I,m a white male dating a black girl, but im forbidden to
marry her? but my parents say its ok to date her! if i even
think of marriage? or having babies with her, they would
disown me, what should i do? plus we are Mormons, plus
my black girl friend told me she is pregnant today, i love her.
2007-06-23 17:36:13 · 13 answers · asked by GlobeHunter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't see how any white guy can love a black girl. ....what is wrong with you.?? I hope your parents really do dis-own you. Isn't there any white girls left, that you can date.???
Never mind...because if you have gotten this girl pregnant, then don't come crawling later, to a white girl.
2007-06-23 18:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 18⤋
i do no longer relatively care what so ever, i don't understand why those have a concern with it in any case. I even have heard from my fellow black women that we basically get pissed is while the black guy will nonetheless proceed to throw around the standard, wiped out stereotypes for all individuals black women while he out of all and sundry could be responsive to we are no longer an analogous. some women have pronounced they are self haters, which i don't be responsive to the way that remotely is wise. And others hate how the black adult males get mad while black women date white adult males, in spite of if it relatively is okay for them to date white women.
2016-10-03 01:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good job and paid well, it shouldn't really matter if you love her. You are with her not your parents. How is it ok to date a black girl but not marry her? They shouldn't have said that if you can't marry her, becuase they are giving you the right to decide who to date/marry. It hurts but they are your parents, try to talk to them about how you feel and what you want to do. Don't let them ruin your love life.
2007-06-26 04:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow..ur in a bit of a sticky situation..let me start by saying..i love interacial dating its great to see..but i think you should just marry her..elope..you have to understand shes pregnant now..that means u have to take responsiblity..dont put your new family in jeroprady..ur parents will just have to try and understand that your a grown man and have responsiblilties..and people are people..if you love her as much as you say you do..you'll do whats right and stay by her..and unless something happens to that baby..youll be seeing her for the rest of ur life even if u break up and ur parents will be even more upset once they find out that shes pregnant..so u might as well marry her..it cant get anyworse with ur parents than it already is
2007-06-26 21:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
White the racial epitats of Brigham Young, Bruce McConkie and Ezra T Benson have been long silenced, the churced has not renounced their talks, books, or even doctrine regarding race. As a result, there are many, many old-time religion members in the church who will not welcome you with open arms, especially in the myopic nation-state of Utadiho. You'd be treated much more honestly in California or other metro west coast areas, but considering the maturity of your text, you're an idiot to begin with. Your children are doomed.
2007-06-25 07:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dances with Poultry 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The church has many inter-racial marriages, even in the temple.
I feel for you, I can sort of understand your parents' reaction, even tho I don't agree with it. But, as the wife of a man of a different race, it can be difficult at times, not just for you and your wife, but for the children. Although, being bi-racial today is getting to be the norm, almost. When me and my husband were living in Utah, we met a couple, he is half black and half Japanese and she is half caucasian and half latina. I wish I could have seen their baby girl before they moved away.
Look at Tiger Woods, and The Rock, to name a couple of famous people who have more than two races.
Go to your bishop or stake president. Ask their advice.
2007-06-24 05:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by mormon_4_jesus 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Kinda similar to a situaiton I once found myslef in - minus being a Mormon - but bottom line if you got her pregnent then you need to step up and be the baby's father. I suggest you get things straight with her and then decide to worry about your family later. If they really love you they'll come around... their grandchild is gonna be half black so they will have to deal with that some way. In my case it took awhile for them to come around, but now they love my kid unconditionally. As for me and the girl, we didn't work out but we've both given our best to working together to raise the kid. I have him most of the time, but his mom contributes as best she can. Bottom line... Step Up!
2007-06-26 11:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dan M 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The one question: Are you a man or a boy? A man thinks for himself, and doesnt let others push him around or think for him. A man follows his own heart, not other people's hearts. A man would do everything possible to secure a future for his child and the woman he loves. Do you love her or not? A real family who LOVES you would NEVER give you an ultimatum. Real family sticks with you through EVERY situation. I learnt that.
2007-06-26 13:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
do what your heart tells you. dont let your family influence your happiness. im not saying you should marry her just because shes pregnant...you should talk with her about whether or not you guys are ready for marriage and especially a kid and come to that conclusion together. your family isnt in love with her. you are. they will have to deal with it or move on.
2007-06-26 01:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by Gone, Gone, Gone. 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
why would your parents is willing to disown you over your choice of gf? If they gave you the approval to date her (and have sex) what in the dang tooting wrong about marrying her? what that have to do with being a mormon? pls let me know.....
2007-06-23 17:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do not let your family run your relationship. If you truly love this woman and vice versa do not let others decide how you should live your life.
2007-06-23 17:43:01 · answer #11 · answered by locachuela 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋