Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

I LOVE my husband (person A) but I am IN LOVE with someone else (person B). Person A and I have been together for almost 6 years; there have been wonderful times and there have been awful times, but we have made it this far and I feel comfortable with him. Person B, I have known for almost 13 years. We know eachother's thoughts/feelings, if you will, at a much deeper level than Person A and I do. Person B is getting married this weekend, to someone else.
Although Person A and I love eachother, I feel like there is an uneven amount of effort being put into maintaining our relationship. I am not sure if I can be happy with Person A for the rest of my life. Person B warned me about Person A, but I though I new best, now Person B and I have been talking about this very situation that I am asking advice on. Person B says everything happens for a reason. Person A says he will always love me, but he doesn't let me tell him how I feel; that I may not be as happy as he is with us.

2007-06-13 01:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by In Need Of Advice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This may sound a strange question.

Marriages were designed for people to raise a family... and even if couples are not into children, I've always thought sex is an important ingredient in a couple's life...

But is it possible that people may marry and don't have sex?
(I ask this because recently I read an account of someone who said she had lived with her husband for 3 years before they married, and they had never had sex until they married... I have also read about a married woman who said she was a still a virgin, as far as I remember because her husband had sexual problems...)

And how about those who marry late in life, or over age 50 (as I've heard)?
Given to the hormonal alterations that occur as people age, sex may lose a lot importance.
I think I've heard that some people even become incapable of having a sexual relationship.
So...?

2007-06-13 01:54:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really felt sad everytime i heard some couple who brk up... u????

2007-06-13 01:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would just like to know...What to do during my audition and also do you need to know how to pole dance or can it be taught once you start working? What is a normal house fee? Can I start work right away, can I make good money my first night? Anything I need to know ......

2007-06-13 01:50:49 · 16 answers · asked by alibell88 1 in Singles & Dating

i need to go out but my parents wont let me

2007-06-13 01:49:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know the meaning of course...what i don't know is in appearance, i mean, does the other one need a decoration or something? or just plain? and i heard in some countries the engagement and wedding ring is just the same..

2007-06-13 01:49:31 · 20 answers · asked by Marie 4 in Weddings

2007-06-13 01:49:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this problem make me crazy,all my friends are liars and now i hate them so much all of them,i hope i could survive!

2007-06-13 01:47:24 · 4 answers · asked by Dark Angel 1 in Friends

Ok...me and my boyfriend were talking yesterday, and i said to him:
we dont act like we are dating, so im gonna leave it up to you. i really like you a lot, so we can eigher work this out,or break up.

he said:
we should break up. we are both vey busy people, and we might not see eachother over the summer. we can still be friends right??


i said yea definitely...

but now,when all of his friends ask what happened, he says to them:

well, she started the conversation, and i ended it.


and now all the guys are giving high fives to him and stuff... hes definitely not a jerk, so i dont know how to handle this!!!

2007-06-13 01:45:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mothers sister is something thats unrepeatable. shes constanty putting down my mothers life, she hates my dad, hates me, hates her cat, her clothes, everything. but yet my aunt copies what my mom does. my aunt tries to telll my mom how to dress, not to go to church, how to feel. my aunt even lies all the time to everybody. my mom calls her an extortioner. its in the bible. my mom knows her sister isnt a christian and doesnt care about church watsoever. so that raises the bigger question. should my mom just never speak to her again, tell her off, or what? my mom wants me to get invovlved, but if i say something, its not going to be nice!!! i want my mom to come to texas to be with me and my family. she would be much happier and she would be free of her sister's finaggling. what do you think?

2007-06-13 01:45:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know its long but please help!!!?? What would you do? i was seeing(not official) a guy for three months and to cut a long story short he was a pillock and really nasty to me. He then taxt my best mate and she has been texting him back?! is this okay? i said i wasnt happy as personnally i have more morals than that she said if she wanted him she could have him and would be in the right in doing so. She also got smacked in the face at a party i had by her sister because she was in my bedroom with this guy supposidly "talking", would your sister do this if you were talking? all my friends have to be hers and if 1 of my friends gets me a gift she always pipes up "wheres mine" She has to have all the phone numbers of my male friends and calls them. She uses my house as a doss house where she has bought a couple of guys back to as she lives with her rents. She then said that she was she was such a good friend as she gives me lifts home sumtimes and told me that i make everything about me?

2007-06-13 01:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 01:44:24 · 18 answers · asked by b 1 in Singles & Dating

My father molested me as a child until I moved away from home. I had a son to die under his care and after that I forgave him and moved on, never speaking of it to anyone. Didn't realize he was sick, just thought it was me.I just found out he's been molesting my daughter for over 7 years. That's unforgivable and I need to ask God to help me with that but we want no further communication with him. I've started the proceedings for charges against him. He just turned 70,The family is in an uproar, torn apart and no-one knows how to deal with this. Any suggestions? Please help!

2007-06-13 01:41:07 · 22 answers · asked by georgiarose_01 4 in Family

2007-06-13 01:39:34 · 21 answers · asked by JULS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dating these days seems tougher than ever especially for us older guys, The problem that I have is not knowing where to go to meet people and what to say when I see someone I'm interested in. Bars are ok if you just want sex but not the place to find a relationship. I've found nothing but phsycos using online dating. Any suggestions?

2007-06-13 01:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by deniver2003 4 in Singles & Dating

I was married about 17 years ago in the Bahamas. We are now about to go through a divorce. We never at any point filed any certificate or paper work in the U.S.. Is our marriage legal in the U.S.? Thanks!

2007-06-13 01:35:27 · 3 answers · asked by jwsou812 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 01:34:07 · 14 answers · asked by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 in Singles & Dating

I mean really handsome ones......how did you discover they were womanizers?

2007-06-13 01:32:57 · 5 answers · asked by mystic_speculator 1 in Singles & Dating

As one can see, being a gentleman is not a hard task to accomplish. Obviously these ten rules are simple and basic, but they are ten rules that are constantly bent and broken in today’s society. So I challenge you to try and follow these ten rules for the next week. See if you can do it. Hopefully these will become the rules you live your life be. Then, and only then, will we be able to rid the world of all you K-Fed wannabes.


1. Women comes first in (almost) all matters.
2. Be polite at all times.
3. Take a minute to actually get dressed.
4. Do not interrupt, and know when to speak.
5. Do now swear in public.
6. Never raise your voice.
7. Always control you temper.
8. Do not make excuses.
9. Be discreet and considerate in bedroom matters.
10. If you have questions, refer to any 007 movie and move on from there.

http://www.tuftsobserver.org/opinion/20070427/where_have_all_the_gentle.html

2007-06-13 01:29:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I loved my girl4om d botom of my heart.In fact she was everything for me.I was completly blinded by her.I sacrified my career,money,family,friends4he... She used2mesage, write letter exchange I LOVE YOU's with her Ex and other guys whom she used to be friendly with & wen i found out all dis she gave me a stupid concept saying dat saying I LOVE YOU is soothing word 4 her & she says it 2 all who love her & all & i like a fool said OK & believd her.I beared all what she did bcos I din want to lose herD next day she broke up wid me saying she doesnt want 2 b with me.I cried lots dat day..Later i came2 know she was goin around wid some guy.After 3 months, she came back 2 me saying sorry & was crying. I took her back in my life but she had not changed.Just4d first2days she was loving & after dat she was like before, flirting wid all the possible guys,avoiding my calls,cutting my call.It hurt me a lot & when i told her dis, she again left me & went.should i keep in touch with her in future?

2007-06-13 01:28:48 · 31 answers · asked by Ralph M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is 23 hes a great guy. His name is Mark. There is a girl and shes 16 and wants to be with him. To her parents age is just a number (i.e. her sis is 15 dating a 25 yr old). If her parents are ok with it, is it acceptable to date this person being that shes 6-7yrs younger?

2007-06-13 01:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by joseph c 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 01:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by mysterious gurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

help. i love my boyfriend with all of my heart. but we have had some major problems the last few years that caused him to get depressed and also i. then on top of everything his dad cheated on his mom and moved out. well with everything that has happened he has turned to drugs. he does pot and pops pills. i really want him to stop but i just dont know where to start. this all started about 8 months ago. is it too late? or is there time to get the old boyfriend whom i fell in love with back? how can i help him?

2007-06-13 01:17:05 · 29 answers · asked by Carmel Lee 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have been seeing this girl for alittle over a week...We have been hanging out pretty much everyday since the first time i met her...i have had a few long term relationships in my past...2 year relationship and a 4 year relationship...i have also dated and been in not so serious relationships...well the way i feel with this girl now is so different then anything ive ever felt...like we can just look at each other and know exactly how we feel about each other...we connected so much in such a short time...she has so many great qualities about her and if someone were to mention anything bad about her i wouldnt care.....i feel so comfortable with her like ive never felt before emotionally and physically....i find myself just thinking about her all the time and i really can say i have no interest in any woman on this planet...if jessica alba wanted to be with me i would turn her down for this girl...its really amazing how im feeling but i also realize it hasnt been long at all....

2007-06-13 01:13:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

men only

2007-06-13 01:12:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i do should i do ask the friend about it. when we are at church she go and get him tea and if she is going to the shop he sit and waited for her and he even allow her to sit in the front of the car while me as is wife have to drive in the back , she visited the house every thursday should i confront her about it.

2007-06-13 01:10:18 · 32 answers · asked by DENISE E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering whether that meant the 6th month of the year 2010, or the 20th day of the 10th month, of the year 2006 lol I didn't get them that long ago, but i've got some left so I was just wondering.

Thanks alot

2007-06-13 01:08:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, i'm 14 and i'm highly intelligent but i am overweight because i have a really low metabolism, so I'm wondering if you guys prefer girls who are intelligent and overweight/not pretty etc. or slender/pretty/hot girls?

2007-06-13 01:04:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering??

2007-06-13 01:03:51 · 10 answers · asked by FUCFRM_2003 2 in Friends

okay there is this boy that i like an he had kinds long hair and i only really go for guys with short and i want to go about a way with telling him to cut it.we are kinda starting to date and I dont like his lonngis hair!He is perfect just his hair,i dont want to get him poed so can anyone give me advice on how to tell him to get ahair cut but in a nice way?o and do guy like girls who re "bold"?

2007-06-13 01:00:20 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah Simpson 2 in Singles & Dating