Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

2007-06-13 09:52:48 · 22 answers · asked by gracie0828 1 in Family

pls share ur view on it................

2007-06-13 09:51:18 · 16 answers · asked by sume 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 22, just graduated college and I have slept with more girls than most people will have birthdays

2007-06-13 09:50:45 · 74 answers · asked by aristotle 2 in Singles & Dating

Cussing allowed?

2007-06-13 09:47:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I had been dating almost a year. Some small problems, but we talked and decided to work on them.Then a few days ago, he just broke up with me. It was pretty out of the blue, and he just said that there is something he needed to do and can't while we're together. He's had a history of smoking weed, but it seems so long ago, I hadn't even remembered all the trouble from it. I just don't know how to take this; is he going to start smoking again, or get together with someone to see if he even cares about me? He then told me later that it would take 3 weeks to a month for him to do this thing that he won't tell me. Am I expected to just wait around for him after all this? In three weeks am I just supposed to forget it all went on? I just wish I knew what he "needs to do alone" and what I should do once he's done it. I can't think of any reasons that I could understand it. Has anyone gone through this? I miss him, but I don't know if all this should be easily forgiven.

2007-06-13 09:47:10 · 11 answers · asked by sparklenfin 3 in Singles & Dating

That's what we want sometimes right? Spice things up! What are some ways, don't matter what they are. Let me hear these ideas or experiences.

2007-06-13 09:45:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 09:44:27 · 5 answers · asked by John S 1 in Friends

spouse owns house and been married for 25 yrs--no pre-nup --do I own half?

2007-06-13 09:44:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 09:41:10 · 2 answers · asked by rochelle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have more than enough money to move down there, and get settled till i can get another job, and she's flipping out at me, saying that i'm being selfish, immature, and irrisponsible by moving. she's always trying to control me and live my life for me. I'm moving away so that i can live my life, and make my own mistakes...why can't she just see that?

2007-06-13 09:39:17 · 11 answers · asked by Coolies 1 in Family

Save the date, announcements, RSVP (What does this mean??). What is it that I need to send out? What goes with what? Is there a website that explains this in detail? Do I need to send notes to people I want to be in the wedding? May I just ask them? How soon should I send these? How soon should I get a response?

2007-06-13 09:38:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

for the kids? I know a couple w/ 3 kids who have a few luxuries and I knwo for a fact that they, together, at least 100K annually. They also tell their kids they can't afford things and tell us that they are not wealthy at all. Any of you ever heard of this?

2007-06-13 09:38:08 · 1 answers · asked by sklinckyy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hypothetically speaking.... You cheat, he/she will never know, do you say something? Or do you keep it to yourself?

2007-06-13 09:38:05 · 29 answers · asked by boomquisha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal to fantasize about other people? Do you ever feel you want to act on it? How do you make the feelings stop?

2007-06-13 09:37:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not upset that he does it....I am upset that he hides it from me. He thinks because he deletes it out of the history that there is no record of it. I ask him if he did it and he has said no repeatedly. Why does he lie when I don't get mad about the porn....should I be mad because he lies??

2007-06-13 09:36:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone notice that the mother in laws that have issues with there daughter in laws don't have a great marriage. Why is it that the daughter in laws get along with there father in laws? Do you think it's becasue the fil do not meddle in the marriage and blame the dil for there son not wanting to be around them like the mil do? What are your thoughts?

2007-06-13 09:36:37 · 5 answers · asked by Kat G 6 in Family

I love him dearly!! But I have to think of my future here! I'm gonna need help with mortgage payments and bills once we get married! I told him I would not make any marriage plans until he's settled at a job... I can't do it all on my own and I'm sick of him not working! He tries and looks for jobs but I think he can try harder. He's the type that would NEVER work at a fruitmarket or McDonalds just to get paid. I feel he has no choice at this point.

2007-06-13 09:35:24 · 59 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeing a lot of post's where people are saying they have sex with their boyfriend or girlfriend, what makes that ok? honestly if you are gonna get married with that person, why have pre-marital sex? he(she) can still leave you, and then what? you have a baby and he(she) is having a normal life, and how would you feel getting a girl pregnant but not loving her so you leave her? how would you validate your excuses for leaving a child without a father? I just don't think thats ok because you're saying your commitment for that person goes only as far as the bed.

2007-06-13 09:33:54 · 13 answers · asked by WhyANickname? 1 in Singles & Dating

so, this guy isn't interested in me after all. i never really thought he was that good looking, i got bad vibes from him and i never considered getting serious with him. we didn't hang out much, but WHY THE HELL am i still hurt that he doesn't like me? my mind says "who cares" while my heart is hurting. i just don't get how he couldn't like me. not to toot my own horn or anything, but i am a GREAT girl...so toot toot!

2007-06-13 09:33:37 · 4 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3 in Singles & Dating

he just being mean to me one time he push me but i was ok he didnt hurt the baby or notting but still its not right for him is it? becuse he has cancer so dose he have the right to do that? and do i keep him as a boyfriend what do i do about my baby? what can i do he also has cancer is that ok then if he hits me ?

2007-06-13 09:30:58 · 93 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and are pregnant now by another man,can you give that child your maiden name? my ex-daughterinlaw finds herself in this situation.she and my son have 2 little girls together.she was seeing someone and did not realize he was married and also into drugs, so he will not be involved in his sons life.she has said she is using her maiden name because the father wants nothing to do with it or her.can she do this? it would be wrong to stick our family name on a child who is not of our blood.my son has remarried and would never accept her bi-racial child under any circumstances.i find this hard cause my 2 grand daughters are of course excited about having a baby brother.i just dont want world war 3 over this and i dont want my son to be ridiculed for his ex wifes choices,any advice?

2007-06-13 09:30:25 · 2 answers · asked by dixie58 7 in Marriage & Divorce

So this girl and I have been friends going on four or five years now. She has a fiance who I don't know so well, but her and I get along really well. About two months ago, I realized that I was in love with her and resolved, after much stomach-churning, to let her know. She didn't seem off-put, but of course, she's taken.

So yeah, I guess my questions are as follows:

- I feel morally wrong about my love for her. Being in love with someone who is taken, it makes me feel like a homewrecker or something. Is this normal?

- Is it wrong to kinda root for them to break up? It makes me feel like a terrible friend, heh.

- Should I continue to pursue my feelings for her or try my hardest to just stay friends, as painful as that is?

Thanks.

2007-06-13 09:29:19 · 8 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, In school, I really like this girl but I am not sure if she likes me... Its just some of the things she does that makes me wonder so I will list them and see what you guys think, if she loves me or not or likes me or watever.

+ When she sits behind me she pokes me with a pen and plays with my hair and then smiles when i turn round and laugh at her.

+ When I do something funny she laughs

+ I said to my friend, get up and give me the seat (joking to him) and she said, you can come and sit on my knee but I dont think your girlfriend would like that, with a smile

+ She grabbed my arm and said lets go to class

+ She always aaawwws when I do something wrong.

+ She laughs and says I love annoying you but joking

+ She messes up my spiked hair and when it goes all fluffy she says its cute

+ She talks about me to everyone.

+ She often grabs, touches and pushes me gently.

2007-06-13 09:26:31 · 4 answers · asked by Nico C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hes really cute and im pretty attractive but i dont know what to do to get his attention!! what should i wear, say, do to impress him?!! please help :] thanks!

2007-06-13 09:24:12 · 10 answers · asked by Angiee 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom chopped of her shoulder length beautiful hair as I feared into a bowl cut. Her back and sides have been clipper shaved all the way to her crown, Her bang are quarter thro' her forehead. To sum it up her head looks lke a fountain.IT's ALL BECAUSE OF HER STUPID JEALOUS ******* FRIEND(refer to my prvious entry yesterday). To add insult to injury my friends think she's cool, she herself likes it and her friend doesn't stop flattering my mom on how young she looks.Am I thhe only one dissatisfied with it or is everybody playing along with my mom. She even streaked her mophead with colours. She looks like a 16 year old teenage girl when she's supposed to the mom of a 17 yr old. I am sick of it. Anyway thanks for all ur suggestion guys but I couldn't stop this **** from happening. I threatened her of cutting my hair akwardly if she goes thro' with it and do u know the reply i got "It's ur hair do what u want with it but u don't interfere with my hair as I don't with urs". I feel sad.

2007-06-13 09:22:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay so i was inlove with this one dude n then i stopped likin him....esrased his number from my phone book, n everything.....feelings came back n i wanted to have a friend call him for me but she couldn at the time......so after i talked to him for myself! after that i didnt like him but now one of my friends likes him n i dont care but she thinks i do......n she doesnt believe me that i dont have his number!Plus me n her have had some trouble in the past! So like i dont knoe what to do!!!!

2007-06-13 09:22:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like it's happened a thousand times -- girl online tells me I'm cute, seems interested in meeting up, we exchange a couple emails, then.... Disappears. Never returns another email, IM, etc. What's up with that?

2007-06-13 09:21:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do men LIKE threesomes? I'm talking about two guys and a girl. My husband loves them (he's straight, just likes seeing me with other men), but the person we've had them with in the past doesn't seem to like them as he only wants me by himself. Is that normal for a guy? Do guys really care how they get it?

2007-06-13 09:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the scenario...a divorce situation, but paperwork isn't filed yet. The lease in an apartment is up in a month. The husband is moving out, says he wants to take the kids (one an infant, the other 2 years old), the mom doesn't agree to it. He says he is going to shut the power, phones, etc when he moves out. She spends all day trying to find a job, has yet to find one. Only family she has to move in with is out of state. What can/should she do? It sounds like he is abandoning them.

2007-06-13 09:19:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 09:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by markus424@ameritech.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships