Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

I think she could get work as a lookalike but she wont believe me, how can i make her believe that she does?!

2007-06-13 00:57:34 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this really great guy online and I lied about my appearance time went on we talked more and more and eventually we were up many sleepless nights talking. Well I finally told him the truth about my appearance and he was mad not at the fact of what I looked like but more so because I had lied to him. He wont take my phone calls now however he still texts with me and tells me that I did mean something to him. I have apologized profusely and asked what I could do to fix this he tells me I cant fix it. I ask if he misses me and he says yes a little. I need some words to win him over win me that one more chance to see what might have been. I need some good solid advice on how to fix this or at least get him to talk to me.

2007-06-13 00:54:36 · 18 answers · asked by ai_indy_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

lemme describe myself. 20 years old, 5'9, overweight. I work out frequently, diet and bought a bike. I enjoy videogames, karate, music, movies and computers. I know I'm a geek (i know better than to talk about games/computers around girls) I'm in college and have never had a girlfriend. here's why... I am TERRIFIED of asking a girl out. it's not the rejection part so much (though that is some of it) but it's the fear of doing it! I have no problem talking to girls i know. if I don't know you I'm a little shy but it's not too bad. It took me about 3 days to get comfortable in all my classes so i'm not that anti-social. There's this girl I want to ask out, her name Is Ann. She's brunette with dark green eyes. I know she's not the most beautiful girl in the world, (she is pretty though) I want to ask her out when school starts this fall again. We're in a couple of clubs together so I can see her fairly frequently. How shoudl I do it? What do I say? Does "Wanna go out sometime?" work? Thx!

2007-06-13 00:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My first love really broke my heart, but he was still my first love and I think that counts for something.

Like, I was gutted when I found out he was married last year, and very pleased when I heard that his marriage had broke up.

Also can I just say I do not have FEELINGS for him, and I'm am about to be married myself.

What do you all think of your first loves?

2007-06-13 00:50:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-13 00:48:59 · 22 answers · asked by Chelle G 2 in Singles & Dating

im just curious...

2007-06-13 00:48:42 · 13 answers · asked by ungaz 1 in Singles & Dating

I been single for six years, but know girls will date me. why?

2007-06-13 00:48:30 · 7 answers · asked by chris c 1 in Singles & Dating

so I don't really feel attracted to many guys. I know my standards and I want to keep them. But this one guy he seems like the right guy, I just know it. We're best friends and we tell each other everything. We've messed around sometimes, nothing serious. Yesterday my friend said hes been messing around with this girl, which is fine he can I'm not dating him. So I call him and we're talking and I bring up the subject and hes like oh I've been dating her for a week now. I feel soooo betrayed. Not that he has a girlfriend, but that he didn't tell me about it or give me a heads up. It really feels like a slap on the face..... should I just forget him or try to tell him how I feel?
(sorry this is really long)

2007-06-13 00:47:56 · 4 answers · asked by Nicolette R 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex got married about 5 years ago. I am just not marriage-minded, so I let her go. We parted amicably and remained friends. We both agreed our sex life was pretty scorching, and we have even joked about it down the years.

At a vulnerable time in her life (deaths in the family, laid off from work) she met a "nice guy" and they got married like a year later. On the surface he is a "nice guy" but she tells me that he is mentally abusive: very jealous and possessive, obsessive, and calls her a "tramp" because she expressed a lack of satisfaction with their sex life (she wanted to do something other than the same ol', same ol').

She confided in me. Then we met. The sexual tension was excessive when we met, and now she is talking about wanting to have "sex on the side" with me again, discreetly. I'm not keen on her being an adulterer, but she is in her sexual prime (35), and I know the sex would be extraordinary. Is this a bad idea? I'd like various opinions from both genders please...

2007-06-13 00:46:19 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 23 year old guy...I love a girl,who is of same age,23...well...actually she is only 4 months older than me...but she has refused me bcoz she loves another man,...he works with her in her office...he is 54 years old.....married....and having children who are well above 20....but she loves that old man very much...and she told me that she had a physical encounter with him...she also told me that she will never get him...but she still will continue to love her...she also told me that she also never wants to lose my freindship....but,i think that old man is not a good person at all...he is just using her....but she won't understand....please help...i love her very very much.....

2007-06-13 00:45:33 · 14 answers · asked by babu 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 18 and from canada highschool, this girl i really like, who i think likes me has just gone and done something out of the ordinary the other day which makes me think shes taking me for granted!Okay it was one week back when i asked her to a concert, and she accepted, i didnt buy tickets as there are door sales. We had everything finalised, and when the big day came, about 30mins before the concert started she goes and says that shes way too busy with her study and cannot go to the concert!!!, i was furious,.....she said shell make it up to me and everything, but i just havent talked to her since!like nothing!!!(been a couple of days). This is the second time this girl has done this to me, although this was the big one!, i feel she thinks im always going to be there when she needs me, and i always have been, maybe i shouldnt, and see what happens?what do you girls think, should i go find another instead, i really like this girl, but dont know what she wants!what should i do anyway?

2007-06-13 00:44:38 · 4 answers · asked by ron h 2 in Singles & Dating

Received an email from a friend today. The long and short it it... She is dating this guy. The past weekend they were at his place when things started to heat up. She noticed that his dog, a lab, was still in the room. Not only was the dog in the room, but it was claiming "his" space on the bed while the two of them were doing the nasty. At first, she tried to ignore it and figured that in the heat of things, he just forgot to put the dog out. Act two began later that night. The dog was still there. She casually asked if he thinks the dog would be more comfy if out of the room. He replied that the dog thinks of the bed as its own and would be insulted if removed from the room. Which brings her to the problem. She likes this guy a lot. But she doesn't see getting used to having sex with a dog in the bed.

How to handle? Does anyone think that it is okay to have the dog there?

Guess this gives new meaning to doggie style...

2007-06-13 00:43:33 · 21 answers · asked by Misha 2 in Singles & Dating

my weight is 114.4lbs. guess my waist. i am 5 feet 6 inches. this is a fun question.

2007-06-13 00:41:58 · 5 answers · asked by SIMONE 5 in Friends

im a married women with a baby girl...my hubby is a foreigner and we live with my parents..i hate my family n now i hate my hubby he is alwayz favouring my mum whenever something bad happens,i alwayz get blame for nothing..i hate my self..now tat i hav a baby i feel she deserve a better life...my hubby is not showing concern abt moving out..i cant stay wit my parents anymore y cant he understand tat,i feel so useless n want to kill myself,,,i just hate living....

2007-06-13 00:40:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ive had a crazy mad life, but that was then!!
When I was about 17 I became addicted to heroin and messed the whole of my life up right through to being 41. unlike many, I managed to totaly escape and get off it,Ive been off 4 years now, anyway that's another story.
While I was using heroin i had sex with a girl who became pregnant, she had an on off relationship with someone who was stable and didn't take drugs. He had no reason to belive that the child wasn't his and I had every reason not to make him aware, I couldn't have been a good dad to save my life, it wouldn't have been fair on her, him or my daughter. Only the Mother and me really know that I'm the dad.
I'm not thinking of disrupting anyones life by saying anything and after stopping drugs for over four years now I do think about her a lot.
I don't have any other kids and I suppose I wish I could just see her without letting anyone know or hurting anyone.
What do you think

2007-06-13 00:38:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just be honest, don't withhold anything. What do you want? (In your relationship, life, or sex).

2007-06-13 00:38:35 · 23 answers · asked by aihsacak 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when someone doesn't love you back?

I spent one weekend with this guy and I think I fell in love with him..the weekend was so good..I met his?

Parents and we had so much in common...a lot of things were said like he wanted a relationship...I felt like I have always been in his life...now he's in love with someone else and i m in love with him...do I tell him how I feel? Should I till be his friend even though it hurts? How do I move on?
Additional Details

1 minute ago
would you tell him even though he's with someone else?

God how can i continue to be his friend?

I did ask him about his feelings for me and he didn't answer(he said he had bad reception on his phone and he also said he felt the same way i did about him)

I have never told him the way i felt about him....

2007-06-13 00:38:21 · 12 answers · asked by sweeiepie 1 in Friends

Attitude

The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud lady, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with her hair fashionably coifed and makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. Her husband of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.


After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on her window. "I love it," she stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.



"Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room .... Just wait." "That doesn't have anything to do with it," she replied. "Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged...it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it ...

"It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do.

Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away .....just for this time in my life.



Old age is like a bank account ..... You withdraw from what you've put in . So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories.

Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still depositing.

2007-06-13 00:37:46 · 4 answers · asked by Sangy . 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

People whom i know are all the same.They doesn't seem to like my attitude. what should i do?

2007-06-13 00:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's so busy at work, plus we have a 2 year old and a 1 year old that take most of our energy. He just seems like he's never in the mood. Masterbating just doesn't do it for me, and I have a feeling he's just quickly taking care of himself if you know what I mean.

2007-06-13 00:31:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm planning to just go no more than light kissing. :] But i think that's not really possible in the modern day world.

How far would you go? Views from males and females please :]

2007-06-13 00:31:12 · 15 answers · asked by caramelcoatedsweets 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 00:20:40 · 31 answers · asked by chris w 1 in Singles & Dating

to make all my relationships work but they keep failing i do everything they ask.my only problem is my temper i cant deal with it i'm not always angry but once in a while

2007-06-13 00:17:09 · 5 answers · asked by STARBO 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend , who which I was planning to propose to in the fall, broke up with me COMPLETELY UNEXPECTEDLY, after we had an amazing week vacation in Key West. The vacation was great, she was affectionate and we had sex every night. She told me that she needs a break and that there is NO OTHER GUY, and that she need to find herself and get back in touch with her individuality. She told me that there is no promise that we will get back together. She told me that the more I contact her, there more I am pushing him away. We had a great relationship, and never fought. I am COMPLETELY SHOCKED over this, I did not see this coming, there were no signs. Is this just a phase she is going through, she has never, I repeat, never acted like this, she has become so cold. On her Myspace page she changed her profile from In A Relationship to single immediately. I have been sick for a week over this, I can't sleep or eat. Is this like a midlife crisis for her, even though she is 26? Need Advice

2007-06-13 00:16:40 · 8 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to rehab 1 year ago and have been sober 1 year. My husband and I are currently seperated and I am thinking about going home. I asked him not to have alcohol in the house. He asked me if I was that weak. I told him that it was the point that I thought he should support me. His answer was that the refrigerator in the garage was his and he would keep beer if he wanted. I need some guidance. I don't know what to do- move back or go through with the divorce.

2007-06-13 00:05:21 · 26 answers · asked by sw 1 in Marriage & Divorce