Maybe I'm just to nice and giving?! and forgiving!
2007-06-20 16:15:04 · 32 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so yeah i know its not mostly men its a fair majority of both men and women. just been the men i've been with to go with the lieing women. ya know! there are plenty of bitches and assholes in this world just wish i could find some decent ones around! sucks i look like i'm 12 but i'm way older than that like 10 years older! sucks ***!@!
2007-06-21 09:29:19 · update #1
It's you.
2007-06-20 16:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on.
Let me edify you.
According to a study published on Dec. 28, 2006, 40% of women cheat as opposed to 34% men. Of course, as with any study, there will be a particularly sizeable margin for error. However, those are significant numbers. Personally, I believe the above numbers are correct.
And why wouldn't they be? Say a man sleeps with 1 out of 10 women who hit on him. For a woman, it's more like 1 out of 100 in proportion to the above. Men don't share the number of times a woman cheats versus the number of times she could have, but due to the fact that women are hit on even more than men, the woman's 100-mark comes way before the man's 10-mark.
So it's safe to say that men and women both cheat just as much, at the very least.
Men don't have built-in tendencies to cheat. Women don't always want to form a long, lasting relationship. They both cheat and lie.
Now -- it sounds like the pool of men you've been dipping into isn't working out for you, so why not date someone outside of your normal range? You could be overlooking men who are fixated on you. Try dating a new "type" of guy. There's plenty to choose from.
2007-06-20 16:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by hbomb8404 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I generally think no, there isn't but I was reading a question some girl put on here if all men juust wanted sex blah blah blah and some guys and written so really sweet things like ' no, I just want someone I can spend the rest of my life with' and 'I care more about the personality of the girl' blah blah, so I guess there are some nive ones out there (but I havent met any!)
2007-06-20 16:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a man thing hun its a people thing,if you have the attitutde that guys cheat you will attract cheaters as they will think no harm done shes half expecting it.tell yourself you are a good person so there must be more like you about irrispective of gender and that confidence alone will have the most of the cheaters taking a step back n letting the good guys through at last. no good person male or female wants to be mistrusted your sending the wrong ones away with your signals and letting the wrong ones through thats all you need to do to put it right, swap over xxx
2007-06-20 16:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men lie because they don't want to get caught cheating, but as for men cheating it's mainly because we have little self control when it comes to our hormones, so when we see a woman that we are attracted to (although we may not intend to cheat) we tend to flirt with the idea of sleeping with that woman and if she shows any attraction to us then we are now in a situation that is very hard to avoid.
2007-06-20 16:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Carl T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say about 75% of us men are selfish pricks, so you just have to look for the 25% that are not but women find the pricks more attractive, so good luck with working out what you actually want.
2007-06-20 16:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by mkultra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense but if a man is cheating you shouldn't be forgiving. Anyway, Mr. Right is right around the corner and there are boys that do prove not all boys are the same, us classy girls just have to find them. But don't worry their looking for us too. :-)
2007-06-20 16:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are good men left. I am one of them.
I think it's an unfair generalisation to say that it's mostly men who lie and cheat.
2007-06-21 00:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are good men out their . but find one that likes u for u not what u got . most wemon make the mistake of giving it up to soon . let him know from the beginning where u stand with that. then if he stays with u will have a man that truely loves u for u
2007-06-20 16:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by himhum03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are definitely good men in this world. You're probably getting involved with the wrong kind of men; you need to develop your ability to read people.
EDIT: Celene has a good point. There are good men in Europe...
2007-06-20 16:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men in this world lie and cheat. but there are a few good men left. like me
2007-06-20 16:18:40 · answer #11 · answered by crazyromo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋