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Am confused.should l go ahead with the relationship

2007-06-13 07:34:11 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

47 answers

NO, you're married. Grow up and go take a cold shower.

2007-06-13 07:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 8 1

Hell no, how would you feel if some other lady was coming on to your husband?
This guy is using your position to his advantage and it wouldn't be a relationship, just sex, plain and simple.
Dont get dragged into "while the cat's away the mouse will play" game, it will end in tears along with your marriage.
Best thing you can do is avoid this guy from now on and dont give into the urge to merge unless it's with the man you married!

2007-06-13 08:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0 0

The guy who is asking is nothing but a chancing scumbag who is playing the field--and YOU are next on his list deary! My fellow answerer's have ALL given good, practical advice to you, so i won't bother--what i WILL say is that you have to get rid of this mangy dog before your world turns upside down, and for sure it will! This bathscum will use you then drop you when he has got what he wants from you, and he will then move on to the next willing, lonely, vulnerable 'victim'. Stick to your marriage, the vows you took WITH the man you love, and do not have anything to do with this chancer, this player, this poor excuse for a man--your husband is the real man, just be patient, all good things come to those that wait:-)

2007-06-13 21:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just because you are lonely, is no reason to have an affair. Why is you husband far away?. Is he in the service, or just working out of town?. How would you feel is your husband had the same idea, having an affair because he is so far away?. Live with it, and show him how much you missed him when he returns, and he might not want to leave you alone again.

2007-06-13 07:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by harold 4 · 0 0

you know the answer to your question, dont you? DO NOT CHEAT ON YOUR HUSBAND.
when you got married, you took a vow to be faithful dont forget that vow.
you should occupy your mind with work and activities. if you are having sexual urges I suggest you call your husband every night(if its possible) and make love over the phone. you need to control your feelings
if you cant help it, you might have to save up and go visit your husband (if its possible).
the last advise i have for you if to buy a vibrator and have a good time every night. it helps

2007-06-13 07:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by zizi 2 · 0 0

Do you really want people to answer this? Honestly, I believe that you have already made up your mind. But if you really want to know "should" you do it? NO. And you know that it is wrong.
It is morally wrong to cheat on your husband (remember... through good and bad to have and to hold)
Take a cold shower and have GREAT phone sex with your hubby. Knock his sox off when he comes home.
My guess is that you already did it, or are going to anyway.

2007-06-13 07:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by 2damcute 1 · 0 0

you have two choices really, both of which involve money, either buy a rabbit (pretty cheap in the grand scheme of things) or hire a solicitor (which is anything but cheap!) because at sometime the truth will come out and you will need one.
always best to remember what goes around comes around.

2007-06-14 01:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sure.

And of course the same would apply to him. If he should happen to meet some young, atractive blonde while he's so far away, you wouldn't mind if he went to bed with her...would you??

Sweetie, go buy something with batteries and tell this other guy to shove off.

2007-06-13 07:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just remember you married and how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot?Ann summers products are good for sexual urges,trust me my partner goes away fishing allot!

2007-06-13 07:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

please dont do it. It will be the start of a very horrible, stressful mess for all of you. You need to speak to your husband and if things arent working out for you then decide together to go your seperate ways. I believe that what goes around comes around so live life honestly and treat people how you would like to be treated.

2007-06-13 07:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

NO!
dear god no.
do not betray your husbands trust for one primal urge.
hell, he'll be back eventualy.
if you can, call him, talk to him about it, and come up with some "inovative" ways of dealing with it. (the internet is for webcams?)
you always have pictures of him and ten fingers as somone else here put it.

but cheating on your husband for one primal urse will NEVER be worth the shame you will feel around him afterwords. even if he never knows.

2007-06-13 07:43:57 · answer #11 · answered by fanoaa 2 · 1 0

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