We are about do be divorced. He left me while I was pregnant and is involved with another woman and seems to be happy. Alot of people have told me that once another man comes into the picture with me and my kids that he will probably be very jealous . Has any man out there experienced this or anyone know someone who has felt like this?
2007-06-13 08:45:19 · 14 answers · asked by Adi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your concern shouldn't be generated on your soon to be ex being jealous if you have a man in your life or not. What your concern should be is raising your children/
Obviously he left for a reason to be with another woman. I don't want to sound rude or cruel or anything but you need to stop worrying over making him jealous and begin to get your life together by putting your priorities first.
2007-06-13 08:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My ex was jealous for a while but then he seemed to see how happy I was, and because we truly did love each other I guess he gave up on the jealousy. If he is any type of a man of course he will have a pang or two of jealousy, as I am sure you did also.. but we grow up and apart, and new people come into our lives, If the both of you are mature, this will pass and you might even find a kind of respect for each other at a later time..
2007-06-13 15:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adi who care if he get jealous
that is not your concern,he did not care about your feeling when he move in with anther girl
so you move on without the blahblah from other people
and yes ot your ? it does happen
I left mine he dated but I never did because I was not ready
he did leave me alone but once i got married he try to get custody of the children and now end up losing visitation right
YOU see he forgets that I got more muscle than him
he might be a jerk but I have the right kind of friends
and my new husband was able to do what ever it take
once the kids say that they did not want to be with him (because he drinks, and fall asleep drank every night)
that was like opening a can of warms, I make sure now that he knows that if they children wants him I will always let them be with him but with the condition that he don't drink while they are their but the court will not give him the right to force them nor me to have them for visit nor live with him
So my dear have you life, and stop caring about his feeling
sorry to tell that ? make you sound needy
STOP IT be a strong woman
Have a life & take of yourself
2007-06-13 15:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I doubt it. If he left to be alone and think about things then maybe. But leaving for another woman means he is not happy with you.
2007-06-13 16:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you hoping he is going to come running back to you? If so...stop. Move on with your life. The only thing you should be concerned about is that he helps with his child (it is his child right?) both financially and emotionally. Other than that...find someone to be happy with and think of him as ONLY the biological father...not the Dad.
2007-06-13 15:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, when another man comes along he will be happy for you and he will remain with his current girlfirend.
2007-06-13 15:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by funnyhaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, NO man wants to hear his kid call another man Daddy.
2007-06-13 15:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex finace was this way, He didn't want to be a father to his child. But he didn't want anyone either fathering his child.
2007-06-13 15:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You don't need to play games.
2007-06-13 15:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he live in a trailer park or a $200k+ house, there's a large difference in reaction. Everyone is different.
2007-06-13 15:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋