I broke up with my boyfriend and soon after I wanted him back. He wants to stay friends said he doesnt want a relationship right now, he tried it and it didnt work.. now college is coming up for the both of us and he said we should stay friends..I said def.
is this good he thought about it for 3 days and than got back to me
2007-06-13 08:54:09 · 25 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I think it's good he put some thought into it especially since both of you are in transitional periods in your life. Obviously you broke up with him because something wasn't going right. Now this is a good time to develop yourself and find out what it is you really want and eventually maybe you two will end up back together, or perhaps it was never meant to be! Relationships go thru all kinds of peaks and valleys. Just always look at things objectively and be grateful that you had someone who took out time to think about both of your futures! good luck and have fun in College!
2007-06-13 08:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kima 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he gave it a lot of thought...most guys at that age can't/don't give much more thought to relationships than they do to eating a jelly donut. Stay friends -- and keep an open mind...I had a similar situation when I was 19...we both went to college, then we dated again at 24, then we broke up...then she got married for 10 years, then divorced, then at 20th reunion we got back together, and are stronger than ever, and look back and laugh lovingly at all those times we had, and forward to what we can have now...Life is a long race...keep your options OPEN, and do not hold back or feel guilty in pursuing other relationships in the meantime...you never know what the future holds, and having a good friend for life is worth a lot on its own merit...so keep that peice of it, and move on for now and get the most out of college.
2007-06-13 09:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying friends is good if you can handle it. The fact that he thought about it hopefully means he's serious and thought it through. When you get to college, you'll both find new relationships, and it's possible the friendship might fizzle out. But it's worth a try. Don't be too upset if eventually he stops calling. Or maybe you'll be the one who stops calling. Or better yet, maybe you'll have a life-long friendship.
2007-06-13 08:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Amsiar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he probably was thinking over pro's and con's over getting in another relationship wit u. i wouldn't get too close to a guy because u are both going to college and will be seperated. at college there will be girl tat mite tempt ur ex and guys tat mite tempt u. so stay friends and u can always start up another relationship in college.
i think its good and i don't c anything bad about it
hope i could help! :)
2007-06-13 08:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by lovejuicycouture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad. He has said exactly what he wants in this relationship (to be friends) and you have said what you want (to break up) and now college is coming, so don't go a direction you don't want to go in ... be true to what you have said and let it be ... and if down the road something develops, then let it.
2007-06-13 08:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a typical high school romance the best you can hope for is that when you break up you don't become enemies.
Looks like you are ahead of the game as friends.
A year in college and you won't even remember his name.
2007-06-13 08:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by DonPedro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is good. also after a relationship that is going up and down right before college is not a good idea. he might be looking for a long term relationship!?! anyways you guys wouldn't see each other much after high school is over.
2007-06-13 08:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Randy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say its bad because you broke it off with him cause i did the same thing today and he tried to talk to me but i don't kno what it was about until he call again and tell me cause i might of hurt his feelings cause i think my uncle said something to him about it today so i would it is bad then when you find out later you just want to be friends and 4 me i don't kno if i did the right thing or not but any ways i think that is bad but this what i can tell you.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-06-13 10:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends
2007-06-13 08:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him and now he is going off to college leave him alone.. move on.
2007-06-13 08:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋