What's my problem?

Question

I have a girlfriend of 2 years who just asked for break up. The reason due to me always making her cry. It makes me very sad everytime I know she cried, but sometimes, I just don't know I had caused that. In arguments, the more I explains the more heated the arguments become. I think we persecute each other based on the words that we have spoken. Each word is judged without giving each other the benefit of doubt. This is my first relationship and I am dissapointed it ended this way. Take this scenario. During a cool off period, she called me but refused to say things, and made me repeat myself many times before she will answer. I was sick and that made me tired and restless, so I told her if she has nothing to say, it will be better to go sleep early. She was angry and hung up on me. When I called back, she said she dun want to speak to me and even ask me to go die. I dun understand, she knows I was sick yet she dun ask a thing about me. Who is wrong? I am confused, and dissapointed.

Answer 1

You lack sensitivity and also self-confidence. It may be that you both need a break from the whole 'committment' thing, at least for awhile. You don't mention how old you are nor some other key factors in figuring this whole thing out. It may not be you at all, it may be her, or just the way it is right now. Give yourself a break and step-back from this, and try for more down the road.

Answer 2

you said it yourself "its your first relationship". i broke up with my first boyfriend because he didnt want to go to an nysync concert with me. just realize that your young and u will become more wise over time.