this is my story ,my husband propose me and talk with my parents...then we got married ...i don't know about him much before marriage,after marriage he and his family suddenly start ruling on me talking in rude way like i am his door mat,his mom is very famous, they are very greedy for money,and he follows his mom always,she told me she want more money from my parents..his nature is not good..no one his good friend..he is very different kind of person some times he is good and some time he is very bed ..I dint want to tell my family about this bcoz they will worried...I feel should I die..?I was working bcoz of him i have to left my job bcoz he got on site..but here he always watch girls and told me that he wants to come here be for marriage...
plz help me what to do...he never cares me..never....I am beautiful and an engineer,he wants me to all house work...and he treat me like i am his doormat..should i leave him or should i die??plz help me...
2007-06-23 04:13:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him, and run fast. If he loves you, he'd let you be you!
2007-06-23 04:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by ofsoundmind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never ever consider taking your life as an option to leaving everything behind. It is actually the worse solution. I feel you are very depressed because of how he and his family treated you. When there is a beginning, there will also be an end to everything. You sounded like a good girl.. Why did you not consider leaving him? A divorce should settle everything and that will also allow you to be free and happy. Remember, the important word here is being HAPPY.
2007-06-23 04:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a situation that warrants thoughts of ending your own life, even though it seems like a cure. Get support from family and/or friends. Stay connected, even if it's asking the same type of question here on Yahoo Answers. It's obvious he's a jerk and you should free yourself of him, but figure out a way to do that which feels right for you.
Try asking more questions about more specific situations, too.
2007-06-23 06:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't kill your self, that is not an option. I think you must live in a country where parents still arrange marriages and women are second class. Maybe you could start women's liberation and stand up for yourself. You can refuse to be treated as a doormat and maid servant. Good luck.
2007-06-23 04:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man is worth dying for, LEAVE him. You have to do what makes you happy, don't live your life for other people. Only you know what is best for you and in your heart you know that leaving is the best option. Don't worry about what other people think, you are an educated your woman and you need to stand up for yourself, don't be anyone's doormat. Especially someone who does not treat you with respect, he doesn't sound like he loves you and it's clear that you do not love him. He is not worth ending your life for, your life is worth far more. He does not sound like someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, but don't consider suicide, please your life is worth living.
I don't know what country you live in but do whatever you have to do to leave and don't go back to him once you have left. Don't give him another thought, move on with your life, live for YOU and do what makes you happy. If that is going to work then go back to work, do whatever it is that makes you feel like a happy healthy person again. Your worth it!
2007-06-23 04:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see. You should leave him. You wanting to die is not the best thing for you. You being in a relationship about money is not the best thing in life. Leave him you will find the PERFECT guy it might take a while but the one guy is out there for you. Leave him
2007-06-23 04:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak with a divorce attorney immediately. Your husband will end up paying the fees. Get one from the phone book and do it today. Right now.
2007-06-23 04:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call 2-1-1 or the nearest hospital.
2007-06-23 04:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Double O 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
see dear!! i feel very painful after reading your story.see dear died for someone who doesn't have any value for you life.i really hopeless.i think you should talk to your parents regarding this.they would feeling more helpless dear after seeing your dead body.there is no hope to continue such relation where money is treated more than love.it's time to take action.how could they harass you????dear fight for you rights!!!first of all get separated from that man....your smart,beautiful& educated.you can led your own life!!let him realise that he have lot diamond in collecting stone....
all the best*** your are not coward,your are winner.and you have to be that...
2007-06-23 04:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by cute_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is never an option for you in a case such as this. If the treatment is this severe, get out! Contact an attorney fast. Just my opinion.
2007-06-23 04:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to leave him, yes tell your parents, they should be there for you, I know you sound from another country but here we do not have to take this behavior at all, we are all created equal, & there are men out there that will be true & kind have good hearts & love you for who you are, you should work keep job , or in your case get another one, dont listen to him or his mother, & dont let them get any money off your family, time for women to stand up for them selves,
2007-06-23 04:22:39 · answer #11 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋