycheck to her every week. dumbass.
2007-06-24 01:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by moodymomma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about wasting money, the marriage will not work.
You should be more concerned with building a relationship instead of a bank account.
Marriage is a relationship. not a bank account
2007-06-24 01:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by jim c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maaate
if your friends jumped off a bridge would you?!
do you only take girls out and spend money on them for one thing or are you seriously looking for a relationship.
2007-06-24 02:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just get married
2007-06-24 01:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋