to attract a classy guy who i really, really want to date? went to high school with him but we haven't seen each other in 4+ yrs. he is returning to town in august and i am trying to lose weight for the ocassion. what can i do besides the emails with small hints that i have already sent? help....? please!!!
2007-06-13 08:42:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am 24 he is 23. we both have jobs but his will be very serious (investment banker) and he is just getting started so lots and lots and lots of hours. please please help!!!
2007-06-13 08:43:06 · update #1
i am definitely very classy and from the same social circle as he is but i am so worried he will just not be into me or have no interest or have no time. i want this so badly!!!
2007-06-13 08:46:47 · update #2
i have been wanting to lose some weight (10-15lbs) for about 3 yrs. i see this as an ocassion, not a reason, to clarify. i think it's motivation and it will finally make me feel great and healthy. not for him, but he sure is motivation!
2007-06-13 08:48:52 · update #3
To attract, you have to be what you want to attract. Most of all, however, be authentic and real, and don't be fake. Be you. Also, please, don't fall in love with a fantasy image of this guy, let him be who he is also. It'll all work out.
2007-06-13 08:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is be patient don't try to rush things and don't try to lose weight cause some guys like to have women that has a little meat on them but if you really like this guy be patient and calm then when he sees you he might ask you out to dinner or a movie or something cause sooner or later he will ask you to go with him so like i said be patient and calm.
HOPE IT WORKS OUT! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-06-13 17:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to loose weight fo the occasion then you are seeting yourself up for a fall if you return to your normal weight when with him. unless u intend to stay trim forever just go as yourself. if he likes what he sees cool. if not, it wasnt meant to be
2007-06-13 15:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋