im 32 & hes 30 everything was ok until tuesday when he said he was feeling down, ive not seen him since saturday and when i did it seemed perfect. since telling me he felt down, he will not answer the landline hes mobile rings the 1st time i ring then it gets turned off and he will not reply to my messages. If anyone has an insight into a mans brain then please share it, thanks
2007-06-23 04:10:11 · 16 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It has been a long time since Tuesday. This is too long not to have gotten an answer. Go and see him to make sure he is okay. He is your boyfriend and that is your obligation and right to go over without confirmation from him.
What you need is peace of mind. At this point, and from the information you gave, the first step is to find out about this. I don't care what other advice people give you right now. There are other possibilities, but it is only right to investigate now and make the decision as to your next move only after you know if he is okay.
2007-06-23 04:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Asian Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any one at that age has many things happening on a daily basis -- work, his own family, friends, romance, etc. It doesn';t have anything to do with you, no matter how important you think you are in his life. In particular, workplace politics and that he might be on the losing side is hard for men to explain to their wives or girlfriends because they feel they lose face. That's just a guess.
The other possibility is somebody is telling him that he might be hot commodity for girls younger than he, who knows?
The best you can do is to leave him alone because you are not old enough to give him advice. You will only become a nagging girlfriend, which will scare him even more because, then, he has this image of a nagging wife.
2007-06-23 04:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time --- men say women are moody. Sometimes I think they win on that issue. He must be dealing with something he is not ready to talk about. They have to figure it out in their minds before they can verbalize it to someone else.
2007-06-23 04:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by crazicowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He prob wants to get rid of ya, so instead of being a man and tellin ya he's ignoring the problem...or he's cheated on ya and feels guilty gutted laaar
2007-06-23 04:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by lovebollox 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(1) He's feeling down and withdrawing into his cave.
(2) Drug or alcohol binge.
(3) He's with someone else.
(4) He doesn't like you.
(5) He plays vicious mind games with you.
2007-06-23 04:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stepping into a mans mind is a terrible thought, but sounds like he is dealing with something he isn't ready to talk about...so wait until he is and be ready to listen. And let him know that it is okay to talk you about whatever it is.
2007-06-23 04:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some breathing room, when he is ready he will come back. Men need to have "MAN" time, just like women need time to themselves. Give him a week or two, youll see.
2007-06-23 04:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry i think hes trying to give you a message that he wants to break up
2007-06-23 04:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's funny how someone can be turned off so quickly and u dont have anything to say about it but all you have to do is corner him and give him a good and i mean really good BJ and he should be calling you again everyday and maybe twice a day.
2007-06-23 04:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by beecharmed_2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HOW LONG have you two been together.
Men do not know how to express their emotions to women, something us women have to accept.
maybe he is trying to say something. The way he is doing is is not nice.
2007-06-23 05:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by Rebz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋