What do you do when someone doesn't love you back?
I spent one weekend with this guy and I think I fell in love with him..the weekend was so good..I met his?
Parents and we had so much in common...a lot of things were said like he wanted a relationship...I felt like I have always been in his life...now he's in love with someone else and i m in love with him...do I tell him how I feel? Should I till be his friend even though it hurts? How do I move on?
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would you tell him even though he's with someone else?
God how can i continue to be his friend?
I did ask him about his feelings for me and he didn't answer(he said he had bad reception on his phone and he also said he felt the same way i did about him)
I have never told him the way i felt about him....
2007-06-13 00:38:21 · 12 answers · asked by sweeiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i go to his myspace page and i see where he has the headline "standing under her umbrella"..
Damit it hurts like crazy!!!
2007-06-13 00:55:22 · update #1
The bottom line here is that this guy mislead you by the fault of ignorance and omission. He stated that he felt the same way you felt without actually knowing how you felt and when directly asked, he avoided answering. The best way to deal with him is to ignore him completely and do not give him another chance to ignite the feelings that you were having when you were spending time with him. Apparently, he does not possess the quality of total honesty with his so-called girlfriend due to the fact that he spent a weekend with you. No. Do not be his friend because this "friendship" will only enable him to reach out and touch you in an unwelcome and temporary manner. Start having fun with other people and meet someone new. Telling him you are in love with him will only run him away from you immediately, or cause him to tell you more lies to get you hooked enough for him to abuse your body. How should you move on? Just do it.
2007-06-13 01:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't make nobody love you and do you really think that it's love or just LUST? Try telling him how you feel. The person that he already have feelings for could be YOU.....you just don't know it yet. If he was attracted and had feelings for another girl, WHY did you meet the parents and NOT her. Think! You're the girl but it's just that he could be having a hard time expressing himself to you too. And you were wondering how he feel the same way you do about him, maybe it's the way you act around him or the way you look into his eyes and blush! But trust me....you will be with him.
2007-06-13 00:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by {M0MMY 2 Be..♥} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe sad truth is that you need to love, like, enjoy, have things in common with the other person to get threw those tough times and to be with forever.
You need to think about what is right for you and pray about it. At the end of the day it is what is right for you and what you can live with.
2007-06-13 00:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by waters5430usa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let that boy reign you too hard, Girlie. But love makes us weak to such things... sigh This be a deep one needing pondering.
2016-04-01 05:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dont waste your time.I know.Too many relationships in my life that didnt work out because I would fall in love and they wouldnt.All that would happen is I would be standing at my window looking out crying at 3am.Find someone who will treat you as if you were the only one.
2007-06-13 00:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Robert K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i think that you should. just be honest.
tell him how you feel.
without being desperate.
take a risk.
you never know how good something could be unless you try.
who knows,
maybe he's feeling the same way for you,
and just trying to hide his feelings, because he doesnt want to hurt you, with starting a relationship, incase you guys break up.
go for it girl =]
be spontaneous.
2007-06-13 00:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i advice u not to speak because he may not understand u and at that time u will be in a real embarresing situation just try to forget about it and keep it for yourself and let him head the first move and u just play a waiting game
2007-06-13 00:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by loula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continuing to pursue the idea is self destructive.
You are going to mess yourself up.
In the meantime, take care of yourself really well and time will bring someone to love, who will love you back.
2007-06-13 11:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Threeicys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT HAPPENS EVERY DAY! you shuld tell him exactly how you feel. &let him know u r not desperrate!if he doest feel the same move on & allow him to play with your feelings if he loves his galfriend then he should not take you out!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-13 01:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by CHOCOLATE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be better if u let him know how u feel about him,,,,let it be any answer from him u just tell him on 1 fine day
2007-06-13 00:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by loverboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋