the day after we broke up, i got sick so i missed school. on his myspace it said he was taken, so i asked my friend if she knew wat was going on. i knew she liked him a little, so i asked her if they were together, but she said no. when i got back to school (a week later) she finally told me they got together. 2 days after we broke up, and that was on my birthday! should i still be friends with her, or be mad?
2007-06-13 08:19:18 · 20 answers · asked by meli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, that was pretty crappy of her. It's pretty obvious that there are other things that come first before your relationship.
2007-06-13 08:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how it made you feel that she lied to you about them being a couple. It is a little ridiculous that it was that soon after you break up that they get together. I would just tell both of them how you feel and get some new friends, because if these friends truly cared about you, they 1.Wouldnt have gotten together without you knowing and 2.They wouldnt have lied about it. Trust me, find a new best friend. Good luck!!
2007-06-13 08:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should be mad. Thats trampy and disrespectful to start dating him a couple days after you break up. Shes not your real friend at all because she would have cared about your feelings. Get over her and find new friends.
2007-06-13 08:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by ehrlich 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me explain something to you. I have dated a few girls in my time, and there's one thing that is categorically true, even among "nice" girls and "Christian" girls. They don't break up with one guy, go single awhile, and then find another guy. They ALWAYS line up their next guy before ditching the one they already have.
Secondly, if there is a guy they like and he's attached, they do NOT wait until he's available. They ALWAYS move in for the kill.
Your friend didn't wait until you broke up. She had her claws in him while he was still yours. Wake up and smell the clogged toilet, sister.
2007-06-13 08:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be mad.she can do what she wants.if yall werent together when she started dating him,you have no reason to be mad at her.the only thing she will think is that your jealous.dont show or tell her that your mad.it shows you arent a good friend.and your bbf will think you arent supporting him with his relationship.understand?
2007-06-13 08:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of energy to be mad, sounds like it was premeditated on her part, just let it go and move on
2007-06-13 08:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tutto Bene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats gotta hurt cause its still so fresh in your mind. in time it wont matter...if its bothering you ask her why. if she does not come clean then screw it. only thing is see is him trying to make you jealous and her being a sucker.
school is over and summer is around the corner. its not worth being mad find someone else.
2007-06-13 08:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by a-cito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't with him. He didn't cheat on you with her. (Or at least to your knowledge.) But on the other hand, she did lie.... I think. Hm. Talk to her about it. Have her help you seperate your feelings on the matter. Just remeber that you can't control who and when she dates. Just put on a smile and congradulate her until you figure it out.
2007-06-13 08:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Forever the Sickest Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes be mad, and that is no friend of yours. chicks before d_cks. When did this little affair really start? You can't trust her for nothing.
2007-06-13 08:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by howlie_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would be upset. usually there is a rule that friends do not date friends exs. that is VERY imature of her...especially since she first denied it. i would go looking for a new friend
2007-06-13 08:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋