Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

hey would you date a transexual? My female friend is looking into having the full works of tran-gender. She feels she is in the wrong body. Just wondering if any females would date a transexual man? Or would you stay in a relationship if you found out that your boyfriend was once a female?

2007-06-13 07:54:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need help. Our anniversary will be on a weekend which is perfect b/c then we can even fly to a destination just for the weekend. As long as its romantic. Please do not give me general ideas like "take her to dinner". I need concrete ideas- my wife thinks I cannot be romantic. Thanks.

2007-06-13 07:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by onlineboy33 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-13 07:54:07 · 29 answers · asked by NONIE M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 07:51:59 · 3 answers · asked by Green eyed Senorita 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm working on developing a relationship with him, he doesn't know that I know he has feelings for me or that I have feelings for him. I don't want to push him away. What are some things I don't want to do, things that might push him away?

(I'm somewhat introverted myself, but I don't know how guys think so please help me out here!)

2007-06-13 07:51:05 · 11 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i decided to break up and remain friends since he was distant with me and later i found out that our different religions were on his mind, and he didn't want to go against his parents and religion by being with me. I am aware of the rules in his religion and so agreed to remain friends as i want him in my life regardless.

I met him for the first time yesterday since the split 3 weeks ago. We just spent the day together and had fun. No awkwardness or anything. We spoke of random things. He's as he was before just without the physical contact.

I like the way it was, and he wants to meet up again in a couple of days. He's in the area for a couple of weeks - it's was a long distance relationship. After that i don't know what will happen.

I'm not sure what to think?.. is this normal?? can it all be this easy to break up and act like best friends so soon after? is this situation going to end up hurting me? i'm very confused and don't want to make a mistake!

2007-06-13 07:50:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i personally dont see anything wrong with having someone who is a friend (a girl) with benefits....now i know people want to having a meaningful relationship nowadays, but if i have a friend who i loved dearly, and she feels the exact same way, and we can trust each other with doing "it" ...then can someone explain to me how come im getting such negative feedback with this? i have had three relationships, and they lasted a while, but didnt work out for a number of reasons. she has had 6, but they have fizzed out too. i think we both just click in everyway, shape and form and this has been going on over a year and it keeps getting better! so why are so many people frowning about something that WORKS!?!

2007-06-13 07:46:30 · 7 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

When i was a teenager i was only interested in very tall guys, but now that i'm a bit older i can't stop fantasizing about how it would feel like to be with a shorter guy. I can't stop thinking about it and the more i think about it, the more examples i come up with of guys i didn't wanna go out with in the past cause they were shorter than me. I feel so stupid now, i really can't forgive myself for those misjudgements. Of course i didn't insult them or dump them, it's just that when they showed interest in me, i didn't show interest in them cause i thought it was somehow wrong or inappropriate to be with a guy who is shorter than the girl.

2007-06-13 07:46:04 · 23 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

A comment another user made about everyone using the same colors for their wedding made me wonder. What colors did you use/are you going to use for your wedding? What made you choose those colors? If you could change, would you and what would you choose instead? What were colors you have seen used at weddings? Have there been multiple weddings using the same colors you have attended? I have heard a lot of the regular wedding posters on Yahoo answers mention some of the same colors, so I want to find out what the general consensus is. Just curious! Thanks guys!

2007-06-13 07:45:57 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-13 07:45:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently dating a Japanese guy who recently moved here. He is very sweet and calls me everyday. Everytime we go out he says he is broke, but later on brags about buying designer clothes. We met on Thursday, hungout on Sunday and on Monday night/Tuesday morning he said he wants to be my boyfriend. That Tuesday he had to leave to Florida to visit a friend he knows from online. Is it just me or does something seem very fishy?

2007-06-13 07:45:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...with other girls

2007-06-13 07:43:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We decided not to do corsages for our wedding. I just think they are an old fashioned tradition and kind of 'fuddy-duddy'. For some reason his brother does not agree at all. My mom asked if we could do without, and his grandmother is glad she doesn't have to wear one. This is what his brother had to say:

"About the flowers..... I didn't mention that to Eric in yesterday's conversation. I asked him about that about a month ago. I asked him why you guys weren't doing them.... Again, not giving my mom, grandmother flowers is disrespectful. This is where Eric came from and not including them in the ceremony is disrespectful. They need to be honored as part of the two families joining together."

How would you respond to that? Or maybe you even think he's right?

2007-06-13 07:38:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I like this guy ryt but im shy 2 go and tell him bcuz he is always with my cuzin's n ma ex bf so what can i do 2 show i like him

ne suggestions jus holla bk pls

fnx

2007-06-13 07:38:36 · 13 answers · asked by Nimz B 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i've been best best friends with this one guy for maybe 6 years..he just moved away, and then emailed me telling me he really really has liked me all this time but he didn't tell me bcause he was afraid! why are guys afraid to tell girls how they feel? haven't you heard of, you'll never know until you ask?!

2007-06-13 07:38:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 07:35:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am confused.should l go ahead with the relationship

2007-06-13 07:34:11 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 8yr old niece likes to run around the house nude….is this normal? She does this at our house before bath time. Plus, I caught her rubbing “herself “on the arm of the couch...I told my wife and she thinks this is normal, I think could be a sign of abuse? Do I need to call DFC? Let her mom know?, this seems weird.

2007-06-13 07:33:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

can't get this girl out of my head or my heart we knew each other since we both was 11 year old, I have always loved her and we had our proubles in the past she ask me out then told everone she didn't i was picked on by all her friends then I did some silly things back to her because I was hurted then she went out with my friend and both of them used to wait till I come back from school and stand outside my house kissing and doing sex things which yea it hurted me then everthing went to court it was 2 of them vs me and I won the court they use to stand out of my house ever day for 2 full years (1998-2000) once Isaid Hi to her when no one won't with her then she smiled and said Hi back anyway after the court we haven't seen each other untill this past march we both walked each other in town and we both just stop and looking at each other in the eyes then this posh guy got her hand and walked past me, why does it hurt me so bad i know i should move on but it hurts to bad i love her

2007-06-13 07:27:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to have a best friend who is a girl, and also have a physical relationship with her w/out having any strings attached? i do go out and hang with friends, work, family and all that...so does she, but if we have this physical attraction with each other and we have tried 3 times over the course of one full year to try and not do anything physical with each other and it JUST doesnt work, what is wrong?
am i missing something? is it wrong not to want to have a "real" mate minus the drama and all other things that come with a relationship? it seems we both like this setup, and i dont see anything wrong with it. but id like to know all thoughts about this.

2007-06-13 07:26:51 · 2 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 07:26:18 · 19 answers · asked by pernica 1 in Family

We are both in our twenties, and he's a very protective older brother. But, he doesn't treat me as an adult, and neither does he act like one. We like acting goofy with each other, and I love him to death. But, our personalities are not the same. He's more of the laid-back type, while I'm more "aggressive", I guess. Anyway, I feel bad for snapping back at him. We met after a long time (he lives a little far), but it was he who brought up the quarrel. I didn't talk to him for one whole day, and now I feel like a bad sister. I've been trying to talk to him, but he doesn't appear too willing. I feel guilty 'cos when he tried it this morning, I appeared kinda mad.

What do I do? Am I overreacting? He and I are the only ones in the family, besides our parents, and when he goes back, I don't want him to take bad memories with him.

2007-06-13 07:21:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend brendas husband went 2 jail about a month ago, and she got caught sleeping with my husbands friend anthony. so my husband does not want me to associate with her anymore, nor does he want 2 associate with his friend. the thing is brenda husband is good friends with my husband. so the other day brenda called me needing a ride cuz she ran out of gas, so my husband told her 2 call anthony. so she hung up and called me back talking ****, saying i am a bad friend & that my man is a cheater that we shouldnt be friends no more. fine. so about 20 min later my friend carol called me, apparently brenda ***** a$$ told her i was talking ****. so whatever me and carol will talk it out. but doesnt it sound like she is trying to cause us problems, just so we dont tell her husband. should we tell him, he wasnt even locked up for 2weeks when she slept with anthony. keep in mind, my hubby is good friend with brendas husband, should we tell him? or just keep it a secret?

2007-06-13 07:21:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am 5'6' mixed with black and white (my skin is light you know white light) I have blue eyes curly mixed brown and blond hair all natural with high lights. My weight now is 148, I was 130 before my baby but hey I am working on it everyday at the gym I was 155 after baby was born 6 months ago. I have a nice body not to big not to small. Anyway am smart, young 21 I only got to my 1st year of college, going back in the fall, major accounting, I have a good job better than most my age. I pay my way no money from mom, dad or my little ones dad. I am independent. I am always told I am a sweetheart by friend, co workers, and the ex. I am not a clubber, drinker, smoker or cheater. I cook, clean, and take the best care you my baby. By now you are wondering what is your point? I am still a dateable person after a baby would someone want me with a baby. I want to be loved I a want a relationship can I still get it is there hope?

2007-06-13 07:20:52 · 18 answers · asked by gia00601 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 07:18:12 · 10 answers · asked by valley girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer large breast or small?
Fake or real?

2007-06-13 07:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by Punk Rock Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this couple for about 2 years.Me and his wife work together.I went to their house to calm myself down. After some bad news. I just didn't want to be alone. She joked about giving her husband to me. And telling him he could go live with me. trying to get myself together, she told him to take me to the hottube for a while. We did. The sexual tension was so intense. We went back inside. I told him I didn't trust myself being alone with him. He says, 2 people have to agree in order for anything to happen. When we got inside his wife, 2 kids and my daughter were fast asleep. We put a movie on and hung out. His wife works the noc shift and had to work. I went to leave when she did but told me to stay the night. After she left, He kept kissing me. Telling me he wanted me.We started having sex. I told him to stop. All I could do was cry. I felt bad. And the ony things he said were, don't fall in love with me and never tell me you love me.Help.I don't want to lose her.

2007-06-13 07:14:43 · 46 answers · asked by justme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yes dress up fun play or not adding the look to my dress sence .

2007-06-13 07:13:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it a big deal for guys to have strippers at a bachelor party why does it bother the bride to be so damn much?

2007-06-13 07:13:00 · 24 answers · asked by hoehoe 1 in Weddings

When my bf and I have a dsiagreement I want to talk about and make sure that we understand each other. He wants to not talk about or forget about it. Why? Why do men like to have open issues?

2007-06-13 07:09:14 · 47 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Marriage & Divorce