Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

The boy i like doesn't have im and i don't want to call him. I am just too nervous. Please tell me if this is a bad thing and if you think that im just a scardy-pants

2007-06-13 08:17:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

parents disapprove and will do anything to stop the relationship...what would you do?

2007-06-13 08:15:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it ok for a woman to wear a very short skirt and no panties so that she shows "every thing" to who ever looks at her, but if a man was to wear something similiar that revealed his "stuff" he would be arrested?

2007-06-13 08:15:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandmother & grandfather are both remarried. Do they walk down the aisle with there new husband & wife or should I let an usher escort everyone down.
See the problem is my grandfather cheated on my grandmother with his new wife many years ago and ended up marrying her. We're now older and have learned to deal with his new wife. However, my grandmother is now remarried as well. I just really don't want my grandfather's wife to walk down the aisle. What would you do? Who escorted your parents & grandparents down the aisle?

2007-06-13 08:13:26 · 12 answers · asked by me 1 in Weddings

I have a girlfriend of 2 years who just asked for break up. The reason due to me always making her cry. It makes me very sad everytime I know she cried, but sometimes, I just don't know I had caused that. In arguments, the more I explains the more heated the arguments become. I think we persecute each other based on the words that we have spoken. Each word is judged without giving each other the benefit of doubt. This is my first relationship and I am dissapointed it ended this way. Take this scenario. During a cool off period, she called me but refused to say things, and made me repeat myself many times before she will answer. I was sick and that made me tired and restless, so I told her if she has nothing to say, it will be better to go sleep early. She was angry and hung up on me. When I called back, she said she dun want to speak to me and even ask me to go die. I dun understand, she knows I was sick yet she dun ask a thing about me. Who is wrong? I am confused, and dissapointed.

2007-06-13 08:12:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so this girl and I have gone on a couple of great dates. There is definitely a vibe there and I personally am feeling pretty good about having something special with her.

Still, we are taking it slow and just letting things happen as they happen. We talk at least every couple of days and things just seem to be going really well.

She is leaving for a three-week vacation with her family. I definitely do not want to bother her, or contact her too much while she is trying to enjoy herself, one, for the obvious reasons like respecting her space and letting her enjoy her trip, but two because we are still in the early stages of whatever this might be, and I don't want to come on too strong...etc.

So, what is the right amount of time between calls? Every few days? If I call her, wait for her to make the next call? What do you guys/gals think is the proper amount of time for a situation like this?

2007-06-13 08:12:01 · 7 answers · asked by John H 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 08:11:06 · 37 answers · asked by LaCosaMasBella 3 in Singles & Dating

I always want a boyfriend, but mainly I think I'm after sex. When I think about having a boyfriend the only thing I'm really looking for is sex. I hate randomly hooking up (most of the time) because I often feel used. And I have cheated on boyfriends before but it wasn't anything personal, I myself hate being cheated on but when I do it, it doesn't feel wrong because I have no connection with the person I'm cheating with. I know its still wrong and I'm working on it. so tell me do you think I really want a relationship? Or do I just like to fu ck around? It sounds like all i want is to mess around, but other times I just don't know.. it would be nice to have someone actually care about me.. im so confused.

2007-06-13 08:11:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This lady said she married her husband for the right reason, his penis. Is that a good thing to say about her husband if she really loves him. But she's always talking good about him, so I don't know.

2007-06-13 08:10:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been divorced for about 11 years now. My son lived with me for the first 5, then he went to live with his mom and her new husband and their 2 new kids. His mom and I do not have a good relationship at all. She has been telling me for a few years now that my son wants to change his last name so that he has the same name as his half bros. She also said that then I will not have to pay support. I feel she has done as much as she can to keep him from me and if I do this (which involves giving up my parental rights) I'll never get to see him or talk to him again. I love my son very much and want him in my life but don't know how to explain to my son so he will understand (he is 12 now). I feel his mother has manipulated him throughout the years into thinking that i'm not that important in his life and that it is no big deal to change the name. Also she makes him think that if I do this that we will still be able to visit and talk to each other.

2007-06-13 08:09:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Am I ugly? Because guys never approach me to get to know what is on the inside. I am usually very nice to people unless they are not nice to me and can be on the shy side at first.

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2007-06-13 08:09:27 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I became a 'Cleric' last October and was considering performing commitment, wedding, and renewal ceremonies for non religious/alternative couples. I was raised Christian but consider myself agnostic and am still a spiritual individual. I just wanted to get a general idea of how many people would be interested in having someone perform a ceremony for them who was willing to do customized (celtic etc) ceremonies before I decided to establish this as a service.

2007-06-13 08:08:56 · 3 answers · asked by Riot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend's wife of 16 years died a year ago from diabetes and alcoholism. He is still dealing with his grief issues which is okay by me.
Should I be concerned about his being the husband of an alcoholic?
He took care of his sick, alcoholic wife for at least four years. Is he an enabler? Was he codependent? How do I find out if he was or is resentful?

2007-06-13 08:08:24 · 8 answers · asked by Sharon V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I prank called my favorite teachers house cuz of a dare and she found out.She said that she wasn't mad at me and thanked me 4 being honest when she asked me.The the next month she caught me writeing a note n her class.But the note was 2 her asking her 2 forgive me cuz i thought that she wuz still mad at me cuz she hadn't said 1 word 2 me after i told her that i prank called her house.

2007-06-13 08:07:39 · 25 answers · asked by Christine Lucas 2 in Friends

In the begining everything is fun and exciting? But how to you keep relation fresh and exciting after 10 years of marriage, after kids. What do you communicate about after most of your goals are done.

2007-06-13 08:07:18 · 13 answers · asked by ban 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey I am a female talking to a guy and I wanted to know like when a guy tells you that he misses you, does he really means it or is he trying to tell you something else? Like interpretate a different meaning. Also, how much of miss you is too much? When would a women know if there is real feelings behind the "miss you?"

2007-06-13 08:06:59 · 3 answers · asked by yte r 1 in Singles & Dating

So, you invited your daughter to go on a trip with you and your 3 other daughters, while your husband and son stayed home. You asked her a couple months in advance to go tubing with you for 3 days in a town about 5 hours away. She took all three days off, but a little less than a week before the trip, you decided to stay for longer and go out of state too. She was supposed to ride up with you, but since you were staying longer, she would have to ride back with some of your friends, who she didn't know that well. She called you the next day, saying she was just gonna drive up on her own, then. Plus, she could stop and see her boyfriend who lives about an hour away, since he is on the same path to get to the tubing place. She was still gonna get there the same time as you and head home the same time you left for out of state, but she wouldn't drive up with you. How would you feel? How would you react to your daughter?

2007-06-13 08:06:54 · 8 answers · asked by joshuarenae 2 in Family

I Hate the fact that he watches porn , I mean he has me . He was in the marine core for about 5 years , He was a loner so he watched alot of porn , but i say to him now you got the real thing why would u need porn.
I recorded a wonderfull porno of us i would rather him watch that then watch other females getting fu.ked And he still watches porn ?

what should i do?

2007-06-13 08:06:26 · 30 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a single woman, who is about to get married for the first time. He called and told me that on this Friday after we get married, we are going to take a vacation in Las Vegas. Great, I thought. But following this, he said, yeah, I got us a time-share deal, which was a good deal. I said, I'll talk to you soon, and hung up the phone.

On this memorable weekend, we are going to the timeshare meeting in Las Vegas.

I'm horrified to find out what more would come out in the future. Will I have to live in fear of everyone finding out what kind of a person that I have married?

2007-06-13 08:05:18 · 21 answers · asked by falltowinter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so....i broke up with this guy, and its been.....3 years, and i wanna be friends, and he completely ignores me. im pretty sure he doesnt even know that i exist. he talks to my sister and brother, in front of me, and im pretty good friends with his friends, so wats his problem? how do i become friends with him????

2007-06-13 08:05:07 · 15 answers · asked by (lo.RUH) 2 in Friends

i like this guy and i had a feeling he liked me. well he has kinda found out that i like him and he talked to me the other day, at one point he randomly asked what my favorite movies were, and i asked him etc and he talked about some movie that's coming out soon and that he wants to see it, could he have been hinting about going to the movies with me or what?
He's also been looking over alot too
does he like me?
what do you think?

2007-06-13 08:04:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can my mum make me get therapy or sumthin like that for cutting myself. I mean do I have a choice or can she or someone else make me?

2007-06-13 08:02:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband of 2 years - dated for 8 has been acting strange, most recently - I woke up at 12am and he wasnt home, when i called him to ask where he was he said don't worry about it i don't have to know everything. I'm hurt, we have two kids together (close in age). I'm trying everything I can to save this marriage, I pray and think VERY hard before I speak, I've lost 10 pounds, I put more effort into my housecleaning and beauty routines. I try to have a hot meal on the table by 7 ( I work 40 hrs/wk) I want my husband to be happy, but how much of myself am I supposed to compromise to do this. He doesn't help with feedings, doesn't come to church, just hangs out and plays on myspace. I'm very tired and need advice from a non-involved party. Our friends and family have clearly started to take sides. I don't want a divorce, he doesn't want counseling, I'm so confused and upset.

2007-06-13 08:00:31 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I made a friend at college we seem to get along but when i call him or leave a message on his voice mail he never calls me back. it has been 1 month since ive talked to him. What should i do?

2007-06-13 07:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by jb007_rota 1 in Friends

I'm in HS..and sometimes I'll ask my teacher if I can go somewhere, and she says no in a stern voice then smiles about it. One time she was asking the class a question, and walked by me and pushed my head down and said, "isn't that right anna?" She's always looking at me too. She's straight married though. What's her problem?

2007-06-13 07:57:29 · 11 answers · asked by annabanana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is a computer tech and loves computers.

2007-06-13 07:56:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering.... I have a friend who was my former teacher and ever since the semester ended, we have talked through email all the time. We have also gone to lunch a couple of times since then. She is pregnant and married. She told me to call her by her first name by implying she wants to be friends and she actually got me and my b/f started on a hobby that her and her husband do. Well anyway.. I think she she is a really good person and I would really like our friendshipto progress into where we become better friends as in that I mean talking on the phone and visiting each other at our houses and stuff like that. Well I am unsure if she wants to be friends like I do and I kind of wanted to ask her where she "stood". I dont know how to ask her though w/out seeming rude or ruining anything to where she got mad and never spoke to me again. Does it seem like if i kept on.. we might become good friends??What do you think?

2007-06-13 07:56:50 · 7 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family

ok Im 20 and im still a virgin.. Ive got a boyfriend and he obviously wants to do it but im not ready and i want my first time to be with my husband, but i love my boyfriend and i dont want to loose him.. wht should i do?

2007-06-13 07:56:42 · 51 answers · asked by confused.com 1 in Singles & Dating

I've recently started talking to my ex. I really love seeing him, but I'm in love with someone else. The one I want to be with is married. We've wanted to be together for over 2 years. He has three kids, and has to wait for the youngest to start kindergarten, which isn't until fall 2008. I drive myself crazy every night thinking about us being together. He is my soulmate. On the other hand my ex is always calling and wanting to be there for anything I might need, which feels really good because my soulmate can never be there. My soulmate texts me and calls me a lot. He wants to continue seeing eachother as much as we can in the meantime, but it's too hard for me when I've been waiting for so long. I don't want to see him, but I do. Should I forget about him, or wait? If I forget about him my ex might actually have a shot at winning me over. But he's cheated on me in the past. We broke up because I wanted to be with my soulmate, which was 2 1/2 years ago.

2007-06-13 07:56:05 · 18 answers · asked by selena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a guy friend that I had feelings for him as more than a friend and I did not expect anything in return. He replied by saying he was glad I told him and that he always has a great time with me. He added that he appreciates that we can be honest with each other. He has never told me how he feels about me and is against the long distance thing. I took it as a not interested and have tried moving on from it. However I find that hard to do when he contacts me twice a week. I don't know what to do.

2007-06-13 07:55:30 · 4 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating