We met in 5th grade, I had the biggest crush on him, as did he when he told me 8 years later. He went to boarding school after 8th grade, then I moved away after 9th grade. About 9 months ago I found him on myspace, we started talking a lot. That's when we both told each other we liked each other and still do. I went to see him in October, then again a month ago. We will both be attending WVU next year and he wants to wait til then to date. He doesn't want to do the distance thing over the summer because he says it will make him depressed not being able to be with me. I want to wait because I like him a lot, but to be honest I'm scared he is going to find somebody else or change is mind. Should I wait for him? and if so what should I do til then, not call or talk to him? Let me know what you think about the whole thing, thanks =]]
2007-06-20 19:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by word.up.baby. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not matter. Coming from a guy, if you really wanted to test how much he likes you, wait until school and if he hasn't left for another girl then know that he is the one for you. Because if he likes you he will have no doubts about you. Good luck with that
2007-06-20 19:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by koolStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me, it all depends on you. How you'll feel if you have the long distance relationship or wait till that day?
If this guy had a crush on you in school time and still has as you are telling now, he'll still have the same feelings for you whether you start dating now or after a few days. The point is that th feelings will remain the same, you just have to have faith in yourself that there'll be no change from your side. If there's some change from his side then it'll hurt a little, but, you know life has many options for you. So, hope for the best and if you want then call him, but, it'll seriously affect you in a negative sense (I know because I am suffering from this rite now).
If you're not satisfied by my view, then I am sorry that I was unable to help you.
Take Care
2007-06-20 20:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by onubaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly. do you think you it would make a difference?? i think you should go with your heart, obviously that is easier said than done, i don't think you should necessarily wait for him, but keep it in the back of your mind. First off 5th grade was a long time ago, you both are probably totally different people. He is probably right about the long distance relationships, guys with college and drinking and girl don't necessarily mix when there is a girlfriend back home. my upfront honest opinion is don't wait, a lot could happen in that time frame and if you don't find someone and he wanted to wait and had enough will power, than good for him. You've got yourself a new man....
2007-06-20 19:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in touch and get to know each other better, honey. Stay positive. If you don't stay positive, it won't make anyone feel better - especially him. Confidence and a positive attitude are very infectious, all for a good reason:).
He may be really new to dating so he may not want the stress of a long distance relationship. Just take things as they come, as long as you keep in touch with him and he said wants to wait, you can be almost sure that the two of you will be a couple when term starts. Good luck:-D.
2007-06-20 19:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by bronzedgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, and statistics would indicate that any relationship you have will only last a few months anyway.
Wait.
If he finds someone else, no big deal. He was probably going to find someone else anyway.
Sorry, but that's the statistics.
Talk to him over the summer, if he seems to enjoy it.
..but, don't smother him. Smothering him will not work to your favor in the long run.
In 5 years, you aren't going to be dating him anyway. (again, statistics)
Good luck. ...and take the long-view.
:-)
2007-06-20 19:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by energeticthinker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, i'm married to my severe college sweetheart. we are 21 and have been in love when you consider that we've been 14. We have been merely married final Sept. Our existence is spectacular at the same time! Our courting survived with various annoying artwork. My father grew to become into against me seeing every person. i think of he felt shielding when you consider that i grew to become into the youngest lady in the kin. besides, now he likes my husband as quickly as he observed that my husband grew to become into severe approximately me. Being married on your appropriate chum is so large!
2016-12-13 09:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait. long distance is alwasy hard. it is on my sister when she was dating a guy all the was acrosss the world. no joke. but still if u love him wait. if no the move on.
2007-06-20 19:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is right about the long distance thing. If it is right, it will withstand the summer break.
2007-06-20 19:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wait for him, it might be worth it
2007-06-20 19:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋