How far would you go(in a relationship)?

Question

I'm planning to just go no more than light kissing. :] But i think that's not really possible in the modern day world.

How far would you go? Views from males and females please :]

Answer 1

Yes, it possible to be abstinence with the right guy who respects you. I know because I am and he's great guy we both have made decision to be pleasing to our Lord Jesus Christ and not the world.

Answer 2

It depends on the kind of relationship you have with the guy. If it has just started you can't really tell, untill you have more time with that guy, to know if you want to go all the way. If you want to go by just kissing, is not that is not ok, but like you said, in this days is not possible unless you are like 10 years old. You can do the light kissing at the beginning, but eventually, you are gonna have to put out more, but you are also gonna start feeling more confortable. So, just take it slowly.

Answer 3

Considering that I have a daughter, I've been all the way. I would have loved to have gotten married, but it didn't turn out that way and my ex-girlfriend left me.

Still, you have to weigh up the pros and cons of the situation to determine how far you should go.

While I lost my girlfriend, I ended up with a beautiful daughter. So it balances out.

If you don't want to go any further than light kissing, that is your choice. But just don't go leading someone on like they think they are going to get something from you, or they might be a bit angry. Just make your partner aware that you aren't in it for sex, but rather the relationship.

Answer 4

Go as far as you feel comfortable. Remember, you need to face yourself in the mirror the next day, and feeling bad about yourself is a lousy way to start a relationship. I personally only find a girl that is moral and smart attractive. Think about the kind of guys you want to be with, and realize you are looking for a nice guy that will give you the freedom, and respect your views and opinions.

Answer 5

First and Foremost, it's all about how COMFORTABLE you are with the whole thing. Then how long have y'all been talking. You don't want to give your goodies up to someone you have only known a month, give it time. But just because it's modern world, don't let anybody pressure you into doing something that don't feel right to you. Be safe and I'm sure that you will make the right decision!!! ♥

Answer 6

Yes, of course it is.
If that's all you want then you should tell him that. Without giving him the impression that you don't want to be with him.

If you are being pushed into something you don't want to go in, you don't have to remember that.

And also it depends how long you have been going out for, don't start with anything to full on. Because honestly people might start to think of you as a hoe =P but my main advice is, don't go out of your comfort zone.

Good luck. =]

Answer 7

I wouldn't go too far to sexual intercourse coz I'm saving my virginity for my husband.

Most women don't do this, it's just a value that I keep and most men that I've dated were able to accept this.

One thing for sure, my fiance is willing to wait till our wedding night. So, it is possible for us to be in a relationship that is sex free, it really depends on you :)

Good luck!

Answer 8

up to the accepted limit.....kissing and holding hands as well as hugging....in this modern days,i still believe in the sanctity of marriage!!!!!!if you both are married,you can go all the way but not now!!!!in the christian value, premarital sex is mortal sin and so with other religion as i know!!!!

Answer 9

If that is as far as you want to go then that is as far as you should go.
You should only do what you are comfortable with. You will know when you are ready for more and if your partner is not willing to wait then they are not worth your time.

Answer 10

The way I see it is that everyone is different and therefore should do whatever they feel neccessary in that relationship.