I have a super friend status with everyone but no loyal comitment. They know my standards, respects them ,but ends up where I find out they are always cheaters.
2007-06-23 16:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
seem.s like you have been with the wrong croud all men arent cheaters or use a woman to boot there ego i am man myself and real men dont do this to women just my opion?
2007-06-23 18:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be love, but most likely it isn't the type of love you want. If they are marrying somebody else, it is indeed because they are not in love with you. Respect is a good thing, but romantic feelings is a must in marriage. When you find the right person and the feelings are there, that is when marriage should be on your mind. Marrying somebody that just isn't that into you will backfire and end badly. Save your time, energy and emotions for somebody that deserves them.
2007-06-23 17:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i cant see how you think they are respecting you, or loving you unconditionally loving you....If they did, they wouldn't be cheating on you...You need to take some time off from relationships to think about what you really want...Also think about the type of guys your dating...Your falling into a pattern, your dating the same type of guy over and over again...
2007-06-23 17:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is an oxymoron. You explicitly said they end up loving and respecting you. This suggests to me that it is after a break-up. If I am right it is clear that they will respect your standards although they necessarily cannot live with them. Certainly not after they know their secrets.
2007-06-23 17:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by noble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you go to bars, you expect to find playboys. It depends on the environment and how you make yourself available. A church environment would be conducive to people who uphold high standards and expect similar from others. You would not be under pressure to "date" and can therefore take more time to know people better in neutral settings.
2007-06-23 17:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. They respect you and love you unconditionally, but won't commit AND cheat on you? You win the "Best Oxymoron" award!
2007-06-23 17:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what's wrong with that. at least they ended up with someone else. did you really want to keep on of those cheaters forever? they are doing you a favor by leaving.
2007-06-23 17:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might need to change your 'type' of guy? Do you have a type of guy you usually date? Bad boy, business dude, work out junkie? Whatever it is, switch it up and try something different, hopefully with a different outcome.
2007-06-23 17:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to change the type of guy you are lookin for!!! Look for someone unexpected, not common!!
2007-06-23 17:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋