Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

Me and my boyfriend are to to the same college , and I'm starting a goal in life , to feel better about myself, and want to enjoy life, and look really cute for my boyfriend, any ideas, cant be to sexy, cause my boyfriend doesn't like it , when other guys look at me,how can I feel better about myself, and rasie up my low self estyem, and look cute for my man, ideas???And have to think good about life

2007-06-13 14:50:58 · 8 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

well i went out with this major jerk and i broke up with him because he was being a major jerk. and now i like his best friend and i need to know if it is wrong to ask him out. HELP ME PLZ!!

2007-06-13 14:48:59 · 39 answers · asked by Death Romancer 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there a pillow that will after being scrunched all night go back to its normal shape ? I am so tired of buying new pillows because his is so mishapen. I actually bought 15.00 pillows in hopes that the more expensive ones would be better. It didn't work. I know this probably sounds like an unimportant question but to me it is very important.

2007-06-13 14:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by Terry R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been 'involved" on and off with a guy for 21/2 years, but he would never fully committ to me. Three months ago, he met a woman and they have both fallen madly in love with eachother. He told me that he wants to marry her, and as far as I'm concerned, it's either friendship or nothing. I'm not sure which is worse. He's not going to make a very good husband because he has no money, no car, and is not a very good provider, so maybe I should settle for friendship, and I'll be better off in the end. What sucks though, is that I'm hopelessly in love with him. What should I do?

2007-06-13 14:47:32 · 19 answers · asked by sporty 2 in Singles & Dating

what are some of the long term effects?

if both are interested, and have talked about the possiblity of having a girlfriend, what are some of the major disasters that could happen?

could it ruin a marriage? make it better?

2007-06-13 14:46:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been 'involved" on and off with a guy for 21/2 years, but he would never fully committ to me. Three months ago, he met a woman and they have both fallen madly in love with eachother. He told me that he wants to marry her, and as far as I'm concerned, it's either friendship or nothing. I'm not sure which is worse. He's not going to make a very good husband because he has no money, no car, and is not a very good provider, so maybe I should settle for friendship, and I'll be better off in the end. What sucks though, is that I'm hopelessly in love with him. What should I do?

2007-06-13 14:46:46 · 4 answers · asked by sporty 2 in Singles & Dating

We were friends in Elementry and Jr High in Salt Lake City Ut.
Ronda Calishaw moved to go to a different High School... I think it was Brighton High in 1977. From there I heard she moved to Oregon... I am moving to Oregon and I really want to look her up but I have no idea how. Any ideas?

2007-06-13 14:45:36 · 4 answers · asked by Rosietrue 1 in Friends

My man and i have been together for two years..i a m 25 he is 23.. i wanna settle down and get married because i have children. And i want a commitment with the ring! everytime i confront him about it...he gets really mad? should i just stop bringing it up?

2007-06-13 14:43:39 · 11 answers · asked by missymrocks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so me and my mom where having another one of our useless lecured talks and i told her to read a book on parenting and she told me to find a book about how to respect your parents or some crap like that. as if there really is a such book. =p. wtf. anyway, i went online and got her an article to read and she said she wouldnt read it until i find an article about how to be nicer to your parents because in her mind, "there should be one." and i was like, "mom there is no such thing because its not like im childrening you, your parenting me!" and her stubborn self was like "nooooo... there is one there has to be since there are articles about parenting." *sighhh* and i was like want a bet? and and she was like yes i want a bet. and now she went outside to smoke. somone please point me the in the right direction of this so-called how to be a better child to your parents book. WTFFFFFFFFFF.

2007-06-13 14:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by xheres2thenightx 1 in Family

I've been dating this someone for a little over a year and have recently (and throughout our relationship) we get into arguments about me being easily upset and how he can't be with me like that and tells me I need to stop getting upset.
Sometimes I get upset..:
- when he is out with friends (especially ex-girlfriend.)
- don't get physical attention and affection in private.
- in public wanting to be treated like more of a girlfriend than friend...
- when he talks about the parties he's been to
- when he tells me about the future parties
- when he tells me he would rather see friends.

Now I know that I'm emotional, but I never tell him he does anything wrong. I thought a little more girls were like this than he knows apparently. He has considered breaking up with me because he doesn't think anyone should be like this.

Am I abnormally crazy? Am I just pumped full of estrogen from birthcontrol?

2007-06-13 14:39:37 · 6 answers · asked by old thompson 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i made this fake myspace of this random girl just to see if my boyfriend would cheat on me. I flirted with him, and he flirted back. One of the things he said was, if me and my girlfriend break up, will u still go out with me? ( keep in mind this person isn't even real) so i said of course. another major thing was that we put this revealing photo of a random girl that was supposed to look like her and he commented, IM SPEECHLESS! Now what? i can't tell him i was actually the girl. now how do i get back at him/ break up with him?

2007-06-13 14:39:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just seen this girl for a couple of weeks here and there, but never really had the opportunity to speak with her since she works in the pharmacy and I work as the stocker. The first time I saw her I believe she be the most attractive woman I would ever meet in my life because I could not find any flaw. The major problem is that I do not want to put myself out in the open because I don't know if she is married or dating someone else. I have never had such strong feelings for a person and I have basically just hello to her and thats all. I wanted to know if I should just try to start off talking to her and finding more about her without trying to come on too strong or show her my interest in her. She is constantly on my mind and picture myself living out my days with her beside me. What should I do? I will appreciate all the answers I will receive and thank you for reading my thoughts.
I'm 21, don't know how old she is but can tell is around the same age. I work part-time, go to

2007-06-13 14:39:06 · 21 answers · asked by mike j 1 in Singles & Dating

and do they honestly believe that their children are dumb enough to believe that?

who believes it when parents deny that they're playing favorites? do you?

2007-06-13 14:38:59 · 8 answers · asked by Ťango 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister went on some YAS summer program where you go with a group of people camping around Yellowstone National Park for a month doing community service, etc.
She asked my mom if she could go with our family friend Rachel who lives in our town if she could go to Tim's house and visit him and Petey.
My mom said yes, so my sister found all the train times, and money and everything.
Tim lives in a boardering state.
Then my sister told my mom she wanted to sleep over.
And they got into his HUGE fight.

My mom won't let my sister sleep over, and its pretty obvious why. She says there is 'no supervision' and 'its not right for a lady to sleep over a guys house' and 'she never met him'
BUT.
My mom lets my sister go over her boyfriends house.

Any suggestions on helping my sister?

2007-06-13 14:38:58 · 5 answers · asked by Margery Stewart Baxter 3 in Family

i am a grown woman 26 years old with 3 kids. if i don't listen to everything my dad says to me he gets mad and throws a fit .like today he told me he bought a plot next to his in the cemetary for me and i told him i want to be cremated he threw a fit what do you think is wrong?

2007-06-13 14:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Family

My brother does not want to speak to me. The last time that we spoke, he told me something that hurt me. I hung up on him.

I sent an e-mail apologizing to him. He did not reply.

Now, I heard from someone else that he does want to speak to me at all because he thinks that something is wrong with me.

I have decided to not worry about it, but wonder why he is so against me that he would talk bad about me behind my back to someone else.

He lives 3000 miles away and is married with two children.

Should I just ignore it or try to patch up things?

2007-06-13 14:38:41 · 4 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

or maybe he never really did. Anyway, my question is what should I do? He's not sure if he wants a divorce, as we have two young children together. I'm not sure either, if we should stay together for our children or if we shoud just move on. I don't think it will be good for the kids if we divorce but I know that me and my husband being unhappy wont be good for them either. What is your opinion and advice?

2007-06-13 14:36:54 · 20 answers · asked by Violet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

she will let me perform the cleaning duties after she has satisfied herself with her boyfriend?

Should I bring a mop or something to her place?

I am really infatuated with this girl so I don't want to ruin this first date.

2007-06-13 14:35:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like a guy and we are really good friends and i kinda am liking him as more well thats the problem we already hang out and act like a couple we dont kiss or nothing but we flirt alot but we are really close you know as friends idk what to do.

2007-06-13 14:34:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help me please??!!!?
why is my parents don't understand me... don't want me to do what i want to do... they are so obsessed about me getting married.. I was engage twice before and ...it never works for me.. maybe because its arrange marriage....I help my family in different ways .. pay bills half of rent... so many things that don't even have to do it. I am with the man of my dreams I love him so mush and he love me to death..and because I Am Arab and his Pakistani. my parents cant stand it.they said his Young and he doesn't have anything all that stuff. IAM 21 and his 23... they are always in my business and don't like me to be with someone who is different then me...I know its my business and its my life but why don't they just be happy because I Am happy.. I know parents know better .. but I just want them to be happy for me...they always say bad thing about me and always let me down.. they never support me... a girl like should be out a long time ago.. but because of my culture and my religion I don't want to go... I love my family but

2007-06-13 14:33:32 · 2 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I tend to get really stressed out b/c of someone in my life. This person doesn't treat me that great and I don't know how to deal with it. I don't want to cut or anything like that but I'm afraid that it may progress to that if the situation doesn't get much better.

2007-06-13 14:32:20 · 4 answers · asked by curiosity2414 1 in Family

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2007-06-13 14:30:00 · 15 answers · asked by amy 1 in Weddings

My girlfriend got in a hit and run car accident today. A man hit her car then drove off with a Stolen car. What she thought would cost her $500.00 is now is costing her over $3,000 dollars worth of damage and insurance will not pay for it because the car that hit her was a stolen car.

Well, Anyways my girlfriend and I had I guess you could say "Plans" for tomorrow night. It was the only day the two of us weren't working and she was not in class. I told her Tuesday we could not go to the movies and I thought she would understand it meant we could not hang out. The guys wanted to hang out with me and we were going to shoot some pool.

Well she flipped out. FLIPPED OUT like never before flipped out. She told me how she was looking forward to tomorrow night and how she was sick and tired of caring when I didn't and all this crap that to be honest I didn't feel like listening to!

I kept trying to talk to her and all she could say was please just leave me alone I'm very upset. (continue)

2007-06-13 14:29:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

go out with me?♥ just curious
if you would'nt, why?

2007-06-13 14:28:12 · 14 answers · asked by ♥pink panther♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

There's nothing in the Code of Ethics that says a Doctor and Patient cannot see each other outside the office as friends. If I did date anyone, I'd definitely want to get to know them as friends for a while. I'm not the kind of person who will jump into a physical relationship with anyone, even with doctors. I also think that Code of Ethics is wrong because I would say it would depend on each individual case. It's morally and ethically wrong to sexually abuse someone and take advantage of them. But it's not wrong to want to be friends and have a meaningful relationship. An intelligent medical professional who once critiqued the Orthopedic Code of Ethics stated "The Code of Ethics may stand, but Doctors are human too." I think this is one major fact that the Code of Ethics fails to acknowledge. I feel that my doctor and I are intellectually compatible, we are both kind loving caring people, and frankly, I think he would make a great friend, if given half the chance.

2007-06-13 14:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by D m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend and we have been together for a long time.
I want to know based on your experience the Best sexual position you have ever done to your gf/bf. (coz i want to teach my girl too.ahehehe)

I need it to be explained so that i can imagine it.
I hope you can help me. ASAP
Lets see if there is someone out there better than me.lol

Rock On \m/

2007-06-13 14:26:06 · 6 answers · asked by Rebeca D 3 in Singles & Dating

So how long do I wait before calling him to just see how things are?

2007-06-13 14:25:54 · 18 answers · asked by cutiepie81289 7 in Singles & Dating

In high school, do girls like guys who were the baggy clothing, and the clothes that are obviously big for them, or do they like guys who wear clothes that fit them? Or do they care at all?

2007-06-13 14:20:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I...

A. take pictures of them naked

B. beat them up

C. p*ss in there drinks

D. Screw there girlfriends

or

F. you tell me something

2007-06-13 14:20:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im the 2nd child in the family.But my parents treat me very different on how they treat my other sisters,brother.They love them more than they love me.Im always in the last list in everything sometimes nothing left for me.Sometimes I just seek attention and love from other people.I wanted to be loved by a parent.

2007-06-13 14:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Cristina 1 in Family