Help me please??!!!?
why is my parents don't understand me... don't want me to do what i want to do... they are so obsessed about me getting married.. I was engage twice before and ...it never works for me.. maybe because its arrange marriage....I help my family in different ways .. pay bills half of rent... so many things that don't even have to do it. I am with the man of my dreams I love him so mush and he love me to death..and because I Am Arab and his Pakistani. my parents cant stand it.they said his Young and he doesn't have anything all that stuff. IAM 21 and his 23... they are always in my business and don't like me to be with someone who is different then me...I know its my business and its my life but why don't they just be happy because I Am happy.. I know parents know better .. but I just want them to be happy for me...they always say bad thing about me and always let me down.. they never support me... a girl like should be out a long time ago.. but because of my culture and my religion I don't want to go... I love my family but
2007-06-13 14:33:32 · 2 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should talk to them heart to heart..don't let them interrupt until you are done....but you are still young...when i have the same probs as you, i too think they are mean and don't want me to be happy all that stuff..but in the end, it turns out that he is bad for me...it takes 5 years of arguing with my parents to realize he's not the one for me...if you think he's the one, just keep being together. Show your parents that you are right for each other.....eventually, they will realize that you are happy....but don't ever shut them out of your life... ^^
2007-06-15 03:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by romanticangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, If you are determined to stay just be totally honest !There is no disrespect in honesty. I serve Jesus Christ and I will pray for you !
2007-06-13 21:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋