Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

We are about do be divorced. He left me while I was pregnant and is involved with another woman and seems to be happy. Alot of people have told me that once another man comes into the picture with me and my kids that he will probably be very jealous . Has any man out there experienced this or anyone know someone who has felt like this?

2007-06-13 08:45:19 · 14 answers · asked by Adi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 08:42:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to attract a classy guy who i really, really want to date? went to high school with him but we haven't seen each other in 4+ yrs. he is returning to town in august and i am trying to lose weight for the ocassion. what can i do besides the emails with small hints that i have already sent? help....? please!!!

2007-06-13 08:42:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-girlfriend says our problems would have been not so difficult only if I had sex with her more often and (this is getting really explicit) if I had 'finished' inside of her. She says that she never felt a connection between us because we did not do that.

Here are some quick details ... we went from being great friends to an intimate relationship and within a couple of weeks of being that way we had sex.

We always used condoms for protection. I was being very careful - we both had not been STD tested (although I knew her well enough that I did not suspect anything). I also was a bit afraid of pregnancy.

We also had some social issues outside of intimacy that we could not resolve.

So for me I felt that after making long and sweet love with her and 'finishing' inside of her was so emotional to me that it was pointless to do that because we could not fix our 'social' problems. So we just made love and I would not finish inside of her.

We recently broke up...

2007-06-13 08:39:34 · 14 answers · asked by guyneedsadvicenow 1 in Singles & Dating

friday but two of my friends already got in... was i rejected?

2007-06-13 08:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by mark t 1 in Singles & Dating

I think this girl took all my friends. i need some revenge stories and/or ideas! You can put in embarrassing moments, whatever! I totally need a brain boost! Or Yo Mamma jokes!

2007-06-13 08:37:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have always had a fantasy of marrying a pornstar or a stripper.And i want to make it a realityBut don't know where to find one Any help ?

2007-06-13 08:36:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hurry, I need suggestions quick!!

2007-06-13 08:36:12 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMG I FORGOT PLEASE DONT TELL ME TOMOROW! OR EVEN WORSE TODAY!!!! HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-13 08:35:28 · 36 answers · asked by island gurl 2 in Family

I really like her a lot!

2007-06-13 08:34:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I assume that it is possible to "try too hard" to meet someone. I think that is my problem. Whenever I do meet a new girl, I try too hard to get her to like me and we end up fighting somehow. And now I haven't been close to having a gf in over a year. Advice?

2007-06-13 08:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 08:33:05 · 5 answers · asked by so so 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, what is with you ladies? i mean I know some of the nicer guys arent that assertive but there are alot of us who also know exactly what we want and are willing to go for it, and you whine about the jerks treating you so badly and you dont give us a chance at all. its mindboggling.

I just want to freaking understand why you say one thing and act in a totally different one.

2007-06-13 08:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by Avatar_defender_of_the_light 6 in Singles & Dating

would you not date them because of it???

2007-06-13 08:30:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 15 yrs & have 2 kids. Over the yrs my husband has not held a job for more than 2 yrs. it's always someone elses fault for the failure, never him. The last 5 yrs have been a financial fiasco now we have a looming foreclosure, 2nd one i might add. I am now working and i love my new job, but i don't make a lot and i'm an emotional wreck. i don't even think i like him anymore and our kids haved picked up on it. i have mentioned counseling but he won't go. i've never been on my own and it's scary, but it can't be worse than this.

2007-06-13 08:28:23 · 32 answers · asked by snobunny1966 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This lad new how much i liked him and i wouldnt of cared if he hadnt liked me back at least i would know. However he decided to preted to like me and used me to get with him. Hes a player and i should have known better but i really really liked him... how can i get him to truly like me and hurt him the way he hurt me??

2007-06-13 08:26:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 08:26:26 · 25 answers · asked by Honesty 5 in Singles & Dating

I want to dirve my guy crazy without having to have sex...Any suggestions??? All is appreciated.
Thanks :)

2007-06-13 08:26:03 · 13 answers · asked by Weirdo 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm due to have my first baby in Aug. ( I do have two step children ages 11, and 12 ) Me and my husband let him come and stay with us before I knew I was expecting. He's driving me crazy, not working, and thinks we should thank him every time he does anything like the dishes. I know he doesn't have anywhere else to go, but I don't know how much longer I'm going to have my own sanity. How do I tell him to leave without being a jerk? I have taken him to try to get him jobs, but he loses them usally in about a week. He's completly hopeless (AND NOT RELATED)

2007-06-13 08:26:02 · 17 answers · asked by Amanda_David 2 in Family

This guy calls me and tell me, he wants me so much. I like him too, he's sometime just so sweet., u can not refuse....but sometimes when I started to response, he'll said, " Im extreamly busy, I cant see you today".. so Im so confuse.. don't know what to do?? Help....

2007-06-13 08:25:57 · 14 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend does that. He hangs out with his friends EVERYDAY! I call him and he doesn't call back!

2007-06-13 08:25:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

.....moan constantly about your wife to all and sundry, hardly ever spend quality time with her, never invite her on nights out with your work colleagues, not want to start a family with her, sleep with another woman and tell them you love them but won't leave your wife for her?!

2007-06-13 08:25:05 · 21 answers · asked by Jo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I just have too much pride. We never swallow it. If I don't call her, she doesn't call me. If she doesn't call me I don't call her. We hold back on saying what we really feel towards each other because we don't want to appear "needy". We don't want to show that we "need" each each other.

When I sign on the messenger I expect her to instant message me. I could go for hours waiting for her greeting. When she signs on she does the same thing, wait for my greeting. Sometimes we don't even greet one another.

And it's just getting old I'm getting tired of it. 1 year together. I just need a break for a day or 2 or 3.

Any advice on how to solve this issue?

Thanks ...

2007-06-13 08:24:08 · 23 answers · asked by BerlingBurg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 08:23:30 · 3 answers · asked by ~DR3A~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres a pool party at this girls house on friday and the entire grade is going..including my crush, he knows i like him and he likes me too..he said he really likes us as friends and didnt wanna go out and get into fights..does that mean he doesnt wanna kiss or anything..? hes always flirting with me and i need to know how to like let him know i want him to kiss me..i really cant make like first moves but please give me like hints or ways to flirt with him..answers are rreallyy appreciated.

2007-06-13 08:20:52 · 3 answers · asked by BROOKE<3 1 in Singles & Dating

First of all I'm 25, so I'm not looking for high school type answers.

We've only been on a couple dates, but he seems to be moving fast. He is making it very obvious he thinks things are going great. He is an AMAZING guy, almost everything I would look for in my future husband. But it's just not meant to be. I am horrible at expressing myself and definately don't want to insult him or hurt his feelings. In the past I've had the habit of just avoiding the guy in similar situations, but this time I can't (mutual friends and I'll be seeing him around). Plus I know I need to actually face it.

We're going to lunch tomorrow. Should I talk to him then or give him a heads up BEFORE what he thinks would be a date ? And what is a good way of breaking it to him?

2007-06-13 08:20:07 · 14 answers · asked by Miss K 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 08:20:04 · 3 answers · asked by Rony 1 in Singles & Dating

many of us forget who we are dating all because of the nice things they say.(we forget guys are all the same)!what do u think

2007-06-13 08:19:40 · 4 answers · asked by ♥hk♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

the day after we broke up, i got sick so i missed school. on his myspace it said he was taken, so i asked my friend if she knew wat was going on. i knew she liked him a little, so i asked her if they were together, but she said no. when i got back to school (a week later) she finally told me they got together. 2 days after we broke up, and that was on my birthday! should i still be friends with her, or be mad?

2007-06-13 08:19:18 · 20 answers · asked by meli 2 in Singles & Dating

When I met my husband he drank but not as much as he does now and I have been trying to get him to stop because it has gotten out of hand and has caused alot of problems. I am I wrong if I make him choose between me or the drinking?

2007-06-13 08:19:18 · 16 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce