i keep asking people the same thing but there not giving me the answer. how do you tell if you love some one and if someone loves you?? wat kinda sings should i be looking for??
2007-06-23 17:16:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok i think i love but i dont want to say i do cuz i'm scared of getting hurt thats y i'm asking
2007-06-23 17:23:31 · update #1
If you have to ask the question - Am I in Love? - you're not.
2007-06-23 17:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound frustrated. LOVE.
Depending on who you ask will depend on the answer you get. A child will tell you one thing, if you ask a nun you will get another, if you ask a teenager in their first relationship another, and a couple married for 50 years another.
In youth, and for adults who have not found maturity in themselves they are going to more likely confuse lust with love. Even as we get more mature I think we want to confuse the excitement of lust with the long term energy of love that sustains us through the rough times, and makes the good times a real joy.
Love I think, is most honestly expressed when we long for the beloved happiness, as much as for our own.
2007-06-24 00:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your actually looking for is compatibility... you enjoy the same things, you are attracted to each other appearance wise, and you communicate with each other well... because love and marriage is easy for the first four years, then it becomes work, things that you let slip by, now bother you...
2007-06-24 00:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by prop4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ther are so many different kinds of love,he will want to be with you,he will respect you,he will go out of his way to be nice to you and you will want to do all of these things for him too.tell the person that you love them.dont be afraid.if the feelings arent mutual at least you will know where you stand..good loving...!!!!
2007-06-24 00:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by pattialfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont look for signs...stop looking the moment you do it will fall in your lap... and there is no way to tell you what to look for.. once you love some one you just know...its a feeling like no other
2007-06-24 00:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your the only one that would know that....look.. if you miss the person alot and you feel that you need him by your side.. that's a sign. and in the guy you'll know by the way he is with you and the way he acts...too
2007-06-24 00:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by ycnan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you know is if your always thinking of them and when your around them they make you feel good. also if you feel comfortable around them like you can be youself. look for signs like you feel happy or feel comfortable.
2007-06-24 00:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Live, Laugh, Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if you love someone or not, then you don't.
2007-06-24 00:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is what happens when two desperate people settle for less.
2007-06-24 00:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by delreyme 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
ur heart tells you.
2007-06-24 00:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋