my ex cheated on me with one of my "friends" & now my ppl r saying current boyfriend is cheating on me with the same "friend" i honestly dont think the guy i am with now would cheat on me(especially not with her) but i dunno wat to think now...
Should i ask my bf bout it?
or should i let it go &drop her as a friend? bc she knew i was going out w the guy when it happened both times & she seems to think its funny
2007-06-23 18:14:37 · 20 answers · asked by Jordan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What is wrong with your friend? first time was bad enough now you think she doing it again?!!??
Firstly, she is a bad friend and she definitely has something against you, maybe jealous. And even though she claims it's for fun or it's funny, i still think that is too much, whether or not you are going to end your relationship with your bf for this, you should definitely drop her as your friend, she is no friend!
Plus i suggest you to ask your bf first and then ask your "friend"... If It did happen, dump both... I find it totally ridiculous...
2007-06-23 18:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by tasyreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend and your know this and you are too afraid to let her go.She is jealous and she wants what you got and if it means sleeping with that person just so you can not have it she is satisfied. Let her go who needs her as a friend when you got enemies like her that will sleep with your boyfriend and then laugh about it. As for your boyfriend you better ask him and tell him to be honest. Let him know that was the reason why you broke up with your last bf because he slept with your so call friend. And if he did you have to make a decision if you are willing to work it out or let it go and move on. I have always been the kind of person that my bf and friends don't meet I keep them separate because of things like that. If I'm in a relationship you never tell your friends nothing about your bf not how good he is in bed, how big he is, how and what ways you have sex, and what he does for you period you tell them nothing. That information can be used against you for them to see how he really is without you knowing and you would be the blame cause you opened their minds in letting them know what you had in the bed. Let this be a lesson.
2007-06-24 01:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you drop her as a friend when your ex cheated on you with her? Not much of a friend in my opinion. And there is nothing funny about it!
Is there opportunity for your current bf to be with her? What is your gut saying about it? Go with your instincts and stop introducing her to your guys!
2007-06-24 01:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "friend" has slept with at least one, and maybe two of your boyfriends??? And you still have her as a friend??? What is wrong with you?? She doesn't respect you, and you can't trust her....how do you see that as friendship qualities. And if your dating men that cheat.....I guess you don't do any better at picking boyfriends then you do at picking friends. Look in the mirror. If you surround yourself with people that lack integrity you only have yourself to blame!!! Set your standards a little higher. There are a lot of amazing people in the world.....go find some!!
2007-06-24 01:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heller female of what should be a smartr race.. i would never call that skank my friend especially if she thinks that it is funny
if you broke up with youre ex it was her fault to out with all the trash not just half the bag k
you brought this apon yourself by not getting rid of her with the ex
if you think your boyfriend now is cheating with her find a way that you can talk to him about your feelings or they will eat you up inside if he cares for you he will listen
he may not answer honestly but just tell him how you feel that you belive he wouldnt and that you think the relationship should be based on trust too and that you want to hear it from him rather than other people ... and that you deserve the curtisy of a choice of staying with him if he did see senora ...
2007-06-24 01:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by brittany b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your question. The problems is do you have the guts to do it or be stuck in a triangle of lies and despair you pick. After all you only have one heart will you hurt again? I wonder if you call them freinds then why are you letting them do you wrong. Listen to me your world does not evole around them you take control of it not them.
2007-06-24 01:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...well i would ask the boyfriend first. But even if it is the case then you need to drop the friend and the boyfriend. If she knows that you're in a relationship with him then she needs to respect that, and he needs to respect the relationship as well... don't stick with someone who doesn't deserve u
2007-06-24 01:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by u-wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say drop your friend, and your current boyfriend, and be a little bit more discerning in your choice of people to spend time with, be it friend or moreso.
2007-06-24 01:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by leeseylou2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You should ask your bf....if he gets indignant he's hiding something. Knowing your history you asking is understandable.
2) Lose the friend it's obvious she ain't worth fussing over.
Good Luck,
-H
2007-06-24 01:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Hector D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like she's HOT. Your friend is a FREAK and gets off by stealing your man. Drop her like she's HOT!!
2007-06-24 01:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by overall:)3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋