Family & Relationships - 23 June 2007

a married couple having a threesome or group sex is considered ok? They're all casual sex anyway, aren't they? And they all carry their fair share of STDs too

2007-06-23 04:18:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-23 04:17:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this is my story ,my husband propose me and talk with my parents...then we got married ...i don't know about him much before marriage,after marriage he and his family suddenly start ruling on me talking in rude way like i am his door mat,his mom is very famous, they are very greedy for money,and he follows his mom always,she told me she want more money from my parents..his nature is not good..no one his good friend..he is very different kind of person some times he is good and some time he is very bed ..I dint want to tell my family about this bcoz they will worried...I feel should I die..?I was working bcoz of him i have to left my job bcoz he got on site..but here he always watch girls and told me that he wants to come here be for marriage...
plz help me what to do...he never cares me..never....I am beautiful and an engineer,he wants me to all house work...and he treat me like i am his doormat..should i leave him or should i die??plz help me...

2007-06-23 04:13:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 15 yr old girl. I'm not addicted to the stuff - honest, but any time I DO DO it I feel so guilty - and I R R R don't want to do it.

Any advice?

2007-06-23 04:11:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why?

2007-06-23 04:10:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 32 & hes 30 everything was ok until tuesday when he said he was feeling down, ive not seen him since saturday and when i did it seemed perfect. since telling me he felt down, he will not answer the landline hes mobile rings the 1st time i ring then it gets turned off and he will not reply to my messages. If anyone has an insight into a mans brain then please share it, thanks

2007-06-23 04:10:11 · 16 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have agreed not to invite kids, even if they are related to us by blood. My friend, however, brings her one-year old everywhere - even to the bathroom! Her kid has hit his head at least twice and has a cut lip from the time he fell down (she brought him to a college reunion - where he was the only kid present!)
My fiance has already suggested that we don't invite her and her husband if she keeps bringing her kid even if it's a "no children allowed" event (like the reunion).
I have hinted to her that her kid would be the only child there, and she thought that it was a complement or something!
>.<

2007-06-23 04:10:01 · 21 answers · asked by doktorangbaliw 4 in Weddings

Good excuses to avoid a wedding where i dont want to see half the people there.

2007-06-23 04:05:09 · 26 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Weddings

My daughter is half hispanic. And I've been teaching her Spanish as I'm learning it. My dad can't stand it. (I live with my parents) Is it wrong for me to teach her this? How do I tell him that I want her to be able to speak both languages and be a part of both of her cultures?

Chloe's dad is not a part of her life and won't be. But is it still wrong for me to teach her Spanish?

2007-06-23 03:54:35 · 10 answers · asked by Endellion 4 in Family

I dont have much of a clue about nightclubs. I have never been to a club so i dont know what they are like, or how much it costs to get in. My question is geared towards people who go clubbing in birmingham, but im asking people who go clubbing anyway. How much is it to get in where you live in the UK and what is it like.

Am i missing out on a good thing or am i missing out on nothing. I get the impression that nightclubs are cattle markets, the music ringing in your ears util you go deaf, and you have to shout to get heard. Am i right?

2007-06-23 03:47:41 · 2 answers · asked by sarah 6 in Friends

So I have a friend and we randomly talked on IM for 5 hours. Then always when i sign on he IMs me or when he signs on he'll IM me. The I was pasting a picture in my profile/blog thing and i told him to look at it and before he responded im like "its a bad pic of me"and hes like "no, its good" so I put a smiley face.
Do you think he likes me? What do you think?

2007-06-23 03:37:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has told me that she had a lot of bisexual feelings when she was younger and even experimented with other girls. She still occasionally comments on how a female friend, actress, or colleague is sexy. However, she has said that she is not willing to bring another person into our relationship, although has never explained or qualified the statement.
But I have these crazy strong fantasies, like the two of us picking up a girl at a bar and tag-teaming her or inviting a single female house guest to sleep in our bed with us. Ocassionally, she asks me what my fantasies are, and I tell her nothing -- that I'm happy with our sex life (generally, I am) -- or I make something up because I'm afraid how she would react. She has told me, "Fantasies are called that because they're not real." But even if I told her that I would never act on my lust for another woman, is it a mistake to admit that I fantasize about it? She might take it as a reason to distrust me.

2007-06-23 03:35:35 · 32 answers · asked by fluvial_shell 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A close friend of mine's husband had an "emotional affair" with another woman he worked with. They seperated for awhile, but not long after he starting begging for her forgiveness. He said he knows what a mistake he made and that the other relationship went no further then emotional and some kissing. My friend and her husband have a one year old son together and she is pregnant due in August, so she decided to give him another chance and work things out.

He has been doing everything he can to make her trust him. He quit his job so he has no contact with this woman anymore, he changed his cell number so she can't contact him, he's trying to prove himself to her and I can see he's really trying. But she can't get over what he did. Not that I blame her!

I've never been cheated on, espeically not to this degree, so I don't know how to help her. Will she ever be able to look at him and not think of the other woman? I want to give her advice but I don't know how to help.

2007-06-23 03:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by Momma! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i know its a dumb question but i got ppl who would like to know.........and i mean besides there personality,do they find the girls attractive???

2007-06-23 03:34:19 · 25 answers · asked by MiseryBusiness 1 in Singles & Dating

the 1 reason i would not go in the pool when the boy i liked got there was b/c i look huge in a bathing suit...but he wanted me to go in wat should i do?

2007-06-23 03:32:30 · 13 answers · asked by MnMlovesNOAH 1 in Singles & Dating

If a beautiful woman from a local city sparks an interest in you over Match.com and this person says that she is modelling for a clothing company in Nigeria, would you believe them. Also, this new email has several mispelled words. Did I just give my email address to a Nigerian scammer?

2007-06-23 03:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Singles & Dating

I've got a bestfriend, she is really beautiful, but i'm not. We have been bestfriends for many years and we've became like sisters.Then a guy from another school saw her picture that a friend of my best friend showed it to him. Then that guy started calling her and within a week they went out, since they went out, my best friend changed she started keeping secrets from me, she was different Then one day, she came crying, and said he asked to break up with her, because she found out that he was dating like 7 more girls behind her back i felt sorry for her, i comforted her, and she became my old bestfriend again, sweet and caring. she got a makeover, curled her hair, and started putting makeup, which made her even prettier than before. Her ex saw her new look and decided to get back with her i told her not to go back with him cuz if he can do that to her then he can do it again,but she doesn't listen and became the person that i really dislike i want my bestfriend back!!what can i do?

2007-06-23 03:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by calysta~! 1 in Friends

2007-06-23 03:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 5 years wants to leave in september when our lease is up to travel the world. i can't just up and leave because of family and my job. he is fine with giving everything up including me to travel for a year (he says). i don't know how to deal with this. this is extremely upsetting because i want to marry him (eventually). any advice?

2007-06-23 03:19:19 · 21 answers · asked by kodak.sell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 03:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-23 03:16:53 · 27 answers · asked by Wisdom 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is love replaceable?

2007-06-23 03:13:40 · 14 answers · asked by Wretched Bonsai 2 in Marriage & Divorce

guy told me he would call last night, he never did, yet i know he was up late as i saw him briefly online, i called around 10pm but i checked my computer around at 1am and he was online so i know he was up late
still no call, so i called again in the morning, asked why he didnt call , his answer was tone of voice in an angry way/agitated "because i just didnt". Why no reason and why so nasty? I asked him what he did last night to make conversation, he said he went out with his friends.
keep in mind we are "dating", he is keeping his options open as its not official, is it possible he went out on a date or something just to cover up? or overreacting?

2007-06-23 03:10:54 · 4 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-23 03:04:12 · 18 answers · asked by loadcee 1 in Weddings

where would it be... what would you do (besides the obvious).. what time of year? what kind of wine?

2007-06-23 02:54:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok so im going with my girlfriend to her leaving ball. It isn actualy a prom but i still want it to go well for her.

I bought a new suite and everything but im really nervous about going cause ive never been to one before.
Im not from her school so i wont know anyone and i just want everything to go right for her.

So normally we are roughly the same height as each other. Problem is she said she got heels and she will be taller than me on the night.

I just dont want people to think its stupid on the night and i dont want to make anything arkward. or embarres her or anything.

What do you think i should do ?....is there anything i can do ?
Just im really nervous about going to it now.

2007-06-23 02:38:15 · 9 answers · asked by seth_cohen_fan 1 in Singles & Dating

Like Match.com or Eharmony.com? Do you know many people who did? Do you think it really works well?

2007-06-23 02:36:28 · 14 answers · asked by Smiley 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i think that one of my coworkers here at my job likes me b/c every time he calls to our phone he is like hey sexy are you working hard. Oh that is nothing he is married. I have a b/f , but how do i tell him to back off with out being so mean?

2007-06-23 02:35:31 · 11 answers · asked by CRYSTAL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-23 02:32:23 · 14 answers · asked by Sidereality 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Last 7 years, Ive dated only women 15-20 years elder than me.......! are there people here like me? a few friends are telling its not good..but its been smooth..

2007-06-23 02:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating