Ok. I have been asked out only twice by guys who aren't so dating material. But, I say yes for the sake of dating, which is usually to some cheap place. Anyway, it's special to me because I almost NEVER get dates. Correction: I NEVER get dates. Whenever I build the courage to ask a guy I like if he wants to hang out or something, he always come with a snippy way of saying no. So, I'm 13, and is just a stage I'm going thru, or is this a permanant disaster???
2007-06-23 17:34:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had the same prob., i thought "What's wrong with me?!?!" i was always nice and sweet, there's nothing wrong with me or that would be a turn off, but i relized, it wasnt me, it was the guys, most guys have their minds set on a certin kinda girl in there head. i gave up looking, thinking, i dont need any of these guys, so i waited, stoped stressing over stupid narrow minded middle school guy, got to high school, and found a very sweet upperclassmen, that got to know me, now he's my bestfriend and bf, dont worry your 13, that means middle school right? its not a stange your going thru, its a stange the guys are. they'll get to know you and see what a great person you are, and you won't be able to keep the boys away, just wait, for now just have fun with friends, til' the guys loosin up. Good Luck!!!
2007-06-23 17:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you can take this advice or not, it's not that important for you to be serious with a relationship or having guys on a date.
You're still 13 and there's still plenty of time in the world for growing up.
It doesn't matter whether when He says He doesn't want to hang out with You or not.
Big deal, So what!!
For You young lady, being with friends and family is important right now.
You're not BF cursed. Maybe It's just not the right time for you to have one.
I don't have a Girlfriend but I'm ok living with it. And I'm older than You.
There are more things in life than just having a relationship with a Guy.
"Patience is a Virtue" as what they say.
Peace..
2007-06-24 00:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Edwardo L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just a phase. Last year only 2 guys liked me and they were my friends. This year I have been asked out 7 times. Don't just date someone for the sake of dating them. The right guy will come.
2007-06-24 00:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young. This is Not a permanant disaster. As you get older these guys are going to want to go out with you and they are going to regret saying NO. However, it is very nice for you to be courtious to the guys who aren't dating material. This life is short, but your problems will seem to last forever and no matter what, wait for the person you think is truely perfect for you because there is someone out there for everyone.
2007-06-24 00:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by katherine_petrey27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a stage i only got asked out a couple times when i 13 but the year after that was asked out alot and ur 13 dont worry bout stuff like that so much and dont go out with anyone just cause its a date ur guy will come good luck!
2007-06-24 00:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you get a smidge more pickier...think better thoughts...stronger thoughts..also do something that you "secretly dare yourself to do,,for a change!" YOu only live once ya know! Just because "that one" may have asked you out..doesn't mean that you HAVE To go out with "that one"!
Think better thoughts of who you are..even if you are still discovering you...as a person...think about things that you really love doing...maybe you can join a group at school, that does what you like to do...ya know?
Find guys and girls that you know like to do what you love to do..and you will find a nice person to date...even thru friends..!!!
it will work out...don't worry..and guys are much slower in developing mentally too LOL! They are shy too...whatever you do...don't go out with just anybody...be choosy..but, don't be snobby either! Just pick a nice guy....not a jerk!
WIshin' you a lotta good stuff for the future!
2007-06-24 00:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anne99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 50-60, you might have a problem. But at your age, there's not going to be a lot of true 'dating' things. Neither you or your partner are going to have a job or a car, so you're pretty limited in what you can do and who you see.
Just enjoy life as it comes and you'll find yourself dating soon enough anyways =D
2007-06-24 00:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know you're worrying about this right now, and think it's going to be like this forever, but beileve me, you'll get a bunch more dates as you get older. Right now guys at 13 and immature and just want to have fun and be stupid. But don't worry, they'll get better and more guys will ask more girls out. Don't worry about it! It's no curse. =]
2007-06-24 00:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by nathecat135 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are too young to be thinking on boys.. Rather think about the future and concentrate on your studies and who you want to be in life instead of thinking why you aren't good enough or why you don't get a date..
Have a good day.... Ciao*
2007-06-24 01:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't settle for less than w hat you're worth. let the guy make the first move (talking does NOT count as the first move) and be YOURSELF! not someone you think the guys will like! love yourself before you can love others, and the right guy will come along. even if you have intuition about them that doesn't mean you love them.
at camp i got a secret admirer note. thats not the point. this girl and a few others (no guys allowed in gals cabains. not that we followed the rule) came and asked me who i thought it might be. i told this one girl who was pressing that i sort of liked this guy and hes really funny, good to talk to blah blah and she ended up telling her friend (the guy) and he asked me out and was flirting with me.
the point is if you wait the guy will come along. this is like, the first time i've said yes to a guy asking me out coz before it wasn't the right guy. wait and your fairy tale will come true.
2007-06-24 00:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋