Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

never did it... but i want too...considering there are alot of fine girls on there...haha holla!

2007-06-13 09:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by SuperMan 2 in Singles & Dating

How come it seems like everybody but me has siblings, aunts cousins? I have neither because my parents are only children and I am the only child, I get jealous when people start talking about how many people are coming over for Christmas dinner or thanksgiving. My dad works alot so sometimes its just me and my mom all the time.
Last year my mom said that she would go to the docter to see if she could have another baby( or adopt) if I made above a 3.5 each quarter of my senior year and I stopped drinking soda, well I did accomplish it, but my dad intervened so it didn't happen.

2007-06-13 09:14:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am also low income. I don't consider myself ugly. In fact, some tell me I am handsome. Yet, the women won't date me or even go to a movie with me. I drive a five year old Pontiac.
My friends have all moved away or married. I am alone.

2007-06-13 09:10:46 · 19 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 09:06:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My live-in girlfriend of two years is great, but lately she's been pressuring me for marriage. Previously this seemed to be a foregone conclusion...we were both confident we'd get married one day and have kids. Now I'm not too sure. We're both in our mid-20s, and I've done a lot of growing up and changing in the past year. I feel like I'm a different person, and who I've become doesn't dovetail with what my girlfriend wants out of our married life.

The thing is, she's the absolute epitome of a great girlfriend. Sassy, demure, beautiful, panther in bed. I've met dozens of guys who would love to be in my shoes, but for some reason I feel that I'm moving away from her and turning my back on our relationship.

I'm no dumbass either...I'm keenly aware of what I stand to lose if I end this. Sometimes it seems like it's just a matter of me accepting a few of her negative aspects and moving on.

She's expecting a ring before the end of the year....please help.

2007-06-13 09:06:22 · 19 answers · asked by Comrade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are so overprotective of me! I'm a 19 yr old girl going into her sophmore year of college! They still make me ask permission to stay w/ a friend for a night or so, and they"have to talk to the parents. One time they told me that They had to talk to her mom because ot was a school nite for her. I'm like r u serious her mom doesn't care what she does and said I could come over netime(she's my best friend). I'm 19 I should b able to go to a friends house which is rite down the road w/o asking! and not only that they treat me like a 12 year old all the time! Sereously....

2007-06-13 09:05:57 · 14 answers · asked by DDsororitychick 1 in Family

My B/friend saw a guy she likes & has been wanting him for 6 months now.They ve never dated bcoz he's not interested in her & frankly has never been.The Problem is, He & I ve been interested in eachother from the start(for 6 months) but we can't date until my friend approves of it.You Americans may not understand this BUT it's cultural for us not to date a GUY your friend says she likes(All one has to do is say,"I want that Guy", meaning that Particular guy is off limits to all her friends)UNLESS she approves. The Guy is American & he thinks it's stupid(I agree but it is instilled in us).I tried to talk to my friend about it but she cut the conversation short.Our other friend told me that my B/friend knows that the guy wants me.The Guy is getting upset with me bcoz i ve been putting him on HOLD for sometime now.I ve kissed him once & no one knows.It's killing me not to be with him.I see him most of the times bcoz we are in the same social circles.should I secretly date him? MOre INFO

2007-06-13 09:04:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are getting married in the mountains on a balacony in July with the reception being inside. We thought it would be less hot without the jacket. But others feel the groom must wear the jacket. What do you think?

2007-06-13 09:04:06 · 14 answers · asked by cutealli30 3 in Weddings

Our nephew is getting married this Saturday and we will not be attending the wedding. When we first got the invitation I read it wrong and it is for June, not July like I thought, so I need help. I have no idea what to get them or am I even suppossed to send something since we won't be attending. They were not at our wedding and sent no gift, we don't speak regularly--I've only met him once in the 4 years my husband and I have been together. I'm really not sure about their tastes or likes so I don't know what to get. Just a card, a card with cash, nothing, a gift? Help, quick!

2007-06-13 09:03:20 · 9 answers · asked by jilldaniel_wv 7 in Weddings

Am I pretty or ugly? I have a very low self esteem. I just want to know what people think of me. Please be honest if you think I look like dirt just tell me haha. I know the pic is in black and white but I have red hair and green eyes. Here is my myspace so you can see my pic! Thanks!
http://www.myspace.com/iluvjmac

2007-06-13 09:03:01 · 50 answers · asked by H0TTCHiCK 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently started dating a girl who wears a promise ring that her ex gave her and she always wears it It's been almost 6 months since they broke up and I just wonder if she still isn't over him. I don't want to get hurt if i fall for her and she still has other plans. Should i ask her why she still wears the ring or just let it go??

2007-06-13 09:00:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys: If you liked a girl, and after a while you became really close, good friends, and felt comfortable talking to eachother, would you stop liking her b/c you were good friends???

2007-06-13 08:59:26 · 8 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Someone died early this morning today that my family loved deeply and I do not know how to tell my children, without making it seem like God is the culprit. I know my kids are going to wonder why God did this because they have asked me why people died before in that way. I really want to explain death to them in a way that seems peaceful instead of them ending up hating God. Please help me help them!

2007-06-13 08:58:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family

boobs or a**?

2007-06-13 08:56:54 · 13 answers · asked by blonde32392 2 in Singles & Dating

I have the opportunity of working on Saturday's with special needs children which I've really want to do for sometime now. My husband has some Saturdays off work, but says he'd rather go with his mate than look after our daughter, this has really annoyed me, because as well as it being a good payed job, and it's only 1 day a week, you'd think he'd want to spend time with his daughter. what would you do.?

2007-06-13 08:56:21 · 33 answers · asked by Jeanette 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, weigh in with your thoughts. My husband and I just got in a fight. I'm pregnant. My hubby, who is a great guy, plays Halo about 10-20 minutes everyday. He also goes to Halo parties with his buddies once in a while. I get annoyed when he wants to go and we fight. I personally dont see the value in hours of shooting things when you could be spending time with your family. Plus, I don't want our first child to have that example and think violent games are perfectly ok. BUT, I understand that he enjoys playing and being with friends, so I want to support him. I just find it more and more difficult to be supportive without feeling angry at him for giving up our time for Halo time. What do you think? Am I wrong for telling him honestly that I dont like it? He gets resentful and says I am trying to make him feel bad. Any advice? This is becoming a big issue for us. And lately, even when I'm away working at night, and he isn't giving up our time to play , I'm still irritated when he plays.

2007-06-13 08:56:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to make money but how?

2007-06-13 08:55:13 · 18 answers · asked by barcaboy 1 in Singles & Dating

do all engagement rings have to have a diamond? My fiance asked me what i wanted so he could pick the right one and i've decided i'm not really into diamonds. I was kinda wanting the stone to be my mother's birthstone (an aquamarine) because i thought it would be neat to have instead of a white diamond. My mother passed away 2 years ago so i thought it would kinda be a lil more special..... is this weird?

2007-06-13 08:54:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been invited to a wedding the week after next and wonder what I should wear. The weather's going to be scorching and I don't want to wear a suit. Is a color dress shirt and tie appropiate for a summer wedding? I'm thinking of wearing a color such as a light orange or pastelish brown and matching tie? There will be a service and a reception right after...What are you guys opinions?

2007-06-13 08:54:34 · 8 answers · asked by chimichanga 1 in Weddings

She says she needs time 2 herself away from us 2 have fun and relax,drink,with her so called f***king "friend"which I don't trust as far as I can throw her..

2007-06-13 08:54:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my boyfriend and soon after I wanted him back. He wants to stay friends said he doesnt want a relationship right now, he tried it and it didnt work.. now college is coming up for the both of us and he said we should stay friends..I said def.

is this good he thought about it for 3 days and than got back to me

2007-06-13 08:54:09 · 25 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 08:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It seems that the guys I date are either sex crazy and run after the first date when they don't get what they want, or so terrified that they won't even initiate a kiss. Aren't there guys out there who are somewhere in the middle. I want a guy to feel close too, physically and otherwise -- but I also plan to wait until i'm married (or at least headed there) to have sex. Are there any guys who want or at least respect that?

2007-06-13 08:52:00 · 17 answers · asked by duchess7111 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 08:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by rosalinda v 2 in Weddings

i like this guy who i used to go to school with and i don't have is phone number i really like him and he used to live a block away and i cant see him any more i don''t know how to tell him i like him and he is like the perfect guy he is the kind of person who likes the kind of girls who don't take an hour in the bathroom before a party and i like that cuz i dont like spending a lot of time in the bathroom putting on make up i just go out as i am. any advice would be very helpful the only way i can talk to him is if he comes and visits his uncle who lives in his old house but i never know when he is going to be there thanks

2007-06-13 08:48:31 · 2 answers · asked by ocbibblebutt92 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I am not exactly a Baptist anymore. I go to a church called Advent Christian Church. It is not the same as Seventh-day Advent though. Anyone have any ideas as to whether this is possible or not?

2007-06-13 08:48:21 · 16 answers · asked by Crickle 1 in Weddings

hes a huge video game fan has to be at work at 8 so he gets up early before work to play and plays first thing at home and plays all night long all the time. what do i do to get him more intrested in other things?i dont mind him playing i just want us to do things and for him to want to spend more time with me than a video game.

2007-06-13 08:47:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it's the same guy i have been talking about the whole time.

2007-06-13 08:45:57 · 7 answers · asked by Andrea H 2 in Friends

would u go out with a not so attractive girl if they had an AMAZING personality??

2007-06-13 08:45:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been seeing a woman for a lil while like 3 mths we see eachother maybe once a week, sends text msgs never calls and im 27 she is 43.....im thinking i should move on maybe date younger or at least my age

2007-06-13 08:45:26 · 36 answers · asked by matt 3 in Singles & Dating