Move.
And, you may want to read the book "Walking on Egg Shells: Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents".
Better yet, just go to Barnes and Nobel and read the first half of the book; this is the part that is useful. The second half of the book kind of meanders and goes off topic. But the first part is very relevant and topical.
2007-06-14 07:59:04
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answered by 2007_Shelby_GT500 7
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Running to another city is not going to help the relationship. What is the reason they disapprove of this marriage? Unless you deal with that you are in for a bumpy road ahead no matter where you live. Also if you plan on having children what then, no grandparents or holidays. Settle this now.
2007-06-13 15:27:14
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answered by Kat G 6
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What's the reasons for both of there disapproval of you getting married? There must be something that has happened in the course of your relationship that makes them feel this way. But if your both determined to get married and you both agree to move away from the parents then sure why not, if you think it will make both of your lives easier.
2007-06-13 15:20:49
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answered by 24Special 5
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It depends on how old you are and why they disapprove. If there isn't anything criminal or abusive in the relationship then maybe it would be wise to marry first. Just remember these people will be grandparents to your children later on. If you want to alienate everyone you will have more problems then. Take the more adult steps here and resolve this if you can.
2007-06-13 15:29:34
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answered by dawnb 7
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Get away from there. Believe me honey, in-laws/parents can and will destroy a marriage. If you love this person and you know being with them is the right thing to do then don't let anyone stop you.
2007-06-13 15:36:24
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answered by Anonymous
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There's no problem here, except they may be looking for something you haven't done yet, and that's marriage. They don't want their children "living in sin" even though you may not look at it this way. My advice, get married and then move away, they seem to be controlling and over-bearing.
One more thing, you might well ask yourself why do they not want the two of you in a relationship? Is it lack of maturity? Lack of stability? Lack of compatibility? They may be sending you a message that something is missing. Is it really missing or are they crazy? If you can't answer the question correctly, your marriage may be doomed.
2007-06-13 15:18:55
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answered by John B 7
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No it's not wrong;most relationships are better off when the parent are far away
2007-06-13 15:21:15
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answered by Anonymous
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I would make sure it's the right thing and it's what I really wnat before I turn my back on my fmaily if this is the case then I say go for it.
2007-06-13 15:19:34
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answered by mrsknowitall 5
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I've thought about it a few time myself. Not a bad idea. MOVE man start your life and then maybe JUST MAYBE you let them come visit when they get their act together
2007-06-13 16:59:02
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answered by Kevin C 2
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depending on how old you are and ur finacial sutuation sp? i would say do as you wish...ur parents really have no choice on what you do
2007-06-13 15:18:41
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answered by lovepixiek 4
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