Ok I am 5'6' mixed with black and white (my skin is light you know white light) I have blue eyes curly mixed brown and blond hair all natural with high lights. My weight now is 148, I was 130 before my baby but hey I am working on it everyday at the gym I was 155 after baby was born 6 months ago. I have a nice body not to big not to small. Anyway am smart, young 21 I only got to my 1st year of college, going back in the fall, major accounting, I have a good job better than most my age. I pay my way no money from mom, dad or my little ones dad. I am independent. I am always told I am a sweetheart by friend, co workers, and the ex. I am not a clubber, drinker, smoker or cheater. I cook, clean, and take the best care you my baby. By now you are wondering what is your point? I am still a dateable person after a baby would someone want me with a baby. I want to be loved I a want a relationship can I still get it is there hope?
2007-06-13 07:20:52 · 18 answers · asked by gia00601 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is not a ad/ Dating profile, i don't want any one right now i just would like to know. AND NO ONE CAN RELPACE HER DAD OR MOM, NO ONE CAN TAKE CARE OF MY BABY LIKE ME.
2007-06-13 07:22:29 · update #1
woman at one point in my life my son's father made me feel like this after having a baby one man would not want me or made me feel love.Trust i believed him, but then someone made realise that it ain't so
right now i've found some one who has accepted me and my son and you should not worry there are men out there who will take u in and make a life with you
so don't give up on hope
2007-06-13 07:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by treekgomon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say there is one person out there for everyone. A lot of people will say looks are the most important thing or focus on looks, but it's all about who you are inside and how you feel about yourself. If you feel that you are dateable and that you have a lot to offer someone, then you are. When I started dating my wife she had just had a baby. We've been together for 13 years now and that baby is now and will always be my son. You have to make sure that you remember that you have another life that you are responsible for. Good luck to you.
2007-06-13 07:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by sportsfanstl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated women with children, and they dated me. My current wife knew I had kids before we even went out on our first date. So my answer is...by the sounds of your description (the part about mixed race is irrelevant in my opinion but I understand your point) and only by the sounds of your description...you would definitely have been someone I would have wanted to date. Problem is..you sound too good to be interested in someone like me...which is exactly what I thought my wife would think. Stupid me huh? Insecurity can hit anyone, at any time...then something happens to show you how wrong you are. Don't get too down on yourself, if you want it, it will happen when you least expect it! I'm living proof!
2007-06-13 07:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is hope, when you find the right person he will be mature, and on a similar intelligence level, nothing less will make you happy, but living together in your place wouldnt work because you sound like you would'nt cope with having your space invaded, and most guys would resent that!
2007-06-13 07:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask what is the big hurry to find a man? I mean, you did say you are independent. Enjoy that! You don't want a man to f*** things up for you!! And also, you are very young. Don't get too upset until you're in your 80s and still don't have anybody.
2007-06-13 07:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have it all under control, and then some. Power to you! Good work.
When you are ready to date, you will find the one. Not to worry. You sound like a great catch!
Continue on the path that you are on, it's the right one. The rest will come naturally.
Good luck, take care.
2007-06-13 07:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear god yes. You sound very cool, kids don't matter to many guys out there. Allso your 'issues' create is just another filter for the pricks out there. You'll find a good one eventually, just don't get overanxious and setting for someone who's 'close enough'. K? You got what it takes for sure.
2007-06-13 07:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are not looking for guys for not anything. Just intercourse. But, shoot no longer even that at the moment. A lady can also be unbiased and deal with herself. In my opinion, ladies are bigger off! lol.
2016-09-05 15:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by canaday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a real man would take you with a child.But you have to understand any man will have sex with you with or without a child, But the real men will love you and have a relationship with you.
2007-06-13 07:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a nice booty, and are easy on the eyes you should have no problem at all... but if you look like Shreck's sister, you got problems....
Just don't look for someone, it always happens when you are not looking... thats becasue the guy and you will drop everything at first sight to meet one another.... that's magic... Hey maybe there is a Shreck out there for you!
2007-06-13 07:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋