so now the issue has grown. (from the previous posts) my boyfriends ex girlfriends had kept telling me that they were going to get back with him and all this and they were constantly flirting with him, so i asked him about it.. and he got mad, from what he said it sounds like he thought i was accusing him of cheating(which i wasnt) but now that i think of it, if hes not guilty, he shouldnt get mad at me for asking, but what he said was that it upsets him that i would accuse him of something like that.
So do you think it was all just a big misunderstanding between us, or is there something bad going on?
2007-06-20 16:42:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think that hes the kind to cheat, so im hoping that this was all just a huge misunderstanding... and if i explain to him how much he means to me and that i wasnt accusing him of anything...if that would help... i really hope so.. cause he means everything to me.
2007-06-20 16:56:58 · update #1
Sounds more to me like they are still upset with him and are trying to get you upset so you'll ditch him.
Of course I didn't see your previous post either so I'm not sure of what happened.
Keep your ears and eyes open and let it run it's course till you get the evidence in hand that he is cheating.
2007-06-20 16:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Stormchaser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was read book after book on cheating and every book says the same thing, if he isn't guilty then he would not get mad at you but when they are guilty they get mad cause they no by getting mad we will stop talking about it.You no he has cheated on you it 's just a hard thing to except I no because my husband did it to me and like you i was in denial and made excuse after excuse.Time to wake up and do something about it. Or you could just go on and pretend nothing is going on and hope it runs it's corse.
2007-06-20 23:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best think I ever learned from previous situations like this is trust your instinct. If you even have to question, or even post a question to get other people to tell you what you already know you are just putting off the inevitable. Trust your gut. It'll never steer you wrong.
2007-06-20 23:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by heat2121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing with this subject is that u can't be 100% sure until u actually catch him redhanded. Some indicators are:
1. Leaving suddenly
2. Him feeling overly guilty / apologizing for everything
3. Other girl's #s
4. Missing money
These are good indicators but b sure that he really is b4 u talk to him. if he is, he doesn't deserve u.
2007-06-20 23:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by lucky#7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say trust your instincts and not you man. If you believe that he is cheating on you. Than just let him go. Dont ask him dont ask his ex, just let him go. To may times we say " I knew you were cheating!" Well if you know than why'd did you stay for the confirmation? Also, never trust the ex you never know what her motives are. And you dont know what your man's motives are. If you have doubt in your heart dont wait around for him to break your heart. Break it off with him. If you dont believe that he is cheating than, stay with him and NEVER mention this situation again.
2007-06-20 23:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by trynarenee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him and clarify things which will bother you..
A good relationship needs a lot of understanding and off course
a better communication from both of you...
2007-06-20 23:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by arnch90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might not be anything going on. But.... Then again, something might be going on. You never know. I dont even know, but there is always the possibility. I give you my deepest wishes that he is true to you.
2007-06-20 23:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be his ex is jealous of both of u, so she is saying sth bad to u so that u and bf would quarrel and she got happy from that. simply ignore her, but then, she might tell the truth too. try to ask from your bf, if your bf denied wht his ex has said, ask him to warn his ex not to disturb both of u. be cautious all the time.
2007-06-20 23:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the girls r trying to get him pissed off at u. probably a misunderstanding
2007-06-20 23:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by musicchick1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why deal with the drama. I wouldn't deal with it. Solo meo in dating not ex's and other bad influences.
2007-06-20 23:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by southernstyle352 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋