i think that one of my coworkers here at my job likes me b/c every time he calls to our phone he is like hey sexy are you working hard. Oh that is nothing he is married. I have a b/f , but how do i tell him to back off with out being so mean?
2007-06-23 02:35:31 · 11 answers · asked by CRYSTAL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him what is wife thinks about calling other women "sexy."
2007-06-23 02:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Smiley 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Some guys simply talk that way to all women. Flirting is a part of their nature. However, next time he says "hey sexy, are you working hard?" here's your answer: "Yes I am, but I'm also trying to plan a romantic dinner for my boyfriend... I love him so much and I want this to be special. What do you think I should make? Steak or lobster or both? I really want this to be special for him."
2007-06-23 09:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The comment may be innocent, yet it it is not appropriate in a working environment especially. Obviously you don't feel comfortable with his references towards you. Ask him straight out to stop. You will be doing yourself and your b/f an honorable deed.
2007-06-23 10:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by diamondbullet66 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he needs to stop doing what he's doing. And he's married and that you have a b/f. Good Luck !!!!! If it gets any worse tell his wife, she'll handle it.
2007-06-23 10:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't feel comfortable with being referred to as sexy and that your husband wouldn't appreciate it.
2007-06-23 09:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probably says that to all the girls/women. Are you sure it really bothers you? Admit it, you really like the attention!
It means nothing! Don't embarrass yourself by saying anything!
2007-06-23 09:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is called sexual harassment. There are laws and workplace rules against it.
2007-06-23 10:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should watch what he says....he may be on the verge of sexual harassment.
2007-06-23 09:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should lighten up. Some guys just talk that way and don't mean anything by it. He hasn't touched you or said anything nasty so get over yourself and relax.
2007-06-23 09:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
well tell him it might hurt but he needs to no
2007-06-23 09:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋