I've got a bestfriend, she is really beautiful, but i'm not. We have been bestfriends for many years and we've became like sisters.Then a guy from another school saw her picture that a friend of my best friend showed it to him. Then that guy started calling her and within a week they went out, since they went out, my best friend changed she started keeping secrets from me, she was different Then one day, she came crying, and said he asked to break up with her, because she found out that he was dating like 7 more girls behind her back i felt sorry for her, i comforted her, and she became my old bestfriend again, sweet and caring. she got a makeover, curled her hair, and started putting makeup, which made her even prettier than before. Her ex saw her new look and decided to get back with her i told her not to go back with him cuz if he can do that to her then he can do it again,but she doesn't listen and became the person that i really dislike i want my bestfriend back!!what can i do?
2007-06-23 03:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by calysta~! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like you two were really good friends, but someone who would ignore their best friend for an ex that cheated on and dumped them is just mean. People change when they get older..........and if thats the kind of person she's becoming, then there is little you can do about it. The same thing happened to me and my best friend. Try talking to her once more, and if she ignores you, don't keep on letting her run back crying to you. You did warn her!
2007-06-23 03:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Florin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends come and and go but a truely bestfreind is there for life. This is a trying time for you and this will test if you are her bestfreind. I assume again you are young and so is she. I guess that because you said she went back to him again. There is something that you need to keep in the back of your mind through all of this. Girls sometimes like bad boys cause they get a kick out of it. Also you need to remember why she is treating you this way and that is because she knows how you feel about it and that is what is causing the not being your bestfreind. She will come back with time and the best thing you can do is wait and pick up the peices when it happens cause it already has before and she came right back to you. My advice is give it some time!!!!
2007-06-23 10:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Karen S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will get over it, the guy sounds like a jerk so it will probably be over pretty soon. I wouldn't try to break them up, let her realize what a ******** he is. In the meantime, just be honest with her about everything if she lies to you-tell her how it makes you feel, your best friend isn't being fair to you just try to maintain your friendship while she is like this, if you ride it out you will get her back again.
2007-06-23 10:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Pepper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just talk to her. remind her how bad her hurt her. If that doesnt work, then i would just stay her friend and be there when he hurts her again. She obviously doesnt know whats right for her and shes lucky to have someone like you to remind her. and i would talk to the guy too. Tell him he better be nice and never to hurt her. you could tell all those girls hes a cheater.
2007-06-23 10:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her again . if he break her heart again. she is still your best friend she just don't care about who hurt her are not . you are a pretty girl to just wait for the right person to come a long . they are many fish in the sea to will want to go out with you . very is pretty in very way. your friend mandi
2007-06-23 10:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is her choice. You should stick with it ((for now)) and let her be. Once it gets out of hand, you can advise her to stay away from him for her own sake.
2007-06-23 10:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Fintastic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see that happened to me and mii old bestfriend this is wat i did i just waited until they broke up again and wen they r still together just dont talk to her that much... i no she is ur bestfriend but like give her some space and wen they break up try to comfort her...
2007-06-23 10:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Demsters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! tell her that she shouldn't I have a friend sort of like that....but theres nothing you can do...wen she won't let you...
just give her a real serious talk in person and tell her everyting
that happened when they were goin out and how much it hurt you to please listen to you...
GOOD LUCK! e-mail me any questions :)
2007-06-23 10:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by jazmin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she can't be the same with or without a boyfriend, then she not a very good friend. She needs to grow up.
2007-06-23 10:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Ophelia 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Their isn't much you can do about it. If she was really your friend she wouldn't treat you differently. Talk to her about it and let me kno how it goes!
2007-06-26 04:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by kountry_gurl_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋