i am a grown woman 26 years old with 3 kids. if i don't listen to everything my dad says to me he gets mad and throws a fit .like today he told me he bought a plot next to his in the cemetary for me and i told him i want to be cremated he threw a fit what do you think is wrong?
2007-06-13 14:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
by the way tried to talk to him about it he insists nothing is wrong he's my father and i should listen to him
2007-06-13 14:39:45 · update #1
put your foot down now he will only get worse with age he will get over it
2007-06-13 14:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by snowluk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people who used to be the most important person in their child's life, it is very difficult to accept that their opinion no longer carries the weight it once did. I think your dad is feeling a little useless now. It happens but it is just another part of life.
I have two sons. After they got married and moved out it was a strange feeling. It was particularly tough on my wife who suddenly found herself with time on her hands. She felt lost for a while.
Now we have three grandchildren. They have us busy again. But this time it is better. We get all the good parts. We can spoil them all we want. It is wonderful, again. As I like to tease my son, we can sugar them up and send them home.
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2007-06-13 21:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first....dads dont ever want their baby girls to grow up. Second, would it be so hard to placate him on this one? Thank him, and let things work themselves out. Do you still spend time with him? Dad and daughter time? Try it once a week or month, what ever is convenient. As you two grow closer he will be more open to your desires and wishes. He thinks he is protecting you and really doesn't want to see you make mistakes in life that he may have experienced. Just love him unconditionally and everything will work itself out.
2007-06-14 00:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is hard for dads to let got of there little girls. But i think a plot is alittle off. I mean I love my dad but I will be buried with my husband not my dad.
2007-06-13 21:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he has to respect your choices, especially in this matter. Ask him to be understanding. It will be hard but eventually he will come to terms with your decisions..
You're grown..lol
2007-06-13 21:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want to accept the fact that you are grown up and not his little baby anymore. he probably misses you as a child and doesnt want to accept reality.
2007-06-13 21:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by punkluver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋