Does buying girls things and treating them stuff help them build an attraction to you?

Answer 1

If they're golddiggers, then yes. Personally, you can buy me all the gifts you want, but if you don't have good boyfriend qualities, then you can forget it.

Answer 2

I think a lot of girls are mistaken that if a guy buys them things, that it means they "care" about them more. But, it doesn't. It just means that this guy can't spend some money. You can go ahead and try it out though. It may very well work, but who knows...I'm just a guy.

I'm almost positive that a girl likes to have the "special treatment" from any guy. If you treat them good, honestly, and with respect...if they're the kind of girl that I would want to date, they should notice.

Best of luck.

Answer 3

Oh boy did I make that same mistake with my first serious girlfriend back in highschool and created a monster. NO! Don't do it. You can buy nice things for someone you care about, and who cares about you because they will appreciate it, but you can't buy nice things and expect someone to become attracted to you or fall in love with you. Like other people have said, If they are a gold digger they will see you for a sucker and take you for everything you have. If they are a nice person you actually might drive them away if they think you are only interested in showering them with gifts.

Answer 4

If you have to buy attraction, its waaaay to expensive. All you gonna buy is a broken heart and empty wallet. Of course a woman feels more secure around someone who has the means to take care of them, but this does not mean buy them stuff. Thoughtfulness will get you alot further. 1 rose and a hand written card instead of a dozen roses and that generic *** card, simple stuff.

Answer 5

No. It leads to materialistic women who do nothing but milk men for money and stuff.

Try doing thoughtful things for them. Write them letters ... pick flowers for them ... plan little inexpensive things like picnics, walk in the parks ... whatever.

I'm not saying don't taken them out and buy them things, but its the thought that counts, not the price tag.

If what will make them attracted to you is gifts and treating them to stuff, then you are focusing on the wrong target demographic in women.

Answer 6

Yes it can, as it shows that you care about them and want them to have what they desire. A guy who is always broke or has to get the girl to always pay for both of them is not attractive! However you need to be able to offer more than monetary goods, and starting small like sincere compliments, respect, opening doors could really get the girly type of girl to think about you differently! Its the thought that counts, expensive doesn't mean romantic.

Answer 7

well it depends on the nature of your girl some girls love this attitude of thr guys and some feell really offended by that imean mostly problem with egoistic or self respect or independent kind of women will never like thr guy to flaunt them like that ,ya at times on special occasions they will also love it where as other kind of gals may be flirt or serious but materialistic kind of girl will always demand for some thing or other

Answer 8

No, but it helps them build an attraction to your wallet. Gifts should come from the Heart, and not the pocket book.

Answer 9

buying a girl something should be for redemption, otherwise your just compensating for lack of connection at best. Usually it just allows her to tool you for stuff

and dont ever believe a gurl when she answers you about gifts, she will never tell you its a bad thing.

Answer 10

To a certain extent but I reckon it can be overdone. Keep it in check and don't get over the top. I agree that it's the thought that counts rather than the price tag. You actually have to act out on the thought though. ;)