I'm a 15 yr old girl. I'm not addicted to the stuff - honest, but any time I DO DO it I feel so guilty - and I R R R don't want to do it.
Any advice?
2007-06-23 04:11:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's natural.
2007-06-23 04:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My goodness you should not feel guilty. It is natural, it is good for you, it gives you a glow that makes you more attractive to guys, and the good thing is you don't get pregnant or catch some STD.
I masturbate a lot and have been for several years. It helps me sleep and to relax so I can study more effectively. I'm in college now but I have alway made very good grades.
I'm pretty so I don't have any trouble getting dates but something interesting that I discovered is that when I tell a guy I masturbate a lot, he seems to go bonkers over me. If I should ever have trouble getting dates, that is my ace in the hole.
2007-06-23 11:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are the lucky one! I wish I had been able to see myself as a sexual being at 15. I wasn't able to physically handle masturbating until I was 25. I would get violently sick to my stomach and I felt trashy. Then I had to go through the guilty feeling as well. Everyone does do it. It's a natural part of life.. and may very well help you with a healthy sex life once you find your life mate.. Don't be so hard on yourself!
2007-06-23 11:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by lilmisscantbewrong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel guilty because you think it is wrong or sinful or do you feel guilty because people may look down on you.If you give up masturbation something else will take its place,that thing could be sex or whatever.Each time you feel the urge to do so go around people you will not do it infront of them.If you don't want to do it then you won't it seems like you enjoy it but you are afraid to enjoy it.
2007-06-23 11:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guilty? leave it to women to make themselves feel guilty by providing sex to... themselves.
Like seriously, don't worry about it as long as youre not doing it in front of the picture window so your 45 year old neighbor can watch. Then you have problems. What you're doing is ok. If you don't know how to please yourself, a guy will never be able to.
2007-06-23 11:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stop feeling guilty. Masturbation is a perfectly normal sexual urge practised by young (and not so young) adults of all ages. As long as you are not "addicted" as you say, don't feel bad about it. It is okay.
2007-06-23 11:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to want to do something that makes you feel good, and masturbating is natural for both men and women. So....don't feel guilty. At your age it's more common than you think.
2007-06-23 11:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy despite my avatar.
It's human nature, I want to quit but I can't, but I can say since I've got a girlfriend I've stopped doin it as much so if you haven't got a boyfriend yet maybe try and get one but I've never properly stopped but it's natural. Don't feel guilty about it.
2007-06-23 11:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH FEMALE MASTERBATION. I repeat there is nothing wrong with masterbation. Something somewhere in your life made you feel like it was something wrong with self exploration. I had my 1st self induced orgasm at 16 and im 28 now and still loving to please myself. And girl, there are many many many other woman who do the same thing. Masterbation is perfectly normal and dont stop, If it feels good. Oh and dont worry nothing will fall off or break.
2007-07-01 04:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by USMCgrlandMommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just curious and finding your body. Its totally normal to want to see how your body works. Get a hobby to take ur mind off of it. At night when you lay down say your prayers and go to sleep. Dont be ashamed its natural.
2007-06-23 11:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by koooolbabe_20000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you wanna quit? Doesn't it feel good. Almost everyone you know does it. Get over the guilt and you will actually enjoy it more.
2007-06-27 01:28:38 · answer #11 · answered by son_of_glen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋