many of us forget who we are dating all because of the nice things they say.(we forget guys are all the same)!what do u think
2007-06-13 08:19:40 · 4 answers · asked by ♥hk♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if guys are all the same, then girls are all the same as well, right........wrong. I read that somebody replied that you should try to date the opposite, and i personally think it's great advice. Try looking in the window, and not just out of it. There are alot of great guys out there, you just haven't met one yet. Keep your mind open, and when you least expect it, it will happen.
2007-06-13 08:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by glennfiddich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I've been around the block a few times, I had a recent experience that caught me off guard. I dated this guy for 2 months. In that time he was telling me how much he was in "love" with me and how he had found the right person for him. We're both older (mid 30s) and divorced so at this age you'd think ppl know what they want. He introduced me to his family, his son, his ex-wife and everything was going great. Or so I thought. By the end of the 2 months he was "confused" and broke up with me to go out with some other woman that he'd been spending a lot of time with at some "personal growth workshops".
I was caught off guard and it hurt a lot. I had believed what he had said, but of course it wasn't true.
So to answer your question, these things happen. The only thing you can do is take things slower in the begining and hope for the best. It would be a mistake to think all men are the same. It just takes time to confirm that what they are saying is real and not just their hormones talking.
Besides, if by love ppl mean just the "feeling" of love, nobody, male of female can promise to feel love forever. The only thing you or anybody can promise is to try their best to make things work.
2007-06-13 08:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by soda7nb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters guys are not all the same. If you find yourself in the same type of relationship all the time, then go out with a guy you wouldn't normally go out with to see if that's different.
Also, most people promise to love someone forever before they even know them really well. That needs to stop. If you've known the guy less than two years, then there's no way you know each other well enough to promise to love each other forever.
2007-06-13 08:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guys are not all the same.
2007-06-13 08:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋