I had been in a relationship for 5 and a half years, we rarely fought and We communicated rather well. I loved him and he loved me. I thought it would be good for hom to visit his first kid, and he ended up telling me he loved her as much as me! She's marrying someone and they dont seem involved but i asked him to leave because I think after 5 years I deserve to be the one love....now he has a new girlfriend but said he wanted to prove he loved me... what say you?
2007-06-20 19:49:09 · 9 answers · asked by HeavensDarkAngel26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you, yeah he says he loves me the same as her but 3 kids and 5 years should count for more than that, aspecially since he's lying about his new girlie... we used to talk about everything even other people!!!
2007-06-20 19:56:06 · update #1
Sorry if I sound daft, did you say you and him has 3 kids already? And as soon as you chucked him, he has a new girl, but says he wants to prove he loves you. Now, what's that supposed to mean?
Well, he might be the kind of guy who just can't stand being alone and yet his ego can't stand losing you.
Like everyone says up there, he's not worth it. You will feel really bad for a while and this is going to be tough (even worse if you really got kids with him). But this will pass.
Go see your girlfriends and spend a lot of time with them, mingle with plenty other singles. Chances are you'll feel better soon. Just don't rush into a new relationship (as I'm sure you won't).
Sorry to hear that and good luck.
2007-06-20 20:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Shaun's Mamma ♥♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the saying "if u cant beat them, join them"? I mean, y dont u go out there and spread ur nets as wide as u can and who knows, might end up with a big catch too! If wot u ve explained is the truth, then am afraid, things are not looking good dear. Think about that.
2007-06-21 04:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bigbrother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing is happening 2 me .
i have 2 children and he went with a 19 year old girl and still with her but he trys that stuff with me .
the thing is with men well low lives they wont you there in case things go wrong for them cause if he wanted 2 be there with you and his children he would he is wonting the best ov booth worlds .
hope you ar not still sleeping with him i did and then found out about her it was the worsed feeling i ever had of being used .
the best thing you can do is blank him act like you dont care go out with your friends and enjoy your life let him see that you dont need him
thats when they come bk with tail between there legs
take care love
try it see in a few weeks he will notice the difference xxxxx
2007-06-21 07:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by HAYLEY K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has way too much love passed around. How many true loves does he think that he can handle at one time? Sounds like a nut case to me, or a big time player. Lose the extra baggage, and find a real man that can make up his mind who he loves and stick with it!!
2007-06-21 02:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there i'm really really sorry to hear wots happening. i'm going through a rough patch myself wiv my gf so i know how u feel. th only advice i can give u is u've got to do wots right for u and ur children. u can't go on hurting not knowing wots really happening. as i've said do wots right for u and ur children.
2007-06-21 04:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by predator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hes not worth it... if he really love u he wouldnt be doing wat hes doing.. one he shouldnt feel nothing for his ex and wouldnt need a new gf!! move on with ur life, im sure there is something better for u out there! and dont feel depressed! rely on ur close friends, go out, meet new people, distract urself!! luck!
2007-06-21 02:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by iveth9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more fish in the sea love you would find someone that would turn mountains for you
2007-06-24 11:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say It sucks and there's nothing we can do but enjoy it while it lasts!
2007-06-21 02:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say hes not worth it... move on with your life... he doesnt love you or he would still be with you...
2007-06-21 02:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by skitz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋