me and my boyfriend had sex lastnight, weve been going out for 9 weeks, and i think it was because he went from behind, but after we finished some air came out of that area and it sounded like i let wind, it was a horrible noise and it happened twice!
I was so embarrassed!
What will he think of this? i let him know what it was so that he didnt think it was any other noise but i dont know what he thought about it (or me afterwards.)
Has this happened to any of you and is it normal?
2007-06-20 19:59:58 · 17 answers · asked by gillian m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either its compressed air or you let a brown noise out.
2007-06-20 21:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Razor Snake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very normal and if he isn't mature enough to handle this situation than maybe he shouldn't be having sex. There is no need for you to explain yourself to him more than once. I mean guys fart all the time at places that they really don't need to do it at. The reason why that happen is because your area was plugged up and had no air coming in and once he pulled out he let some air in. Don't be embarrassed because I am sure your no the only girl out there that has had that happen to them.
2007-06-20 20:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the scientific term for it is, but its called a vaginal fart and happens it lots of positions. It's horribly embarrassing but I believe I read somewhere it can stopped by doing exercises somehow. I'm not sure what specifically. It is normal. I've had it happen with multiple partners and no one has ever said a word. I'm not sure they know what it is but they don't say anything!
If its too embarrassing for you. Make a joke about it after it happens. See how he reacts. If he acts kinda embarrassed or such let him know what it was. He might just be immature.
2007-06-20 20:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by rosesanplacebos 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's never been with a woman before, he should already know what it is...particularly since you had sex in that position. It tends to happen to some girls when doing doggy. And unless he's totally immature, it shouldn't bother him at all. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. You know what it was, you told him what it was...if he's too inexperienced and/or immature to handle it, then that's his problem, not yours.
As some other answers have mentioned, just make sure you are condoms!! Be safe, be responsible, have fun!
2007-06-20 20:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by The Man In The Box 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely normal!! Lighten up, the only real concerns you should have are: making sure you use birth control, and just enjoying the moment!! Sex can be great; and be certain that sometimes awkward stuff happens but if you can both laugh about it then there should not be a problem!!
2007-06-20 20:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by starcrssdlover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to my girlfriend numerous times. You get air pushed up there and it has to come out. I remember prior instances where she was in extreme pain because the air didn't escape right away. I think you should come to expect it if he's going at you from behind. If he has a problem with it, find another guy because honestly, there's plenty of us out there who will appreciate an open-minded woman like you.
2007-06-20 20:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by peter_swytch 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal for this to happen sometimes. This is normally referred to as fanny air (trying not to be too lewd on here), and can happen quite often.
Don't feel embarassed about natural body functions. Most women have had it happen at one time or another, and most guys are aware of the difference.
:)
2007-06-20 20:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by mroof! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal.
2007-06-20 20:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by imfine_thanx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Letting out wind is better than looking at yourself bleed regardless of whether it's your first time behind or not. It's normal, just enjoy it, and relax.
At least you were honest with him, and if he knows you enjoyed it and he enjoyed it..it's no big deal, everyone let's wind out once awhile.
2007-06-20 20:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by bronzedgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha yeah its happened to me. it is normal it just happened that air got in there so it created the sound. It was very embarrassing but it was ok. My boyfriend noticed but he really didn't care. its okay calm down its fine!
2007-06-20 20:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ash834 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋