advice needed...?

Question

I tend to get really stressed out b/c of someone in my life. This person doesn't treat me that great and I don't know how to deal with it. I don't want to cut or anything like that but I'm afraid that it may progress to that if the situation doesn't get much better.

This person is someone that I can't get out of my life, it is a parent. This person calls me names, yells, and calls my siblings and the spouse names too. This person is ver manipulative and controlling, one minute they'll yell at me and call me really bad names and the next they'll say that they love me and that their sorry and they didn't mean it. I dont' know what to do...i've told a teacher and DSS got involved, but nothing happened and I'm back to square 1. I talk to this teacher a lot, she's my hero, she knows some things that go on and have gone on..I confide in her for pretty much everything and I wish that I can tell her the whole situation but I'm afriad...anyone have advice

Answer 1

You should talk to this teacher again and tell her everything that is going on and get her imput on the situation. You should also try talking to the other parent.

Answer 2

You haven't mentioned how you feel about this person - is this someone you care about?
If you do both care about each other, you might tell this person that you do care, and when he/she treats you that way, it hurts. If this person does care about you, that may make a difference. Sometimes people say or do things without realizing that they're causing pain.
If you don't really care about each other, or this gets worse, you might try talking to a school counselor or a priest - somebody who will listen and have some ideas on how to handle it.

Answer 3

get that person out of your life

Answer 4

i'm sorry to hear this but, i'm afraid we'll need a little more info. could you elaborate?