the 1 reason i would not go in the pool when the boy i liked got there was b/c i look huge in a bathing suit...but he wanted me to go in wat should i do?
2007-06-23 03:32:30 · 13 answers · asked by MnMlovesNOAH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need a better self image. Get a bathing suit that fits well and flatters and you'll feel like a million bucks.
2007-06-23 03:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I feel fat in a bathing suit, I just go to the beach (or pool) and look around. Seriously, Americans are way to hung up on their own looks. If you're boyfriend wants to be seen with you in public in your bathing suit, it means he's pround of how you look. Get over your insecurity and muster a little courage! It will be fun.
2007-06-23 10:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by fluvial_shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you see in a bathing suit and what a guy sees are two different things. For one, the guy does not see the bathing suit at all, he just sees you.
And you look huge? So your busty or have a big booty? Well, guess what...guys want to see that.
Oh...and never wear a white tee shirt to cover up...guys hate that and it makes you look ugly.
So go jump in the water already.
2007-06-23 10:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could wear a huge T shirt over your suit, or where shorts along with the suit, or buy you one of those see through swim suit short dress type or shirt type. This is what I do.
2007-06-23 10:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by catira1953 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go in the pool... many girls feel selfconcious about themselves and some guys do to..but just let it go and go have a good time...im sure hes not gonna think u look big inna bathing suit so get it out of your head
2007-06-23 10:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by chris i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just overreacting, a lot of girls do when it comes to weight, so good luck and hope for the best. You probably look great in bathing suits. (I mean that about most girls =) )
2007-06-23 10:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by fellysman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of ppl over-react about weight. Stop being self-conscious, but if you can't help it, get one of those bathing suits that makes you look skinnier.
2007-06-23 10:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Florin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself-if u dont act like u think u look good other people wont think u look good.....well at least thats wht i think but i minea if u really tink u look that bad they have a special kind of bating suit for every body 2 make u look slimmer.u could get 1 of those and u might be more comfurtable!hope this helps
2007-06-23 10:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by singlelady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he thinks you look huge in it.
2007-06-23 10:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be yourself and act natural. if he likes you back, it shouldnt matter wat size you were. if you think that you look good, feel that you look good, and think everyone else thinks you look good, then just go.
2007-06-23 10:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by dianaa..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋