Family & Relationships - 23 June 2007

my fiance can only have sex every other night he is 38 yrs old and im 32 and i really like having it everynight but why does he say that he cannot do it everynight,he says it takes too long for him to *** when we do it every night??whats up with that????

2007-06-23 18:35:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you really liek a guy and he dont liek you or you broke up or he broke up with you.how do you forget about him?

2007-06-23 18:35:26 · 10 answers · asked by clarissa d 1 in Singles & Dating

hey... i have been married for about 6 months now, almost 7 and me and my husband really do not get along. We have a 4 month old baby. and we just get into little arguments like for instance because he is always hiding things from me. I really think that he is cheating on me. Just today i was going through his wallet, cause i wanted to see how much money he had in there, and then he took the wallet away and said "OMG! no you can not look in my wallet!!!!!" and he wont let me in the spare bed room that he is always in playing on his computer. plus, i am not allowed to look in his van. So please tell me, what do you think is he cheating on me? i have been trying to be the best wife that i can. and i would never cheat on him. so should i just divorce him and get a better daddy for my child?

2007-06-23 18:32:50 · 10 answers · asked by hotty 5 in Marriage & Divorce

marriage,love

2007-06-23 18:31:20 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And I mean Physically.

2007-06-23 18:29:20 · 7 answers · asked by Pringles 3 in Singles & Dating

Can someone explain to me the difference between these too? I've been seeing someone for over a year now, we basically get together like once a month and have sex and hang out, but we text each other every day. I've never met his family, yet we've gone out of town to my family's cabin for the weekend several times. As far as I know he's not seeing anyone else, but we don't really talk about it either. He gets pissed off whenever I say "I know I'm just a booty call to you..but...." When I bring up breaking up with him, he asks me why I'm being mean. We're both in our 30's and I'm looking for a real relationship- which I thought was what he was looking for too. So does this sound like a non-committed guy just looking for sex to you?

2007-06-23 18:28:45 · 16 answers · asked by Tiggerfrk 3 in Singles & Dating

Is there away to record spouse activity on a computer with out having to install software on their computer. Aslo away to track cell phone calls with out having to check phone if you don't have access to phone bill?

2007-06-23 18:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by Peggy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

His Myspace status said Here For: dating and friends last week, but then he changed it to friends only.


I don't understand this since he and I are getting along even better now and have actually met in person and realized that we liked one another. (at least as friends--but probably more). Does this mean he isn't considering dating me anymore?

I'm just a bit confused...Thank you so much for the answers :)

2007-06-23 18:26:24 · 14 answers · asked by Erica 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend always talks about celebrities he thinks are hot, but they're always guys. he (well, we) also jokes around about his friends and how they're hot and stuff. we've kind of talked about this before, and he says he really has no problem admitting he finds men attractive, which i think is cool, because it's not like i would mind if he were bisexual or anything, and it shows that he's secure enough to talk about that stuff. the problem is, i'm worried that he might cheat on me with another guy, because he has no problem with me making out with other girls (and actually promotes it) and i think this might make him think that it's not as taboo to cheat on me with one of his guy friends. i've brought this up with him jokingly, and told him straight up that i wouldn't be cool with him and other guys, but i'm still worried he might experiment and think it's okay. how can i bring this up with him as to not offend him and still have a serious conversation?

2007-06-23 18:21:56 · 31 answers · asked by a girl 4 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean? Like if he walks her to her car and hugs her every time after they hang out. Could this mean he is attracted to her? Would he not hug her if he only wanted to be friends and stuff? He hasn't tried to kiss her or hold her hand yet though.

2007-06-23 18:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a tremendous Liar,I destroyed my relationship with Dalia
Body: I'm putting this out to all my friends, not for pitty but for you to all know the kind of worthless peace of **** I have been to the woman I love. My actions did not show the love that I claim to have, and I deserve nothing less than what I'm getting, for my tremendously horendous and disgusting lies and manipulations have earned me nothing more than hatred and loathing from the one I so dearly cared for. When I met Dalia I told her several lies that led her to believe that I could not only see things that were not there but made me seem like what I thought in my head was a better more attractive and far more exciting man than what I really am. those lies included but where not limited to saying that I had been in the Marines which I have never been in and claming that I killed people for money which I could never do, it also included me telling her that I saw demons in the strip club that we work at and I went even as far as claiming that one had pissed on her head as she stood in the club. After that it got worse because I was faced with lying even more to her in order to keep past lies alive and then I continued to lie in order to keep my so called image alive in my head. To all of you out there that I have lied to I'm sorry and I do Understand if I am deleted from your friends lists for what I have done and I deserve nothing less for the lies I have spread and manipulation I wrought upon others with my disgusting and repulsive lies. I do this because it is time for me to move forward instead of taking steps back in the wrong direction. For the record I want to clear some things up in front of you all in case I have lied to you

1) I have never been in the marines or have ever done anything in the military other than R.O.T.C. while I was in high school and some training that they put us through( I'm Sorry Irvin)

2) I have never killed anyone in my life or have ever been payed to kill anyone in my life it is all a lie.

3) I do not see demons, Devils, or anything supernatural ever.

4) I have never had more than approx. 10-11 sex partners in my life, and really I wish I could say 1

5)I wrecked my blue Cobra on the street not on the track like I have told so many people in the past

6) I am not a special ed teacher but actually a one on one instructor for Autistic children which really is nothing more than a Glorified Aide that would be left alone in the class with the kids while the teacher went to lunch or to make a phone call

7)I am not director of marketing for any strip club I am simply the only active promoter for the club.

8) I did consider becoming a priest at one time but did not actually take any theology classes. . .Ever!

9) I have cheated on a girlfriend in the past and there is no ex-cuse for that bar none.(I'm Sorry Nicole)

10) I did take money from an account that my mother and I had set up for the property tax on my house without consulting her and I have paid the price for that and did in fact repay her/ the account although in her eyes I can never repay it.

11) Finally the one that is the most embarrasing to me but probably has caused me to be as homophobic as I have been, I allowed a gay man to grab and fondle my penis because I was promised that I was going to get a shot at 4 girls at the same time at a motel party (which never happened cause I was suckered,Thanx, Rose)

So again I tell you all I'm sorry for liyng to you and I'm truly sorry that I set such weak foundations to a relationship with a woman who I loved so dearly but never actually Deserved
If only I could go back in time and start it all over again I would But as you know hind sight is always 20/20.
In my heart I hope that one day I am Blessed with Dalia's forgiveness and possibly friendship, but in my head I know that it is unlikely that she will ever bless me with a look from her wonderful and loving eyes again

From the bottom of my heart I'm truly sorry to you all
James R. Becerra

2007-06-23 18:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by Rayman 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean he tells me he loves me all the time but there are the days when i get this werid feeling something is wrong. Last time i had that feeling, i found out he was flirting on his myspace. For some reason our relationship is just so different. It's like all he cares about is sex, ever since we broke up and got back togther. What should I do?

2007-06-23 18:19:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

on a Saturday night, all alone and working on something just because it is about the most important thing to them in their life besides their family? Anyone over 25 years old I mean?

2007-06-23 18:17:06 · 11 answers · asked by Friend 6 in Singles & Dating

Guys ...If a girl makes you horny does that mean your attracted to her???????????

2007-06-23 18:16:58 · 17 answers · asked by R.I.P ANDY ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex cheated on me with one of my "friends" & now my ppl r saying current boyfriend is cheating on me with the same "friend" i honestly dont think the guy i am with now would cheat on me(especially not with her) but i dunno wat to think now...
Should i ask my bf bout it?
or should i let it go &drop her as a friend? bc she knew i was going out w the guy when it happened both times & she seems to think its funny

2007-06-23 18:14:37 · 20 answers · asked by Jordan 1 in Friends

I am 32 year old recovering heroin addict and a father of a 7 year old son. I have struggled with heroin addiction since I was 15 years old, I divorced from my ex-wife back in '05. I have been clean for 3 months now. My wife ended up getting full custody of our son when we divorced because of my addiction.
I am trying to straighten up my life. I attend narcotics anonymous every single day. I haven't missed a day for 3 months. Would it be unreasonable to ask for visitation with my son? I just want to see my son, I love him more than anything on Earth, and I want to be there for him. How could I go about petitioning for custody, because my wife will not let me see him at all because she said " I am not a father to him anymore".

2007-06-23 18:12:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do? when someone who geniunely cares asks if you become their wife, gives you an engagement ring, and constances promises to come back home, stays in touch via phone but lives down south and yet when the time came to make the break, can't actually do it, but expects me to continue wait its been 6 months now, what was suppose to be three days away. He has been generous - looked after me well, but when push comes to shove, he rings and says its over, yet a few days later rings back and say hang in there, I want you.. I am tired of playing second fiddle. Your suggestions please

2007-06-23 18:11:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and this guy were just "friends." one day he quit talking to me so i let it go. now after 2 months of no longer being "friends," he wants to continue our fling.

2007-06-23 18:10:06 · 6 answers · asked by Shannon A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-23 18:09:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

By bodily hair, I'm talking about tooshie hair. I've got some like most guys or at least I think most guys have some. Anyway, obviously I'm a bit self-conscious about it especially when I'm being "intimate" with my girlfriend. She hasn't said anything, but I don't know if that's cause 1) I'm good at hiding it from her, 2) she doesn't care, or 3) she doesn't know how to bring it up with me. Anyway, just wanted to know what the "general" consensus was on this matter. Thanks!

2007-06-23 18:07:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am datin this guy named Matt. I realized that I do love him but I only love him as a friend. Its my ex that I really and TRULY LOVE!!!!!!

2007-06-23 18:07:07 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 years old and live in a small town. How can I get out of this bum-f**k town and go somewhere that I can be happy? I have a car but no money. I know people of my age suffer from the depression that I do, but I think if I can get out of this small town in MS that I will be happier. Can you help me?

2007-06-23 18:06:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife left my home with my 10 months old daughter in first week on january 2007 after a small quarrel and living with her parents form last 6 monts,after that we made repetitive attempts to bring her back through phone calls, personal visits through relatives and at last through letters sent through Register AD.

Now after receiving my letter she has filed petition in pune family court for maintenance under Hindu Adoption & Maintenance Act Clause 18 & 20 ,In her false allegation she has made one statement supporting one incidence that she has filed police complaint on 12/1/2007 in XYZ police station in pune for self defense against us. Almost 6 months have been passed but we haven't received a single call from concern police station, so through our political contacts we have checked all records in that police station and found that no complaint is registered not even NC.

Can you pls tell me that can i take advantage of this false police complaint in petition?.

2007-06-23 18:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by Tushar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Her husband disconnected internet & telephone service; changed postal address and told his wife to stay at home and take care of their 2 year and 4 years old sons. Then he asked her to divorce and re-marry. He planned to blackmail her with various techniques including hiring 'private investigators' without her knowledge. When she became aware of that, he started to frighten her by treatening her life. She tried to move to shelter with her sons, but too long waiting list. She moved to her sisters house. She sued him at the court; he did the same. He used better lawyer than hers, cause he is paid >40k/year where as she has nothing. She is spending her full time with her children and cannot work and pay much for lawyer. Her lawyer misrepresented her. The court awarded custody to the husband and ordered the wife to pay child support to the husband ! The woman has difficulty expressing herself in the court as compared to her husband who is an expert in public appearance.

2007-06-23 18:05:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If I go there will be trouble and if I stay it will be double.

2007-06-23 18:03:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here’s the short background: 9 mos ago my husband attacked me in front of our little girl – he just went nuts and came at me, shoved me into her (she’s 3) and was swinging. I ducked several times and he didn’t actually hit me, though standing behind me and seeing it, she thinks he did. I was obviously very upset, crying and trying to leave. He held the door, I had to beg and struggled to open the door, he held it, but finally let me out. She screamed all the way to the Sheriff’s office for Daddy not to hurt Mommy. I left and haven’t been back. He wouldn’t go to counseling, so I filed for divorce. I only see him in very public places like the mall.

I DO NOT SPEAK BADLY OF HER FATHER TO / AROUND HER. NOR DO I TALK ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED THAT DAY UNLESS SHE BRINGS IT UP.

Tonight, she was angry with me and tried to hit me. I, as usual, put her in time-out.. when it was time to get out, I told her it is not okay to hit, we use our words and told her she should say she is sorry. She said, Well, Daddy hit you and you cried so bad. (Remember – this happened 9 months ago!) I sat down and put her on my lap and said, what daddy did that day was a wrong choice - I know, he shouldn’t have tried to hurt mommy, she said, are you going to live somewhere else? I said what do you mean? She said, when daddy hurt you we don’t live in the red house anymore, mommy I don’t want you to go …. And then I was at a total loss.. I don’t know what to say… How do I explain to her why I couldn’t stay with Daddy and his refusal for counseling? Or explain to her what happened that awful day without saying bad things about her dad? Or lie and say that Daddy won’t hurt Mommy – because to be honest, I don’t know if he’ll try again or not… What do I say?

2007-06-23 18:03:00 · 32 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend, he knows a lot about music and I'm always asking him to suggest me some good music. But lately I've been noticing that most of his suggestions are kind of love songs and stuff, not that I mind because I like those. But he randomly comes and tells me, "oh listen to this song is good".

Some of the songs he's suggested are this:

Amazed by Lonestar.

lost in this moment with you by Big and Rich

What do you guys think, is there something he's trying to tell me with this songs or I'm just seeing stuff?

2007-06-23 18:01:59 · 15 answers · asked by Bella 3 in Singles & Dating

Please answer seriously.

2007-06-23 18:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Friends_with_Buttercup! 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont get it

2007-06-23 18:00:45 · 15 answers · asked by gizmosgrl13 1 in Singles & Dating

I worry alot and I'll ask him several questions. I am also insecure and I need him to reassure me. Does it sound like I don't trust him?

2007-06-23 17:54:07 · 9 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Singles & Dating