ok so i made this fake myspace of this random girl just to see if my boyfriend would cheat on me. I flirted with him, and he flirted back. One of the things he said was, if me and my girlfriend break up, will u still go out with me? ( keep in mind this person isn't even real) so i said of course. another major thing was that we put this revealing photo of a random girl that was supposed to look like her and he commented, IM SPEECHLESS! Now what? i can't tell him i was actually the girl. now how do i get back at him/ break up with him?
2007-06-13 14:39:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did this because earlier at school, he snapped my friends bra strap and smacked my other friends butt. He was also flirting with them all the time, so I talked to him about it and he said he would stop. This is my way of seeing if he would stop, since school's out now and I wouldn't know if he's flirting or not. So yea, I can't trust him obviously.
2007-06-13 14:48:45 · update #1
Since you set him up, and he failed the test, you should just break it off with him. Then set up a date with him on your alternate identity. When he shows up and sees you, hell get the picture.
2007-06-13 14:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to keep in mind that, YOU are lying to HIM.. he didn't actually cheat on you.. in fact he only said he would go out with this fake girl unless it didn't work out between you and him.. I actually give brownie points to him. also, this fake girl is you and has your personalilty even if you tried to hide it..and it's something he's obviously drawn to. not his fault.
send him a message that says, "I know you have a girlfriend and this isn't right to talk to you. I don't know why YOU let it go on for so long, or even why I did. bye." and wait til you see it's been read and delete the profile. don't respond to anything he sends. and leave it at that.
I wouldn't break up or be upset with him. are you going to tell me you haven't flirted AT ALL with a guy while you've been with your bf? give him a break. he actually passed the test. he said "if me and my gf break up".. your relationship obviously isn't that serious yet so he still has peripheral view.. as in, he can still see other girls even though you are still the main one in his view.. give him a break..
2007-06-13 14:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by JJK789 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 04:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you act like yourself on the fake myspace, or did you take on a whole other personality?
If you acted like yourself, this may just prove how attracted your BF is to you... it's like he can spot the essence of you in those he meets.
if you didnt act at all like yourself, then you have a problem... he's attracted to another personality, not yours.
as for the fake photo, any guy will drool over a posted photo, whether he wants her or not, it's just how they are.
2007-06-13 14:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by *Chika* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're saying that out of all of the girls on Myspace he immediately went to the fake one you put up? Hmmm fishy. There's more story here than you're telling. I would say everyone involved was deceptive and got what they deserved. Yep including you.
2007-06-13 14:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by elurle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you tell him and tell him what you two talked about so he knows you caught him.
Dude is planing on seeing other girls already. The dog isn't worthy of you dump him and tell him that.
We teach people how to treat us. If you take him back, he'll know he can mistreat and disrespect you and still keep you.
2007-06-13 14:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Michael M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, now that you know he would cheat, you have to ask yourself, how is your relationship right now? Maybe, he was just killingtime, and myabe he would cheat if he could. You have this info, so what were you going to do now that you have it? if you and him are ok, then don't sweat it, but do be aware. If you two are not getting along, then decide if you are going to stay. Best of luck.
2007-06-13 14:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, definetly break up ! He is an insensitive player !
2007-06-13 14:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! Just dump him. Odds are your fake profile is not the first one he's hit on or worse. I donno why people can't just be honest with one another and not play these stupid games!!!!
2007-06-13 14:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Krys1_11 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
break up.
that is kinda a weird thing to do though
2007-06-13 14:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by random bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋