Family & Relationships - 20 June 2007

2007-06-20 20:53:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I been married for 3 years to my first husband we have a one child and we want another, BUT he always goes party with his parents on the weekend or helps ppl out when they need help with things, but whenever I ask him for something he says he worked all day and shouldn't have to work at home and I understand, but why do things with other ppl and for other ppl? I'm not asking him to go to Italy or whatever. I'm asking him to spend time with us like going to the park and he doesn't. I have to beg him. But his parents crap on him they only call him when they want something as to where me and his child want to spend time with him as a family b/c we love him. So I don't know what to do. I want another child, but I don't want the same thing to go on. When I was pregnant the first time he wouldn't drink or party. He was good then, but now he's 30 I think he needs to grow up. What does everyone else think? Should I give up or just deal with it?

2007-06-20 20:50:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-20 20:49:09 · 8 answers · asked by rickmick64 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-20 20:49:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 14 year old girl and my parents are starting to ground me more often than they spank me. I hate getting grounded. I'd rather get a spanking and get it over with. Sure, it is awkwad, I agree, since I may be a little old to get an over the lap spanking, but, even though it hurts like heck, I'd rather get spanked than get grounded. Am I weird?

2007-06-20 20:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-20 20:44:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is all about child custody, usually guys get screwed over with custody battles. Right now I have temperary full custody and she has no contact what so ever. Sorry to say, she's an idiot. It started out with her filing for a pfa (protection from abuse) against me, a day later, she claimed child abuse against me on our 2 and a half year old son. All was thrown out in court. I know things are in my favor right now, but it just seems like custodies go in the mothers favor. Any helpful hints for the custody battle that starts at the beginning of July???

2007-06-20 20:41:21 · 7 answers · asked by Go STEELERS-58 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last month, I kicked my husband, who is a severe alcoholic, out of our home after living together for 7 years and being married so far for 3 years. We have no children together but have six kids from previous marriages, three lived with us, my children and his children live with his ex-wife. Anyway, since I made him leave he has done nothing but blame me for everything from the things the kids do, to money issues, to his drinking, to you name it. I am getting to the point that I am so depressed that I am losing weight rapidly, I have so far lost 20 something pounds and still losing. To feeling ashamed to being near other people especially men, and even just downright depressed about everyday issues. How can I make this stop or at least make myself feel better. I am attending church full-time and he attends the same church. We both were attending marriage counseling until he decided to stop when the counselor let me speak my mind about the marriage. Please help.

2007-06-20 20:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 20:25:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-20 20:18:35 · 26 answers · asked by franco blanco 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, here's the deal.

There's this girl that I really really like, and I have for months now. At the beginning of said "crush", she liked me back, but has gotten other boyfriends since then.

What I'm really trying to ask here is if I were to kiss her and just tell her I love her, would that be romantic or horrifying? How would you girls feel if you were in the same position?

2007-06-20 20:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by divadtrahkrub 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever heard that song " while making love to you I saw the sun, the moon, the mountains and the rivers....." bla bla bla.... well, how many of you experience that while making love to your partner? Do you agree or see similar visions or do you think the singer is a fake? Please elaborate and thanks for all answers. The best answer will be the one that is most clear about it all.

2007-06-20 20:04:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was dating this guy and i told him i need to stop. he said he understood and he agreed to be friends. he has a lot of issues that i feel as a woman that i cant put up with. well he basically manipulated me and had sex with me. he was acting like he really cared and i do deep down inside wish things would work but i dont think he will change. well he didnt come to my house tonight as always cuz he has gotten all he wanted from me which seems to be sex. well i feel very bad and used up. i made a bad choice. he played me gain and i feel so stupid. why did i let this happen to me if i know ghe is no good. im constantly thinking about it and i feel like crying. im so dumb. i need to stay away from him cuz he will just play me again. i need help really bad. this guy smokes weed all the time. he spends alot of money on the stuff but wont even give me a dollar. he never introduced me to his kids. we've dated for 4 months. i never see him on weekends. i kind of hate him. plz help me.

2007-06-20 20:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend had sex lastnight, weve been going out for 9 weeks, and i think it was because he went from behind, but after we finished some air came out of that area and it sounded like i let wind, it was a horrible noise and it happened twice!
I was so embarrassed!

What will he think of this? i let him know what it was so that he didnt think it was any other noise but i dont know what he thought about it (or me afterwards.)

Has this happened to any of you and is it normal?

2007-06-20 19:59:58 · 17 answers · asked by gillian m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have somehow ended up working for my dad and living back at home and in a horrible routine whihc i hate and my job and i have been doing it for three months because i'm 'gonna' go back overseas or soemthing adn i havent i jsut cant go on like this and have an urge just ot pack up my car and drive...do you think that would be crazy?

2007-06-20 19:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and said I needed a whoopen...what the heck was he talking about?? what did he mean??? what ever it was would I have deserved it???

2007-06-20 19:53:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We are planning on getting married in either Jamaica or Mexico next January. We were wondering if it is a better idea to go to the justice of peace and get legally married and just have a ceremony at our destination of choice or to just go and try and do it legally in a different country. If anyone has any experience with this or advice, please let us know! Thanks in advance.

2007-06-20 19:51:54 · 8 answers · asked by jesserf161616 1 in Weddings

2007-06-20 19:49:22 · 10 answers · asked by verbal kent 1 in Singles & Dating

I had been in a relationship for 5 and a half years, we rarely fought and We communicated rather well. I loved him and he loved me. I thought it would be good for hom to visit his first kid, and he ended up telling me he loved her as much as me! She's marrying someone and they dont seem involved but i asked him to leave because I think after 5 years I deserve to be the one love....now he has a new girlfriend but said he wanted to prove he loved me... what say you?

2007-06-20 19:49:09 · 9 answers · asked by HeavensDarkAngel26 1 in Singles & Dating

We met in 5th grade, I had the biggest crush on him, as did he when he told me 8 years later. He went to boarding school after 8th grade, then I moved away after 9th grade. About 9 months ago I found him on myspace, we started talking a lot. That's when we both told each other we liked each other and still do. I went to see him in October, then again a month ago. We will both be attending WVU next year and he wants to wait til then to date. He doesn't want to do the distance thing over the summer because he says it will make him depressed not being able to be with me. I want to wait because I like him a lot, but to be honest I'm scared he is going to find somebody else or change is mind. Should I wait for him? and if so what should I do til then, not call or talk to him? Let me know what you think about the whole thing, thanks =]]

2007-06-20 19:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by word.up.baby. 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a stay at home and cannot help to be feeeling insecure... my husb has on his cell phone the no of his co-workers male and females thr females are2 that he works with and 1 that is from a totally diff. area code. I cant help 2 wonder if there something IDK. his company is having a grand opening and they are having this big event at work.. it will be catered and all... my Q is do companies allow them to invite there spouse bcuz he has not told me to stop by and he works 10 min from home. my women insticts tell me that there something IDK please help.

2007-06-20 19:42:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when I put my hand on my eye when its closed it feels warm. is this normal or something wrong?

2007-06-20 19:40:47 · 2 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep hearing that the sex stops after you get married. Why is that? How do the guys feel about this, and what do you do to correct the problem?

2007-06-20 19:36:38 · 13 answers · asked by yayaquack 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, really weird, I graduated from high school 5 months before my Senior class mates and didn't go to graduation today. A couple weeks ago I called up an old friend (we ended hanging out right before I graduated and I guess he's still pissed at me because we were picking up chicks and he didn't get one and I did, anyways) so I called him 2 weeks ago and said "hey I met some chicks at a bone fire, wanna mess with them" he's pissed and he said "no".

Anyways, today he calls me and leave a message and the message is just him talking to some girls about me, I couldn't make out anything except "John called me 2 weeks ago to hang out with chicks at a bone fire" and "John always hits on girls and says 'hey ladies' as his lame pick up line" and I heard some unknown girl in the background say something like "wow he must not care about his girlfriend if he's hitting on girls" and my friend also said "he's lame hitting on 15 year olds" that's all I heard.

But the thing is, I'm not insulted , frankly I'm flattered they still even talk about me, is this unusual or what? I never see these guys and I have a very healthy social life but knowing that people are talking about me when I hardly even think about them simply flatters me.

2007-06-20 19:33:17 · 16 answers · asked by John S 2 in Singles & Dating

i 've been with my husband for 9 yrs,married for 6 with 2 boys still unsure of his feelings for me. the beginning was quite shaky, he moved in with me. sometimes i feel as though i shld never have married him because we are so different as far as education & economic status. i'm a college grad, & a pharmacist. he just has a hs diploma. i'm also 7 yrs older than him. i have good genes though, people think i am much younger than i am. he's a immigrant & not yet a citizen, he recently got his greencard & just finished flight school and is a pilot now. in order to get a good job in his career he has to accumulate flying hrs. we are both excited he further his career so as to become a better provider for his fam. we both feel it is important for him to become the breadwinner,( the man shld be. i feel frustrated that i am now. NO MORE!)it wld make me more confident of his feelings for me, but wld it be enough? y am i not sure of him?he is faithful, good dad, dependable affectionate

2007-06-20 19:30:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Answer honestly.

2007-06-20 19:28:18 · 19 answers · asked by caitlin; xxx 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I get along well, except when it comes to spending and finances.

I'm currently 38 weeks pregnant and expecting to go into labor any time now. He finds it perfectly ok to waste money on video games, musical instruments, CD's and selfish things.

Then when I ask for money to put food in the house, I get the "I don't have any money to spend on food." The problem has gotten so bad that a friend had to Western Union me $50.00 for groceries a few weeks ago.

Because I'm not working right now, I feel at a loss of what I can/can't say. Technically, it's not my money - but the food is not only for me, but for him and our child.

How can I make him understand that it is important to have things like food, cleaning supplies and sanitary items in the house? Also,
am I wrong to be absolutely pissed off about this?

It's not like he can't afford it financially.

2007-06-20 19:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by mroof! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes she seems too beautiful to do something like that that smells and sounds gross.

2007-06-20 19:25:55 · 14 answers · asked by idog 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating him for almost 3 months. We had dinner at his place once and that's it! What's up with this?

2007-06-20 19:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by Katie Cooke C 1 in Singles & Dating

I tried internet service, not impress.... of course when I was working, I was interacting with alot of people. Now, I stay home with my three children and on my free time, I find it rather difficult to find a place to hang out and meet. Any suggestions....

2007-06-20 19:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by Minnie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships