Family & Relationships - 20 June 2007

ok. so im really good at going to church(Christian church)
and im really good at being a good gf to my guy.
but i d k how to intertwine the 2.
i always feel weird talking about my church to my bf cause he's atheist.
but i really like im alot, he told me he loved me and i said it back.
should i try bringing him to church?
or break up A.S.A.P.?

and.is it bad to date an atheiest?

2007-06-20 17:42:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This would solve a whole lot of this "ownership" problems that result from the wemen trying to enslave men forever in marriage.

2007-06-20 17:40:02 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i live in miami i truned 18 my friends backed stab me and my girlfriend left me im usually the quiet shy guy i want to change that i guess you can say i want to be more out going i dont want to go to partys alone and stuff so i was wondering how do i become more out going how do i get away from being shy and quiet i usually really dont talk so can anyone help me i want to start over
also i meet this girl online shes i think 16 or 17 shes cute and she doesnt live that far from me i want to ask her out but i dont know how i dont want that same line lets just be friends shes mostly into anime( chines cartoons) and im sorta not so can someone help me out on that too

2007-06-20 17:38:39 · 11 answers · asked by ddd c 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby leaves his car door unlocked about once a week. This is a problem because his garage door opener is in there and someone could just come in the garage and steal stuff ( or worse, get into the house easily.) This has been going on for months. Is it ok for me to make it look like stuff was stolen the next time he does this, so that maybe he will be more careful?

2007-06-20 17:36:52 · 22 answers · asked by undone 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I never really had a real relationship before. I'm 23, a proud virgin who wishes to have sex after marriage with the right person. I have a lot of lover, honor, and respect for myself. If the guy I recently am going out with (just a scenario) asks me about my past relationships how do I tell him? And do guys like that a girl is a virgin...do they respect that and do guys think of someone who never had a boyfriend...do they respect that as well? And there should be no reason of him asking me about my past relationships right??

2007-06-20 17:33:42 · 8 answers · asked by bettyboop 2 in Singles & Dating

I try talking to my mom and she's always rude to me; and then I just get a job and she's all bratty and says "You're gonna' quit", etc. I think that it's completely rude and I hate coming home sometimes. But whenever I wanna talk I forget and then I walk away upset. How can I stop myself from becoming upset if she doesn't give two-sh!ts what I say?

2007-06-20 17:30:10 · 8 answers · asked by Baah 1 in Family

2007-06-20 17:24:17 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just recently found out that my husband has been talking to many women on the internet and had plans to meet. We have been married 4 years and have 2 children. I have never been unfaithful and I do not deserve this~ I am 25 and working towards my nursing degree and I have a bright future ahead of me, I'm just not sure where to go from here I do not want the marriage to end, but I can not do this anymore.

2007-06-20 17:23:03 · 22 answers · asked by Misty M 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and say you've had a baby by the boy and all of a sudden they want to call the police what can happen to your boyfriend even thought your parents have been knowing that you were messing with this boy for this time

2007-06-20 17:19:21 · 3 answers · asked by jannel r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our family (me hubby and kids,3) was invited to a backyard wedding 4 a friend of my hubby, it's his 2nd. We origionally were not going 2 bring the kids but when we got the invitation it listed the kids names as well, so I RSVP'd for 5. When I asked my husband if my stepdaughter was going 2 be with us, he said "no, but your younger (13yrs old) brother is" it will still be 5 people so, no big deal. My DH called groom 2 give a courtesy call 2 let them know about the change & groom said "NO, Sorry! bro can't come!". We thought he was kidding but he repeated "No" again, DH told him that we have a problem w/leaving my bro home alone while we are out with the kids all night, &they said they would get back 2 us 2 let us know if he could come. Well I think that they r RUDE! what's the diff, it's still 5 people. Our gifts 2 them have ALWAYS reflected nicely. There R going 2 be kids there & they INVITED THE KIDS IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!! I am offended & don't want to go, should we go? R they RUDE?

2007-06-20 17:02:12 · 16 answers · asked by rxing 7 in Weddings

Please write your any memorable situation in your life.

2007-06-20 16:57:37 · 7 answers · asked by PUNDALIK D 1 in Family

I loved my girl4om d botom of my heart.In fact she was everything for me.I was completly blinded by her.I sacrified my career,money,family,friends4he... She used2mesage, write letter exchange I LOVE YOU's with her Ex and other guys whom she used to be friendly with & wen i found out all dis she gave me a stupid concept saying dat saying I LOVE YOU is soothing word 4 her & she says it 2 all who love her & all & i like a fool said OK & believd her.I beared all what she did bcos I din want to lose herD next day she broke up wid me saying she doesnt want 2 b with me.I cried lots dat day..Later i came2 know she was goin around wid some guy.After 3 months, she came back 2 me saying sorry & was crying. I took her back in my life but she had not changed.Just4d first2days she was loving & after dat she was like before, flirting wid all the possible guys,avoiding my calls,cutting my call.It hurt me a lot & when i told her dis, she again left me & went.should i keep in touch with her in future?

2007-06-20 16:55:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 36 and hes 39..We have a 12 year old daughter and 10 year old son.
Married almost 12 years
I started noticing all these calls on his cell phone. It called on Feb 27th and my husband got off quick saying wrong number.
On april 7th, I check his messages and its her saying you must have not went on break yet , Give me a call.
I called her and she said Oh we are just friends, I asked a few questions, she said ask him.
He told me she was a wife of 1 of his coworkers amd calling him asking where he is.
I found out it wasnt the guys wife.I call her and she said get over it, I havent been with your hubby..
I noticed he lied about taking a guy home at 4 in the morning, He said he went to work one day and it was a holiday, He wasnt there, I checked, He lied and swears he was there..
These calls stopped when I talked to her April 7th, But I know I heard another phone ring when I was on the phone with him one night.He works 4pm to 1 or 2 am and this woman called always at 3 & 4am,

2007-06-20 16:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mj4Life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She graduated from high school last May. When she goes to stay a few days with her friends, she will call me and everything is nice. I love you Mom, how are things going, I miss you, and it's perfect. But, when she gets home things are go to shi_. I can ask for her to do something around the house and she may get to it in 2 days. And I get attitude if I ask again.But, if one of her friends call she jumps up and does whatever they need.
Now, she decided tonight she needed to move out. I feel so sad. We got into in again. My oldest daughter helps alot and I don't get no lip out of her. She doesn't have a job and we are restoring her car. I tried to ask how they are going to pay for rent, food and utilities. And I just get attitude.
I did go deliver a kitchen table to the house. I wasn't sure if she would be home or not. I asked and She wasn't sure. We are supposed to go to Oklahoma City this weekend for a company dinner. I couldn't get a answer then for sure either.

2007-06-20 16:49:09 · 15 answers · asked by beckster 2 in Family

I have a wonderful family but its as if i didnt belong with them anymore, its like they dont want me there. I am just feeling as if i dont fit in anymore. dont get me wrong i love them profoundly but its like i have a void in my heart!

2007-06-20 16:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by Nune 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Open question answer anyway you want to.

2007-06-20 16:45:08 · 9 answers · asked by lookaround 3 in Singles & Dating

so now the issue has grown. (from the previous posts) my boyfriends ex girlfriends had kept telling me that they were going to get back with him and all this and they were constantly flirting with him, so i asked him about it.. and he got mad, from what he said it sounds like he thought i was accusing him of cheating(which i wasnt) but now that i think of it, if hes not guilty, he shouldnt get mad at me for asking, but what he said was that it upsets him that i would accuse him of something like that.

So do you think it was all just a big misunderstanding between us, or is there something bad going on?

2007-06-20 16:42:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My uncle was in a car wreck. It was raining and the car went out of control. In the end he ran into a tree and nobody else was hurt. He wasn't hurt that bad, but he can't move his neck. He also has glass in his skin. The only reason he survived was because he was wearing a seat belt. Ever since the wreck he's always saying I can't believe I was wearing a seat belt. How do I deal with my uncle that is like a father to me who could've died?

2007-06-20 16:23:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do any of you women like any kind of Hispanic guys?

2007-06-20 16:20:04 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

If your married or in a serious relationship and having an affair what is the common or appropriate thing to do, tell the person while the affair is happening or after the affair is done?

Additionally, are some lies in a marraige necessary?

2007-06-20 16:19:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't say at home with my mother. She collects my child support and I don't see any of the money. How can I collect my own check?

2007-06-20 16:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

guys, what is ur favorite type of earrings when girls wear them??

this includes: pear studs. dimond studs. hoops. etc.....

2007-06-20 16:16:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Maybe I'm just to nice and giving?! and forgiving!

2007-06-20 16:15:04 · 32 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm asking this because, yes, I'm 15, and I don't know how to go about asking them if it would be all right if I saw this guy sometimes. I am responsible, I'm always home on time, etc... basically a "good kid". Anyway, I don't exactly have a "talking" relationship with my parents, even though I've tried to make that so. I know they should meet him, etc..

How would you want your daughter to bring up the matter of dating? Thanks for any advice... I want this to work out, but obvoiusly I have to have my parents approval before I could spend time with him.

2007-06-20 16:13:41 · 3 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Family

My daughter and I seen oprah today with a teenage girl who hid her pregnancy with her boyfriends help, had the baby, stabbed him, placed him in a gym bag. They placed rocks in the bag with the baby and through it is the lake or river (body of water) in the town where she lived. She is now in jail for 6 years.
My daughter and I sat down and talked about what would happen if she ever became pregnant. I let her know I didn't ever want her to run. We will work through it together. We actually talked about her finishing school and making choices. That i would probably be shocked, a little angy, scared with her but we would work through it together and never to run or hurt herself. I told her I want her to come talk to me before pregnancy happens so I can help her protect herself. Anyways, my question is have you talked to your teenager and what is your game plan?

2007-06-20 16:13:03 · 6 answers · asked by cheoli 4 in Family

My husband cheated on me with two different women and I thought I would never get over it.So I cheated on him, he doesnt know.I feel guilty, should I tell him..Lately our marriage has been getting alot better....and I dont want to screw things up....

2007-06-20 16:09:17 · 20 answers · asked by greyeyebeauty81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

are you scared of being alone?
do you think no one else will love you?
is he the best you can do?
because you owe him?
because he's familiar?
I don't understand why women stay in bad situations, will you please enlighten me?

2007-06-20 16:08:00 · 11 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 16:04:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are engaged and have been looking around for a place to get married. He is originally from East Texas and so we were looking around that area or the Dallas/Forth Worth area. So if you know any ideas please fill me in! Thank you guys so much for your time!! :)

2007-06-20 16:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by krisnashley 1 in Weddings

does it really matter to you how a women dresses, if she is clean, smelling good & appropriately dressed for the occassion?

what do you think about stilletto's?

2007-06-20 16:02:25 · 13 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating