when you really liek a guy and he dont liek you or you broke up or he broke up with you.how do you forget about him?
2007-06-23 18:35:26 · 10 answers · asked by clarissa d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may never forget, but you will move on and in time you will be able to think about it without getting emotional over it.
2007-06-23 18:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you should not forget easily the person or the incidents around the person. We are as organic creatures designed to learn from our experiences. You need to understand the person and the situations and integrate the information into your life in order to wisely apply the information to a relationship in the future. (especially if it was not psychologically traumatic) By learning from our mistakes we learn how to better live our lives in the future. Be thankful for the experience, learn from it, apply your knowledge to another situation in the future. By the way the pain you are feeling is really an emotional experience brought on by a chemical that is released to remind you of what took place so you will use the wisdom you gained to avoid making any mistakes in the future. That will pass with time and at the right time appear so that you can draw on your wisdom and make wise choices and find the appropriate level of success. Remember this: "Feelings are neither good nor bad they are just there." That, my friend is how brain chemistry works.
I frankly find all of this amazing and marvel that we are so fearfully and wonderfully made. By the way when you feel this again. allow about 15 seconds to pass (the time it takes the chemical to dissipate) so you don't say anything you will regret. Also don't dwell on the thought that keeps you producing the chemical.
2007-06-24 02:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know many people will start by saying time heals everything.
The reality is, time doesn't exist in our emotions, mind, everything our memory holds relives it, in a split second.
You need to have a talk with yourself, and tell your self the best alternative to be happy is to love yourself, and accomplish your personal wishes.
NOT EMOTIONAL NEEDS.
you can save that for later.
Now you need to find your world, and live in it.
Once your a complete person, you will soon realize you don't need the very person who is dominating your mind, or any other who doesn't deserve it.
Whatever you reason may be to "forget a certain someone"
A possible cure is look forward and don't look back.
Forgetting cant be done manually, when you do remember, see it as you would in any other memory.
A life from the past.
2007-06-24 02:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wrry u will forget about him sooner or later or maybe not it all depends really on what type of girl you are if ur the kind that likes to dwell on past things ur not gonna forget and u probably never will but if ur the other type u wont really forget since it will be in the back of u rmind but u wont care
2007-06-24 01:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only way really. Go do fun things with friends also. Like go to movies, or just to the mall. Don't do things that you and him used to do together. And don't go get another man regardless what anyone tells you. All you'll do is wake up one morning a month later or whatever, and tell the new guy he's just a rebound and break his heart.
2007-06-24 01:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you start to thinking about him you retrain your mind by thinking of other things.
Filling your time with things that you enjoy to do. Try hoop dancing, music learn and instrument, make a new friend and do things, get a new hair style etc.
It isn't the end of the world just the beginning as you learn to deal with difficult things. This helps you to grow and mature.
2007-06-24 01:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Stormchaser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never forget, you just have to let time heal the wounds. I know, I am going through the same thing right now. I have recently gone through a divorce, lost my kids(they live in another state) I know it will take time, but it sucks right now!
Just hold on!
2007-06-24 01:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by jim c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some hobby that you really love, that doesn't remind you of them. Or find another guy ur interested in and try to make friends.
2007-06-24 01:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say its easy to forget but sometimes it just isn't easy, your mind plays games with you,lonely,depressed,angry,etc. try to get back up,you have to get tough and go out meet someone else.Therese plenty of good people out there you just have to find them. just check them out real good before you get to trusting them too much.too many weirdos out there too. if i can do it anyone can.
2007-06-24 01:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by wilddog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u m look for another guy or be with ur firends god just for get him lol
2007-06-25 22:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by la naca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋