I know its long but please help!!!?? What would you do? i was seeing(not official) a guy for three months and to cut a long story short he was a pillock and really nasty to me. He then taxt my best mate and she has been texting him back?! is this okay? i said i wasnt happy as personnally i have more morals than that she said if she wanted him she could have him and would be in the right in doing so. She also got smacked in the face at a party i had by her sister because she was in my bedroom with this guy supposidly "talking", would your sister do this if you were talking? all my friends have to be hers and if 1 of my friends gets me a gift she always pipes up "wheres mine" She has to have all the phone numbers of my male friends and calls them. She uses my house as a doss house where she has bought a couple of guys back to as she lives with her rents. She then said that she was she was such a good friend as she gives me lifts home sumtimes and told me that i make everything about me?
2007-06-13 01:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's completley jealous of you and has to have everything you have! Also, it sounds like she has low self esteem and tries to lift it by being inappropriate with guys. She sounds like a troll. Her own sister feels the need to slap her in the face - thats saying something. I'd have nothing to do with her unless she was willing to completley change her ways!
2007-06-13 01:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend is thriving for attention and doesn't know how to get her own so is feeding off of yours. Feel and believe the type of friends you want and those are the type of friends you will attract. As for the "boyfriend", a true friend, even if you didn't want him, wouldn't make attempts at him without first talking to you for your feelings on it. You could see it this way, she wants to be just like you and cannot find friends on her own. Is this the type of person you want to be connected to? Are you a strong, free willed, outgoing friendly person who has plenty of friends that you made on your own, not by "picking them up from other friends"? If so, she's not the type of person you want and I would move on to bigger and better things in life.
2007-06-13 08:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by ldysherm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is really not your friend, trust me I had one of those types of friends before. She would offer to do all kinds of things for you but in reality she is double crossing you and you don't even know it. Lucky for me - my friends would tell me what was going on behind my back, and my boyfriend (now husband) cursed her out like a dog for trying him. So be careful of the company you keep, sounds to me that she is a lil' jealous of you. And I would let her talk to that rude guy, (bcuz that is what she is doing) - she will get just what she's asng for, she probably helped you out.
2007-06-13 08:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better re-think what the word "friend" means.
This person does not meet my criteria for the word friend.
I think "user" would describe this person.
I can not speak for you...but I would delete this person from my life...and do so very bluntly so there was no doubt that you don't want her around you in any way, shape or form anymore.
Go out there and find some true friends who care about you and don't use you or abuse you as this person is doing.
be cool...
2007-06-13 08:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend! You should tell her that you don't want to be friends anymore. If she gets mad/upset tell her the things that were wrong in your eyes, the things that a real friend wouldn't do.If she sees your point,hopefully she will correct herself and ask for forgiveness.If she doesn't see your point, leave it. Then I would pray for her.That could really get her into trouble 1 day!
2007-06-13 08:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by Devin K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is no friend. A friend would not even come CLOSE to having any type of relationship with "your man". You need to ditch this girl, and tell her to find her own life and quit leaching off of you. Lots of leaches in this world sweetie, don't let them get attached!!
2007-06-13 08:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by mamabair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no. I would say that she isn't a very good friend.. I would cut your losses now and move on. You sound too nice to have someone treat you like that. Remember your self respect and move on : >
Good luck!
2007-06-13 08:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a psycho control freak. Any woman that insists on taking all your friends is not a friend. Dump her big time.
2007-06-13 08:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ERK!!! I DUNNO what i should too!As a friend its good to be freinds whether good or bad just be friends BUT
just watch out of course even the best friends could STab you in the back right so be friends (watch out though)
2007-06-13 08:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by john need account 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you tell him the **** off then you tell her the **** off and stop talking to both of them and why would you give her yo numbers that you get from other boys and by the way
NO SHE IS NOT YO FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-13 08:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋