I loved my girl4om d botom of my heart.In fact she was everything for me.I was completly blinded by her.I sacrified my career,money,family,friends4he... She used2mesage, write letter exchange I LOVE YOU's with her Ex and other guys whom she used to be friendly with & wen i found out all dis she gave me a stupid concept saying dat saying I LOVE YOU is soothing word 4 her & she says it 2 all who love her & all & i like a fool said OK & believd her.I beared all what she did bcos I din want to lose herD next day she broke up wid me saying she doesnt want 2 b with me.I cried lots dat day..Later i came2 know she was goin around wid some guy.After 3 months, she came back 2 me saying sorry & was crying. I took her back in my life but she had not changed.Just4d first2days she was loving & after dat she was like before, flirting wid all the possible guys,avoiding my calls,cutting my call.It hurt me a lot & when i told her dis, she again left me & went.should i keep in touch with her in future?
2007-06-20 16:55:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, keep in touch. But find someone else, there will always be someone a lot better, trust me. But about your ex. Stay in touch and stay sweet, and then you'll have a booty call (for life! if you are good). But don't ever expect nothing more than casual booty calls, remember you guys broke it off for a reason.
2007-06-20 16:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her. And at the same time say that you will not allow yourself to be treated the way she is treating you. You have more respect for yourself even if you have feelings for her.
It seems she cannot sustain a relationship, and you have always been convenient for her to turn to for a time being. Its ok to forgive her, and let her know that. But also make a firm decision that she cannot treat you like that, you are not a stepping stone in the middle of a river, you are actually a river going off to the sea. People who want to be part of your life should learn how to ride and navigate to the direction you want to go.
2007-06-20 17:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by gatwick100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know i already think u know the answer to this question.most of the time i say give so and so a second chance and u have already done so.also if she messes up agian do u really wanna be put through that once more?and if u wanna stay in contact then thats fine if u thik u can handle it cuz u might start to have feelins 4 her agian if u dont already.good luck.
2007-06-20 17:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by baby*Phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont keep in touch with her youll just get hurt more. change your number and stuff so she can contact you and you can break free and move on for good. remember there always more fish in the sea and there are way better gurls out there than here that will treat you so good. dont settle for any less than what you deserve and you deserve better than what she could or ever will give you
2007-06-20 17:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by tuff chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just no.
I assume you knew this was the response you'd get. The way you wrote it tells me you're probably aware that taking her back, or even speaking to her is crazy.
So you need affirmation from strangers to keep your resolve?
You have it! Run away and don't look back!
2007-06-20 17:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by saturn_adrift 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your love life is as good as your grammar.
Kick her to the curb and buy a dictionary!
2007-06-20 16:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no definatley not, she will always be trouble i went back to my love 8 times and each time ended in heartbreak.... but if u decide to i hope ur girl is different to mine
2007-06-20 17:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend do u want to keep in touch with her...it depend to me..i probaly would not cuz she left u 2 times
2007-06-20 16:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by *(LoVe mAtTer)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not deserve you. move on. In fact erase her number from your phone. go out and meet someone else. she is not worth the heart ache.
2007-06-20 17:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to listen to the song BUTTERFLY by Mariah Carey, its a great song and I'm sure its good for you....
2007-06-20 16:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by shin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋